In my works (the e-book about how to escape the inceldom and the articles about inceldom and incels) I never focus on useless things as blaming the women; of course, I can notice some facts that they're now more picky or with different tastes than before, or that they're more materialistic, etc., but the focus of my works is to make incels (including the female incels) to realize that the key is to improve themselves, "to maxx" themselves in every possible way. This is the most safe, honest, fair method. I'm against all those aggressive, totalitarian, religious, revolutionary, violent methods that want to oppress the women (or the men, when it comes from those ultra-feminists' thinking).
The metapill philosophy based on the atleastism states this (in a nutshell): once you're an incel (no matter male (malecel) or female (femcel)) you can't blame others because they can't control their taste, falling in love, etc. The best choice is to start realizing it and to start to improve everything that you can and/or to compensate it with improving in other areas. For example, you're balding so you can build more muscles (gymmaxxing); you're fat, so you can lose weight; you're short but you can try to earn more money, to become a bodybuilder (moneymaxx, gymmaxx) or just move to some country where most of the people are around your height (geomaxx; locationmaxx).
You don't like each and every person. So you can't expect each and everyone to like you. If nobody likes you then you surely have to try to improve yourself, to be your better version of yourself (the best is -- your best version of yourself) and then there will be at least one person who will like you (and you will like her/him too). If you're 1/10, after you maxx yourself (improve yourself) with all possible means (gym, money, knowledge, education, popularity, etc.) you'll be at least 3/10. If you're 3/10 you can maxx yourself up to 5/10 or 6/10. These levels are enough to attract from "a few" to "many" potential love partners.