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Why some of the incels are right that the personality is overrated
« on: September 15, 2022, 05:42:00 PM »

Those incels who think that the personality is overrated are right


  I want to tell you that the personality is important (especially for the long-term relationships) and I don't reject its importance. But there are those incels who're right that many people (including some of the incels themselves) tend to overrate the personality (the psychology) of the people. In the oneitis thread it was mentioned already. Here I'll explain it very clearly. :)
 Let's start with the normies first. Many of them are really bluepillers and think that to be attractive means just to improve your personality and to take some minimal care like taking showers, wearing good clothes and having a job. When someone who is with the right personality, showered, well-dressed and working in a good company, but too ugly approaches them they will be like "Oh, no, sorry! You are fine but you're not my type."
 Now, let's continue with the incels. Some of them do think that if they don't accept every woman that likes them, they're volcels and they don't want to be volcels so they're ready to accept everybody. They even imagine that if there is that woman who is with the normal personality and not going to cheat, everything is 100% sure. Then when some really ugly and/or fat cames, the incels will feel shocked and start with "But I... also can have some minimal standards! She is a landwhale! I can't perceive her as a woman. She is even not 1/10! She is 0.1/10! She is 0.01/10! No way!"

 

So, where is the problem?


The problem is simple. Most of the people just imagine somebody who is at least a little attractive. And then they start to believe that this little attractive person if has got the right personality and has those minimal “musts" like be clean, don't be smelly, don't be homeless, etc., then he/she will be accepted by most of the people. Well, they just don't realize that there are people who're to ugly and/or disgusting and/or scary (creepy) and keep saying that personality is all that matters but when they meet somebody like that, they realize that the personality isn't everything. ;D
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Re: Why some of the incels are right that the personality is overrated
« Reply #1 on: September 16, 2022, 05:02:38 AM »
Looks > personality.

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Re: Why some of the incels are right that the personality is overrated
« Reply #2 on: September 17, 2022, 02:03:02 AM »
Looks > personality.

You'll say that until you turn into a senior (50 and above).

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Re: Why some of the incels are right that the personality is overrated
« Reply #3 on: September 17, 2022, 02:48:27 AM »
 "Looks > personality" means that most of the females will choose the more handsome man, not the man with the better personality. It means we're living in a lookism world.
 But, yes, the elder people (usually) are more wiser so they will value more the personality than the looks (and still, everyone is going to choose or hoping to find at least not ugly person. The very ugly ones are chanceless as far as they don't take some care and at least to improve their bodies and health... well, and wealth).
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Re: Why some of the incels are right that the personality is overrated
« Reply #4 on: September 17, 2022, 02:50:37 AM »
"Looks > personality" means that most of the females will choose the more handsome man, not the man with the better personality. It means we're living in a lookism world.
 But, yes, the elder people (usually) are more wiser so they will value more the personality than the looks (and still, everyone is going to choose or hoping to find at least not ugly person. The very ugly ones are chanceless as far as they don't take some care and at least to improve their bodies and health... well, and wealth).

He didn't provide clarity so I said whatever's on my mind. Expect me to be brutally honest or downright hilarious depending on what kind of reply I'm given.

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Re: Why some of the incels are right that the personality is overrated
« Reply #5 on: September 22, 2022, 04:11:48 AM »
 Recently I decided to do the same -- being brutally honest. This is what is called genuinity. I know it's not the safest thing and I know it creates enemies. But  I am not going to die in lie.I even made my honest COVID 0 protest which not everyone dare to do especially when he/she is still in China. I didn't do it because I want to show how brave I am. I did it because I want to be genuine and to say how much I feel and think that it's wrong.
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