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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What is "matchcucks"

« on: September 22, 2022, 03:43:52 AM »

I don't know if the local polititians you're talking about had in mind exactly their private intimate live when changed the law. Another possible explanation is the acceleration Acceleration in human development process is the phenomenon which has been registered in many populations around the world. This applies equally to the growth of certain anthropometric parameters and the speed of reaching sexual maturity. These facts illustrate the results of secular changes in body height and appearance of the first menstruation.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What is "agecuck"

« on: September 22, 2022, 03:34:38 AM »

 It depends if you take into account her age. I never asked her age (becuase you maybe already know me -- for me the age is just a number and a sort of social construct) but according to her looks, she is maybe the age of your grandmother. (You said you're a young girl so I suppose your grandma is something like her). And because most of the grandmas are not so pretty as the young girls (and the younger selves), you can guess that she isn't someone who I can perceive as "pretty" but I don't think she is some ugly or scary woman; she is just a normal, average elder woman. (I am objective and I am not like her -- when get angry to somebody to start to speak bad things about him/her; it's so childish For example, a week or two ago you speak to somebody how he's genuine, gifted, clever or something like this, and when you get upset you're telling him or her that she/he's stupid and other bad words... -- so, honestly I can't say something bad like "Oh, she is hell ugly! Blah-blah!" and I just can rate her objectively like a person with an average face (and maybe, body too, I don't know), i. e. a solid 5/10 woman, for her age).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What is "matchcucks"

« on: September 22, 2022, 03:18:23 AM »

 "Minor" is kind of subjective because the age is a sort of social construct. For example, see this map (shows Europe, part of Africa and part of Asia) -- in some countries 13 years old are already legally okay to have even physical love but in others it's 20 years old... there are also those who said "only after the marriage"...
 So , everything depends on the local laws.
 Sometimes even in one and the same country something can be illegal and then to become legal and vice versa (at first it's legal and then it's illegal).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / About that E. person

« on: September 22, 2022, 03:04:36 AM »

 At the beginning I thought that she is really going to be nice and to help, to be a friend. She was the one who offered her friendship and potential help. Later I found out that she's even not reading all of the content that I sent to her (according to her comments Just an example -- I won a chess game. And I told her "Another example why I try even when it seems 0  chance: I ｗｏｎ　ａｇａｉｎｓｔ　ｔｈｉｓ　Iｎｄｉａｎ　ｐｌａｙｅｒ　ｅｖｅｎ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ａ　ｑｕｅｅｎ： (screenshot sent). ．　Uｓｕａｌｌｙ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ａ　ｑｕｅｅｎ　（ｔｈｅ　ｍｏｓｔ　ｐｏｗｅｒｆｕｌ　ｐｉｅｃｅ　ｉｎ　ｃｈｅｓｓ）　ｔｈｅ　ｇａｍｅ　ｉｓ　ｏｖｅｒ．　" but she didn't comment it at all) and she's not helping with something practical, something real (of course, I didn't expect her to give me some money when I speak to her about my jobless period and when I am describing my hard life because there are not so many people around the world who can give you cash just because you're in need, but at least I expected she to assist me to find a job or at least a part-time job). I　ｄｉｄｎ＇ｔ　ｋｎｏｗ　ｔｈａｔ　ｓｈｅ　ｉｓ　ｅｘｐｅｃｔｉｎｇ　ｍｅ　（ｔｈｅ　ｐｏｏｒ　ｏｎｅ）　ｔｏ　ｐａｙ　ｈｅｒ　ｆｏｒ　ｔｈｉｓ　ｌｉｔｔｌｅ　ｆａｖｏｒ．　Also, I don't know how her niceness and recognition disappeared so fast. I guess, because I　ｒｅｆｕｓｅｄ　ｔｏ　ｕｓｅ　ｓｏｍｅ　ｒｅａｌｔｏｒ　ｗｈｏ　ｓｈｅ　ｈａｄ　ｉｎ　ｍｉｎｄ．　I  gave her my honest answer:

Yes, I bought an apartment 11 or 12 years ago. I hoped I　ｃａｎ　ｓｅｔｔｌｅ　ｄｏｗｎ　ｈｅｒｅ　ａｎｄ　ｂｅｃｏｍｅ　ａ　ｒｅａｌ　Cｈｉｎｅｓｅ　（ｗｉｔｈ　Cｈｉｎｅｓｅ　ｃｉｔｉｚｅｎｓｈｉｐ）． Didn't know that this dark future is coming...


But I can't just sell it right now and starting to eat up from its money. My rule is "Don't eat your house."

Aｎｄ　ｂｅｆｏｒｅ　I  am sure  I　ｈａｖｅ　ａ　ｓｔａｂｌｅ　ｊｏｂ　ａｂｒｏａｄ，　I  can't sell it so willingly...

Well, at the end, if here the COVID 0 madness continues endlessly, I　ｈａｖｅ　ｔｏ　ｓｅｌｌ　ｉｔ　ａｎｄ　ｔｏ　ｌｅａｖｅ　ｔｈｅ　ｈｅｌｌ　ｅｖｅｎ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ｊｏｂ．　(sad)

But realtors charge too expensive; I understand 90% of the Chinese characters, so I　ｃａｎ　ｄｅａｌ　ｄｉｒｅｃｔｌｙ　ｗｉｔｈ　ｔｈｅ　ｓｅｌｌｉｎｇ；　ｔｈｅｒｅ　ａｒｅ　ｍａｎｙ　ｎｅｉｇｈｂｏｒｓ　（ｍｏｒｅ　ｔｈａｎ　１０）　ｗｈｏ＇ｒｅ　ｗｉｌｌｉｎｇ　ｔｏ　ｐａｙ　ｍｅ　ｄｉｒｅｃｔｌｙ　３００　０００　ｔｏ　３５０　０００　ｙｕａｎ．

Aｓ　ａ　ｒｅａｓｏｎａｂｌｅ－ａｎｄ－ｐｏｏｒ　ｍａｎ　I  should avoid realtors. (thumb up)

Yeah, there are those men who think "Why?! It's only a small %, you'll pay them only 15 000 yuan!" Gosh (sweat), did they know HOW　MUCH　ｉｓ　１５　０００　ｆｏｒ　ｍｅ？　Fｏｒ　ｔｈｅｓｅ　(thumb down)ｒｉｃｈ　ｂａｓｔａｒｄｓ(thumb down)　ｉｔ＇ｓ　ｌｉｋｅ　１　ｗｅｅｋ　ｗｏｒｋ．　Fｏｒ　ｍｅ　ｉｔ＇ｓ　ｍｏｒｅ　ｔｈａｎ　３　ｙｅａｒｓ　ｗｏｒｋ　ｔｏ　ｈａｖｅ　１５　０００　ｙｕａｎ　ｒｉｇｈｔ　ｎｏｗ　（ｗｉｔｈ　ｉｎｃｏｍｅ　ｏｆ　４００－５００　ｙｕａｎ　ｐｅｒ　ｍｏｎｔｈ．）

Sｏ，　ｓａｖｉｎｇ　ｍｏｎｅｙ　ａｓ　ｍｕｃｈ　ａｓ　I  can, including buses, realtors, restaurants, cinemas... just focused to not die from hunger and to have some liquid (tea, water)...

 Note about the word "bastards": in one of its meaning it's not rude, it's just informal and means "a person of a specified kind:
"He was a lucky bastard". (Source: "Oxford Languages" via Bing.)

 As my partner said, she probably hoped that she can earn some percent of the realtor's commission. I wasn't very sure if this is the agenda but after her last words "I don't  work for free" (even when it comes about helping to find a job) I also guess so -- she expected to earn some money from me and when I showed her honestly and clearly that I am not the right person for this she showed her real face and now I know that all those words like " I am concerned. " or "I am so sorry you are having such struggles. " were nothing but a mask. Now we know the real face, the real she.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What is "agecuck"

« on: September 22, 2022, 02:18:15 AM »

 Ah, the book about the 500 rejections! I see now. Well 500 rejections is a problem but at least the book is going to be interesting.
 

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What is "matchcucks"

« on: September 22, 2022, 02:15:32 AM »

 Yes, well said, but what if you see that couple when one is much elder? You will make of them or at least will say it's not right? Yes, I totally believe that in love the "love each other" is the basic and the most important but when there are all those who are against the relationship it's getting more difficult fot the couple.

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Stars / Re: Wang Deshun -- an 80-years old Chinese artist, actor, athlete and model

« on: September 22, 2022, 12:51:27 AM »

 If you're going not to say something about this man and especially if you plan to spam this forum. Ohhhhhhhh, the ban is yours.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / To E. more

« on: September 21, 2022, 04:27:31 PM »

 Sorry for the second offtopic but once we started here... just don't want to offtopic it with a new thread in the forum because E. isn't an anti-incel or pro-incel something. I just answer it in this context that --if you can't help somebody at least don't make his/her life worse.
 Here: she unblocked me to send me some memes (insulting ones "Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.” ― Mark Twain ", "When you blame and criticize others, you are avoiding some truth about yourself."  ― Deepak Chopra, "The worst person to be around is someone who complains about everything and appreciates nothing." )
 Then she blocked me again. She wants only she to send messages but not to read the answers.  Well, I like the right to answer and I　ｗｉｌｌ　ｕｓｅ　ｔｈｉｓ　ｒｉｇｈｔ　ｏｆ　ｍｉｎｅ　ｈｅｒｅ：

Mｙ　ａｎｓｗｅｒｓ：

　About "Silence is better than unnecessary drama.": Hunger is not a drama.
   About the "stupid people":  Thank you for the "stupid“!
   About the rest of the quotes and all this childishness: I am objective and I am honest. Yｏｕ　ｓａｉｄ　I  am genuine. If you honestly told me that  I　ｈａｖｅ　ｔｏ　ｐａｙ　ｙｏｕ　ｍｏｎｅｙ　ｆｏｒ　ｔｈｅ　ｊｏｂ　ｓｅａｒｃｈｉｎｇ　，　I　ｗｏｕｌｄ　ｄｏ　ｉｔ．　I　ｄｉｄｎ＇ｔ　ｋｎｏｗ　ｉｔ　ｃｏｓｔｓ　ｍｏｎｅｙ　ｆｏｒ　ｓｕｃｈ　ａ　ｓｉｍｐｌｅ　ｈｅｌｐ．　I　ａｇｒｅｅ　ｔｏ　ｇｉｖｅ　ｙｏｕ　５０％　ｏｆ　ｍｙ　ｆｉｒｓｔ　ｓａｌａｒｙ．
 I　ａｐｐｒｅｃｉａｔｅ　ｍａｎｙ　ｔｈｉｎｇｓ　ａｎｄ　ｉｆ　ｙｏｕ　ｒｅａｄ　ｃａｒｅｆｕｌｌｙ　ｍｙ　ａｒｔｉｃｌｅｓ，　ｙｏｕ＇ｌｌ　ｋｎｏｗ　ｉｔ．　I　ｃｏｍｐｌａｉｎ　ｏｎｌｙ　　ａｇａｉｎｓｔ　ｔｈｅ　ｃｕｒｒｅｎｔ　COVID　０　ｐｏｌｉｃｙ．
 Yｏｕ＇ｒｅ　ｎｏｗ　ａｎｇｒｙ　ｆｏｒ　ｎｏｔｈｉｎｇ．　I　ｄｏｎ＇ｔ　ｕｎｄｅｒｓｔａｎｄ　ｗｈｙ　ｙｏｕ　ａｄdｅｄ　ｕｓ，　ｙｏｕ　ｓａｉｄ　ｉｔ＇ｓ　ｂｅｃａｕｓｅ　ｙｏｕ　ｗａｎｔｅｄ　ｔｏ　ｈｅｌｐ　ｔｏ　ｆｉｎｄ　ａ　ｊｏｂ．　Sｉｍｐｌｅ　ａｓ　ｔｈａｔ．．．　Lａｔｅｒ，　ｏｂｖｉｏｕｓｌｙ，　ｍｙ　＂ｆａｕｌｔ”　ｗａｓ　ｔｈａｔ　I　ｄｉｄｎ＇ｔ　ｋｎｏｗ　ｉｔ＇ｓ　ａ　ｐａｉｄ　ｓｅｒｖｉｃｅ．　Sｏ，　ｐｌｅａｓｅ，　ｔｅｌｌ　ｍｅ　ｈｏｗ　ｍｕｃｈ　ｄｏｅｓ　ｉｔ　ｃｏｓｔ　ａｎｄ　I will try to pay you.
 You said you like to help the poorer, the weaker... but didn't say it costs money. I do value your business spirit -- just find me a real job and 50% of the first salary is yours.  (OK)
 Or you just can send another meme which explains how "stupid" or something bad am I. (OK) This shows what a clever and good person you are indeed. (ROSE)

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / An answer to E.

« on: September 21, 2022, 03:12:04 PM »

 It's a sort of off-topic but I have to answer her (a person with the name  beginning with the letter "E") here. She got sort of uspet after I told her the truth that what I really need is to find me a job, not to be concerned about my emotions (or that imaginary "depression"):
 Her last words before blocked me were：　

P. S. I don't  work for free

My answer here:

 Nobody works for free. Where is that coming from? I didn't say you work for free;  but you said you want to brainstorm my options and I thought you can show me a real job (at least you have money for VPN and can search in Facebook the Cambodians if here really they don't give visas easily anymore)... Of course, it's up to you (if even a findin a job costs money -- okay, I am not capable to pay, you know how hard I earn even 2 yuan from internet or bottles)... ------------------- Just for the record, I don't need non-job help (if you think I am depressed, see what Guterres said: 

I am here to sound the alarm:  The world must wake up.

We are on the edge of an abyss — and moving in the wrong direction.

Our world has never been more threatened.

Or more divided.

We face the greatest cascade of crises in our lifetimes.

Does he need to visit a psychologist?

(The context is clear I hope!)
 

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What is "agecuck"

« on: September 21, 2022, 02:30:42 PM »

 Okay, about

it's really frowned upon where I'm from

shows that there are many agecucks. Nothing more, nothing less. There are also people who frown when they see a black man with a white girl, a yellow girl with a white man and so on (racecucks)... or those who frown when the daughter is going to love a poor man... but what? Does it show that they're right or wrong? It's just "We don't like it."

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What is "agecuck"

« on: September 21, 2022, 02:18:34 PM »

Also, Incel sounds like he has some real bad problems. Dunno how to help.

  Don't get it personal, I　ｓｐｅａｋ　ｉｔ　to ｙｏｕ　ａｎｄ　ｔｈｏｓｅ　ｗｈｏ　ｈａｖｅ　ｔｏ　ｋｎｏｗ　ｉｔ．　If you didn't notice it's a board for "incels" and it's normal in a board for incels there to be someone with a nickname "incel". Incel = someone who can't find even one girlfriend (or lover; wife). Yes, it's a really bad problem. And if you don't know how to help at least don't make the things worse with saying that his nickname sounds like he "has some real bad problems". There is a proverb in my language which says "If you can't help a person, at least don't make the things worse for him or her."
 You're really not helping him with stating that he sounds this or that. If you can let him know a girl who may like him or show him some way to become a really attractive man -- this is a real help. Otherwise we're the same as those who when you ask them to help you to find something (job, for instance) they're answering you that you are depressed and you need psychological help.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / What is "matchcucks"

« on: September 17, 2022, 05:26:40 PM »

The matchcucks

 Matchcuck is a new term that I invented today. It means everyone who is against some relationship because the couple didn't "match" (looksmatch, agematch, statusmatch, educationmatch,... in some more discriminative cases even "racematch", "citizenshipmatch", "countrymatch"/"statematch") instead of congratulating them, being happy for them or at least don't criticize them publicly.
 To find a love partner (or at least some kind of intimate partner) isn't easy (for many people around the world). When some people succed to find a partner it's a great happiness for them, and if they accept someone who is different (looks, age, status, citizenship, race, etc.) it's their own business and none of our business. If we can't help them at least we shouldn't bother them with useless and baseless criticism like "She is too fat for you!", "He is too poor for you!", "You deserve much better!", "What a race traitor!" and other trashy statements.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Matchcucks

« on: September 17, 2022, 04:41:35 PM »

 They should be called "matchcucks". Looksmatch, agematch,... even sometimes someones go too far as racematch... Matchcucks.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / No wonder these boys are highly likely future incels

« on: September 17, 2022, 03:51:18 AM »

No wonder these boys are highly likely future incels

 If you're doing what there boys did, no wonder you're an incel (or incel in denial) or a future one. If you end up as a nearcel you'll be lucky.
 And here is the terrible example what I watched a few hours ago on TV. The boy (around 10 years old, I guess) drank a few sodas (caloric drinks) then he ate a lot of food (several steamed buns, meat, etc.) and then he started to play a phone game on the sofa. If your daily routine is something like this (drinking and eating a lot of caloric things and then just playing games) you're going to become an obese, ill and not clever person even if your genes are "superman" ones. And the opposite -- even with not very great genes, if you're having normal, healthy diet, if you are avoiding sedentary lifestyle and do sports, and if you read/learn more you'll be a normal and even moderately attractive person.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why some of the incels are right that the personality is overrated

« on: September 17, 2022, 02:48:27 AM »

 "Looks > personality" means that most of the females will choose the more handsome man, not the man with the better personality. It means we're living in a lookism world.
 But, yes, the elder people (usually) are more wiser so they will value more the personality than the looks (and still, everyone is going to choose or hoping to find at least not ugly person. The very ugly ones are chanceless as far as they don't take some care and at least to improve their bodies and health... well, and wealth).