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EARN MONEY / Re: Cambodian man (Heng Santha) not paying back the money we lent him

« on: January 27, 2024, 12:13:18 AM »

Yes, we are in Blue Diamond hotel.
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Soon will move to another place.
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I think she like ice-cream
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OK
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Georgi

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OK
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Georgi
Good, I think they have ice creams too.😊👍
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Best
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Georgi
Tomorrow when it's ready we'll pay you the last money.👌
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Yes thanks
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Georgi
And the day after tomorrow we will meet in the restaurant to celebrate and to get the keys 🔐 🗝️.
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Good.
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🙏
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🙏
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Georgi
😊🤝
25 October 2023
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Good morning
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Kindly to say for 100 % payment, I will clear for my worker.
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Sun decor 21.10.2023 11:08:19

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Tomorrow, will bring invoice for you. Thanks
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We ready clean
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We will help more, Incase you need edit some more
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Did you get up yet
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Georgi
Everything is okay. I will pay you soon.😊🍀👍🙏
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OK, so kind to pay I will will clear with my staff. Thanks
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Georgi
Of course, of course. Just a moment please. 🤝
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OK
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Georgi

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👌
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At 28, if you have time we invite you to join party of my customer
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Georgi
Thanks 🙏😊🍀
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That big project of full decorations.
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Georgi
And tomorrow at 5:00 p.m. you are invited at La Pizza 🍕. Remember.👌🙂
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good
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ok
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I will prepair the cake for you
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give to me of your date of birth
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Georgi
I was born 26.10.1975 🙂, but it's not necessary. You can just come without cake. 😊

(Notice that: 1. I saved him money because I didn't want him to buy any cakes for me!, 2. I ordered ice cream for his daughter besides the pizzas and other food in that restaurant. 3. I bought 2 dollars presents for his daughter that time (and often gave her some little presents like sticker or origami...))



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ok
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Georgi
😊👌
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☺
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How is your going with transfer money
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still have a problem
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Georgi
Canadia bank is working again in Battambang so there is easier now. 👌
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Maybe after a few days I will receive all.
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👍
26 October 2023
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Good
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When you do party?
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How many people
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Georgi

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Only we two and you with your daughter.😊
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We are waiting you here.
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At 5:00 O'Clock.
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👌😊
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Oh
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She sleeps
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Georgi
Come at 6:00 O'Clock then?
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Or 6:30
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I will call my daughter
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Georgi
Let her sleep well.
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😊👌
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Now is ok
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We will go
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Georgi
Okay, don't be in hurry, we will wait to 7:00 O'Clock. No problem. 🤝
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Ok
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Where is the pizza name
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I can’t find
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Georgi
"La Pizza"
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I will send you the map.
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Ok
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Georgi

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Voice message
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Location
13.097010, 103.200048
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That pizza other people not know
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Only pizza company
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Georgi
This side with a lot of selling
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Not long way after the bridge near park cafe
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Street 159 D.
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Ok we arrived
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You inside
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Georgi
Yes.
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Pong Sivsea
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Pong Khievsea

(This (the Pong-names) he sent me in the restaurant when he started to speak about some rich Cambodian person and asked me if I know him. I told him that I don't and he tried to spell his name in English (Latin).)
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Georgi

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Your photos for good memories.😊🍀
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🙏
27 October 2023
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Georgi
You're welcome.😊
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Good friendship
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🙏🍀
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Thanks
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You can buy the land build the house in Battambong
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I can help you
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Rent to expensive
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Georgi
We hope we can buy some near Koh Kong.
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In the future, if get richer.
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😊
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ok
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the did you ready do leaflate yet?
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Name card
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Georgi
Later, when we receive the things for the shop, the shelves, the cashier machine, etc. Still not ready for advertising.
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The cards, yes.
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Do englisg is ok too
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they know all english
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they are educated people
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Do you need a key?
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Georgi
Yes, this evening we can take the keys. For example, 5:30 or 6:30. Where is okay for you to meet?
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We can come to your company or the nearest place you are. 👌
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Choose where is convenient for you and we will meet there.👍
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Better I bring for you
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My office is far, you have no moto too
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Go to your flate ok
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Georgi
Okay, in front of 123 mart, after an hour.👌😊
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We will be there.
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Ok
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We go now
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I arrived
28 October 2023
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Georgi
Hello 👋
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Send me the logo for the business cards, please.🙂
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You can give this file for the print
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coreldraw
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123 MART.cdr
5.2 MB
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You can open in CORELDRAW softwear
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The printing shop they know
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Georgi
Okay. Thanks.
29 October 2023
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do you ready to go, see you at there 5:30pm
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where are you
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you can find that hospital?
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You can see the Coca Cola store
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That is the market
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Georgi
Missed
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Location
13.091478, 103.196843
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Georgi
Okay, we're going.
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I waiting you
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did you go to open the house
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i saw the door open
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Georgi
Yes.
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We're coming.
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ok
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only walk can come
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bad tracfic
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Georgi

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Yes.
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We only walk usually.
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nearly arrive, i waiting you
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Georgi

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Almost there
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ok
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you can finne
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Georgi
Yes
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find
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ok
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i wating you infront
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Georgi

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We are almost here
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ok
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where are you
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be hind of the big market
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you can see a lot of car
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Location
13.091243, 103.195461
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Georgi

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Here
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no
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you here the music
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Georgi
Yes.
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come infront
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Georgi
Saw it 😄
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did you see the red signage
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ok
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Georgi
We saw all the rooms on every floor!👍😊
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Really good decoration job👍👍👍
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Now we will go back. Good night.🌙🙂
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ok
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good night too
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Good
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i go home too
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I can't fine you
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👍
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Georgi
Good. We had a good time.🍸🏮👍🌙
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Thanks for the video!
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👍
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yes


To be continued! (In the next part there will be about how he admitted that he's drunken and he is afraid of another traffic accident!)

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EARN MONEY / 100% agreed

« on: January 26, 2024, 11:43:01 PM »

 You see, when it's something that I share the same or very close opinion, I come to support you at once (not having any bad feeling against you).
 So, I do agree 100% about that -- there are some crazy Chinese who really think so because of their mental disorders, but the vast majority of them are just low-educated financially (economically) and/or more greedy than the average Chinese person.
 I also met some Chinese people who (being rich) were thinking that sums (of money) like 100 000 yuan (around USD 14,097.24 now) are "not expensive". They just can't imagine that there are people (in China) who are working for 2000 yuan/month (around USD 281.94 now) -- for example some of the cleaners or waiters/waitress and shop assistants in Hainan province of (still so-called) PRC.
 So, if it comes to USD 1 000 000 (which currently equals ~ RMB 7 000 000: 7,093,600.00 yuan now, to be exact, according to Google's information), only very rich (or very uninformed or really stupid) people may think that it's "so-so". I mean, yes, if you are having USD 100 000 000, for you, objectively, the 1% of this money is a "so-so" amount. But for a person with income RMB 2000, as those mentioned above in Hainan island, it's NOT AT ALL "so-so" because the simple arithmetics shows this (let's take an example with "only" 1 million yuan):

 1000000 / 2000 = 500 (One million renminbis / 2000 renminbi (one salary) = 500 salaries) and 500 / 12 = 41.66(6) (500 salaries / 12 months = around 42 years going to work). Which shows that most of these people (and most, or at least many, of the people around the world) will never receive that much (1 000 000 yuan).

 So, this is it. If some Chinese (or a person from another nationality, it's not the point) states that USD 1 mln. is "just so-so", he or she is filthy rich and/or he/she lacks of "touch with reality" (out of touch with reality).

 (Objectively, the perception of 1 000 000 US dollars depends on where you are. If you're in Singapore where you need to pay 20 dollars for a dish it may be something like "so-so", but if you're in Cambodia where the same dish costs only 1,50 dollars, then the same sum of money (1 million US dollars) is a lot and a dream).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: My will

« on: January 26, 2024, 10:13:45 PM »

 Oh, now I see what "Russian" you meant. Yes, as it was stated above, the letters are similar (in fact, they're almost the same; the difference is that Russians use a few more). The origin is the same (Cyrillic script). The script (in Chinese -- "西里尔字母" or "西里尔文") script was created during the First Bulgarian Empire based on Greek and some Bulgar (西匈奴的) letters/characters.
 I can't laugh if some Chinese don't make difference between Russian script and Bulgarian script because, for example, there are many Europeans and others who don't make any difference between Chinese and Japanese (and even worse -- between Chinese and Korean.) Nobody is omni-knowledgeable, so we learn all life long.
 But a "bio" was really a bit more.
 OK, we can close the memory related sub-topic here. If you are sure everything is okay, we don't need to continue it. Of course, as a Harvard fan, you may be interested to see the Harvard's opinion about what diet is good for a better memory (limiting the red meat, yes, but not all kinds of meat, i. e. a vegetarian (including the Buddhist) diet isn't the best for the memory): https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/boost-your-memory-by-eating-right.
 About the time of the birth, most of the average intelligent people usually know who is born B.C., so I wasn't impressed even the time when I learned for the first time (after the primary school period). Usually it's not very important when someone was born when it comes to ethics, philosophy, literature and some others parts of the knowledge (culture) because some of these people born B.C. like the ancient philosophers were smarter than some of the nowadays people (which even can't read, i.e. the illiterate people). Usually the truth isn't strictly related to the time. For example, if someone, 3000 years ago said "1 + 8 = 9" he/she is right and knows the math better than another one, who right now, a second ago, said that it equals 48237648231746821376562197.  But when it is about more concrete knowledge (and not only) like what is better to eat, what is the Solar system, are there germs and viruses, etc., the ancient people (even the smartest of them) just couldn't know it because it's related with the level of the science and techniques, industry, etc. That is why I prefer to rely on the modern science when I want to know what is better for my health, for my attitudes, for my successful existence in the world than to trust someone like Mohammed, Jesus, Buddha, etc., who even didn't know (and had no way to know!) stuff like: how many planets are there in our Solar system, how to produce electricity (at least on theory, like us), what is a germ, a virus, a molecule, an atom, an electron..., what is sushi,... they really had NO ANY IDEA that there are continents like America (Americas) and Antarctica. ([irony=100%level]They even did't know "Xi Jinping Thought on Socialism with Chinese Characteristics for a New Era" (“习近平新时代中国特色社会主义思想”)[/irony]) So, with their limited knowledge (facts) base, it's logical that they couldn't give you advise the same as some modern scholar.

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Other languages / ВИЦ - Пух, Прасчо и Йори

« on: January 26, 2024, 01:21:40 AM »

Пух, Прасчо и Йори

Мечо Пух и Прасчо отиват на училище на 15-ти септември. Там ги карат да напишат съчинение - "Какво правих през лятото". Прасчо пита:
- Пух, какво да пишем? През цялото лято бяхме пияни, друго не сме правили...
Мечо Пух му казва:
- Прасчо, вместо "пили" пиши "чели". Чели цяло лято звучи добре...
Учителката проверява съчинението на Прасчо:
"Събудих се и започнах да чета. После се измих. Продължих да чета. Преди закуска четох още малко. Закусих. До обяда пак четох. Обядвах. После ми се приспа. Преди да подремна четох още малко. Прочетох книжката. Поспах. Събудих се и започнах да чета. Дойде Мечо Пух. От далече му личеше, че е чел. Отидохме на балкона. Стоим и четем. Идва Йори и ни пита: "Имате ли нещо за четене?". Личи му, че е много начетен... от джоба му стърчи половин буквар."

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EARN MONEY / Re: Cambodian man (Heng Santha) not paying back the money we lent him

« on: January 26, 2024, 12:17:57 AM »

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you are welcome
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You need to install class table on the walk road is the best
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Georgi
Yes, maybe later we can install one. Depending on if we will have good earnings from the shop and then, step by step (gradually), we may upgrade it with more things.👌
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Good
22 October 2023
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We do LED lighter at office, we will install to finish tomorrow.
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Georgi
Okay, 👌, how about the side sight and the balcony pipe?
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This， no problem, right?
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And the balcony pipe.
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sure
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Georgi
Good job 👍 👍👍
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while we finish with the lighter connection we will close\cover it.
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I will check for all
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For that we buy ready while we finish install the below signage we will add too
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We keep the small hole to hanging iron for under signage below
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We will take out small zin to hang the signage and then do cover back
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Georgi
Alright 👌.
24 October 2023
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Tomorrow we need the cloth to cover signage.
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4m * 0.6m
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Georgi
Yes. I see.
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Now I open the light to test
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Where are you
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Georgi
In the hotel.
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You can come down to see your signage lighter
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Georgi
Come down but it's late already and we don't have car or bike. (Also don't pay money for tuk-tuk because we are poor and saving.)
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So we will see it tomorrow maybe.
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Oh
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I can bring you
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Which hotel
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I will show you photos
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But not like real
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OK
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Georgi
Just take a photo is okay 👍, my wife is in the bathroom now and don't want to go out again.😄

It was one of the rightest decisions we ever made! He's driving drunken and jeopardizing his life and the lives of the others! Being on a motorbike (or another vehicle) with this person is too risky!



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OK
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Georgi
Yes, photo is enough, no problem. We trust you are professional.👍
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We will do cleaning tomorrow
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Georgi
👍 good.
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And the day after tomorrow is ready?
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Tomorrow is ready
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Just clean the floor only
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Georgi
Okay. So, the day after tomorrow we can have a dinner together to celebrate my 48th birthday.👍😄😊
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Good 👍🍀👍
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If your daughter likes pizza we can go to a good pizzeria. Or anywhere she likes. 😊
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OK good
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Georgi
26.10. 🍽️🍷 🍷🍾 🍕🍕🌮 🍽️
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😊

Notice how good I was to him! I invited (from all people around) only him and his daughter!

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She not know
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Up to you
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Why you stay at hotel
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Georgi
Okay. October 26, we will invite you to "La Pizza", 5 p.m.

To be continued!

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Moneymax effortlessly but realized how much of big assholes my relatives were

« on: January 26, 2024, 12:16:47 AM »

About the gym-maxx:

1) It's cheap or even free if you know how to make it in the parks, at home.
2) It's very useful for improving your looks (not only the body, also, partly, the face).
3) It's keeping you more healthy. Which also improves your looks.
4) It's keeping you more positive, self-confident, happier, which is important for your ascending (and daily routines).

 Once something is so affordable and so useful in many ways, of course, we will (and have to) prioritize it. /当然，一旦某样东西如此实惠且在很多方面如此有用，我们就会（并且必须）优先考虑它。/

 About that statement that Chinese girls do not prefer muscle guys. Totally wrong! I saw it by myself:

a) When I was 58 kilos most of the Chinese females said to me I am too skinny.

b) When I became 87 kilos most of them started to avoid me, even don't talk to me and some even said "fatty" ("胖子").

c) At the same time, I observed many of their boy-friends: athletes, body-builders, basketball players, kung-fu, TKD or MMA fighters... and then I saw the truth: they (Chinese females) do prefer better looking people but sometimes they just go out with very ordinary, very fat or very skinny males because of their:

- money (beta-buxxing)
- character, personality (yes, sometimes it's possible, no matter how bluepill-ed may sound)
- just so happened (i. e. no better one or he was lucky in the sense of "just be first" theory).


 So, everyone (especially like our dear friend here, who is not tall enough and even handsome, not 10/10 handsome) should do his best to gym-maxx (body-maxx) in every possible safe way. This improves your chances (+ your looks, health, confidence and mood).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Moneymax effortlessly but realized how much of big assholes my relatives were

« on: January 26, 2024, 12:02:08 AM »

Now I think Nirvana is impossible for me to attain

 Sad... if a person want to be a real scientist he (she) can't just assume something without evidence, proof... Who in the entire human history somehow prove that there is something called "Nirvana"? Even "Santa Claus" or "Great Xi" are more real constructs than "Nirvana"! Because there are people who act like Santa Clauses, because Xi is great in some aspects (for example how can occupy the power of the biggest Party in the world and to practically own the biggest population in the world!) but Nirvana? Where is it? Who prove it? Who is demonstrating it? Experiments? Something? NOTHING. But... we've got a believer...

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 25, 2024, 11:27:53 PM »

 A fast reply about the measurable and unmeasurable things. There are different levels. Yes, you can't objectively "measure" a nose's beauty because some like it big, some like it small, some like it "Greek", etc., BUT at the same time, you can "measure" many other things like if something is proven fact or just a religious fabrication (in which the gullible people believe without problem)!
 Good or bad philosophy -- the criteria may be different, but the one and the most important is the practice. If some philosophy improves your life, chances, etc., it's a good one and the opposite -- if it makes you more poor, more choice-less, more rigid, well, obviously it's not a good one.
 Darwin didn't read Hegel, he even didn't read to the end Marx's book. (Marx read Darwin.) Marx sent Darwin his book ("The Capital") in 1873. That was 14 years after Darwin published “Origin”. It also seems most of the pages were not cut -- so he could not have read most of it.
 The difference between the philosophy and the religions is that many of the philosophic ideas are more or less measurable via practice but the religious claims are just claims and you even can't use logic to understand them, i. e. the ignosticism is something very good (the idea that the question of the existence of God is meaningless because the word "God" has no coherency and an ambiguous definition.) and this is it, most of the religious things are like that...

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 25, 2024, 11:14:18 PM »

 Really sorry to disagree again but as far as I know I have no my bio written in Russian. So, some girl shares my bio in Russian sounds dubious. Are you sure you remember well? (Memory problem/question again, but can't avoid it).

You are misprojecting that, I want to show you I am better than commoner ppl... what?! You serioisly think so?!

 Honestly, to me, looks/sounds something like that. Because in the reality you achieved more than the guys around your age (your generation) and you started to think that even in a place where we discuss omnilogy problems (including science, philosophy, etc.) all of us are under your knowledge. You, that was so surprising, even explained to us that Buddha was born B. C. How you will feel if I explain to you something like that: "可能你不知道，但是我告诉你：北京是中国的首都。你肯定会感到惊讶的。" Telling me that Buddha was born centuries before Jesus equals I am telling you (as a Chinese) that "Beijing is the capital of China."

And yeah, I am really surprised that you were practicing and being with a professor, but you still think Buddhism is so bad.

I was being too young and believed without the necessary proves, just because I was thinking that East Asians are the smartest people in the world and if there are so many Buddhists in East Asia, then it can't be wrong... And I was so wrong... The practicing and not only one professor (there were at least 3, who taught us about the Buddhism from different perspectives -- as a religion, as a philosophy, as history of the philosophy and so on) were real. "So bad" isn't what I said. I am saying that:

• If you want to ascend and becoming a noncel, becoming a true Buddhist is counter-productive and will lead you to a volcel status, which is bad for sure, for those incels who want to be noncels, not to become volcels. It's like wanting to be rich. If you want to make money, you need ways that will help you to get rich, not ways that will teach you how to be voluntarily poor.
• Exactly because I accumulated a lot of practice, knowledge and meta-Buddhist view, I could make the conclusion that the Buddhism may have some better sides compared to many other religions but it's not worthy compared with the nowadays science. What I believe now is only proven, true, real facts and I, as a critical and reasonable elder man, can't blindly believe dubious and totally unproven religious idealistic constructs like Karma, Samsara and other fabrications (捏造的 stuff, if I can use a Chinese term.)

I have got enough self-respect to avoid being gullible. Why are you (a man, who is targeting even IQ research, further mathematics /进阶数学/ and Harvard University!!!) so gullible?! You're demonstrating high level of gullibility ("Classes of people especially vulnerable to exploitation due to gullibility include children, the elderly, and the developmentally disabled." ^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gullibility}). You're not a kid anymore, you're not an old man and even you had/have some psychological issues, you're not a retard. So, how it comes an IQ researcher, a further math fan and a Harvard oriented adult to have got "the tendency to believe unlikely propositions that are unsupported by evidence." (from the same source mentioned above).

If you really knew about emptiness etc., you shoulda not thought Buddhism was 'pessimistic', 'suppressive', etc.,

 For the first time we learned about the so-called "Emptiness" in 1994! I remembered it's original name (Shunyata, i. e. "Śūnyatā") and the etymology which is "nothing", "zero"! And these months it even was useful for my Khmer learning, where the "0" ("zero") is ០ (and is pronunciation is very close to the Indian one):

Value   Khmer   Word Form   IPA   UNGEGN   GD   ALA-LC   Notes
0   ០   សូន្យ   [soːn]   sony   souny   sūny   From Sanskrit śūnya

^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khmer_numerals}
 
 So, again, stop thinking that I (one of the first Bulgarian Buddhists and one who learned Buddhism from the best philosophers in South-East Europe) don't know about the "Emptiness".
 So? The different Buddhist branches have different understanding of it. How it makes you optimistic and free? You must give up the natural (omnivore) diet, you have to suppress your sexuality, you have to forget about many things in the social sphere. How it's not suppressing? Can't you see the life of the real Buddhists? SO MANY SELF-LIMITATIONS (even more than in the Abrahamic religions!) and still, because you "just believe", it's "the best". With the same "success" you can tell me how true are the houris (In Islam, a houri (English plural houris, /ˈhʊəriz/; from Arabic: حُـورِيَّـة ,حُورِيّ, romanized: ḥūriyy, ḥūrīya), is a woman with beautiful eyes who is described as a reward for the faithful Muslim men in paradise.)^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Houri}

This usually happens, particularly in the modern society where nearly everyone is 'attached' to everything, thus you can see lots of people doing crazy things

 Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, wait, wait, wait! One of the crazy things is just this (the core of many problems) that you are taking something as a face value without any proof! You believe gullibly in Buddhist fabrications, others -- in Islamic or Christian... some even believe in the greatness of Xi Jinping! And the common here is that all of you DON'T QUESTION your believes at all!
 And the people are "attached" because they have no choice usually. For example, you as a potential capitalist, don't need to worry about money, but most of the people have to! And this "attached" status is the only way for them (if they don't want to become beggars like many of your favorite monks). It's very easy to be "unattached" when you have it all, right?

for ex, Xi is trying all means to keep his own supremacy... the Brazilian has done close to one hundred plastic surgeries, and... my relatives fought with my father over the take-over of my grandma's ownship of her areas...

 You're giving examples with more or less abnormal people. This type of "attachment" is too much. But you can't negate the normal attachment like: willing to have a healthier body, willing to have a better house, willing to have a safer life, willing to move to a better place... Without all these "attachments" you're just "living and waiting to die" (and, ah yes, believing that you're becoming something special like an arhat until death comes).

But I shoulda been opener, so that I can allow others to choose other 'Dharmas' to happiness... I am sorry for my previous 'attachment' to Buddha-Dharma.

It's/was nearly close to the proselytism (劝诱改宗). You're really too deep in all these fabricated (proof-less) categories, constructs and all this idealism is seriously misleading the incels to ascend and the poor people to do their best to get a better life (poorcels, included).

Many people are inept for Buddhism because of their lack of 'Buddha-Indriya'(佛根)...

Many people are just not willing to waste time and money for this. If you're busy and poor (a working poor like many Chinese and others nowadays) if you start to invest money and time for fabrications you'll end up as an even bigger loser than what you're (as a working poor or as a precariat). I know you're far, far away from such future because you're one of the 1%-5% in the world but... most of us (even people with bachelor and master degrees like many here) aren't so okay financially, so we have no wish to drop into scams like religions and to donate our last money to some "guru", "preacher", etc. We're realistic enough and old enough to follow only proven ways, proven truths.

Well I am just a new learner so I don't even know how to cultivate it and persuade one person into Buddhism(Buddhism calls it 'restoring', but Buddhism also claims not everyone has the 'Indriya' to be able to be 'restored').

Oh, you're developing also a savior complex?!  Check it, in case you don't know it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Savior_complex

What I am feeling about you now is that for some reason you don't admit everything is 'empty', thus u think Buddhism is pessimistic and inactive

 Why I have to admit something that nobody prove? Because someone said so?! Do you really make difference between a said thing and a fact?

You don't admit everything is 'impermanent', thus you were surprised by my choice of learning Buddhism, seemingly just being coping with having given up ascending to you

 Oh, how much wrong someone can be?! As a dialectical materialist and a person who strictly follows the science, I know that everything is impermanent. There is progress and regress, things change. And I am not surprised of your choice that much. I am surprised of the combination: "I like Psychometrics and Further math, and I want to be in Harvard" + "Now, let me teach you how the fabrications of the religion will improve your life!"   

You don't admit 'dukkha' is not real happiness so you think Buddhism is suppressive...

 If you want to admit that dukkha is not real, go now to Harbin, where is -18°C, take off your clothes, sleep only one night outside (to feel what's like to be poor, homeless and cold!) and then tell me again how "unreal" is it.

The only thing that distinguishes you from him are that he didn't even have no Guru lol.

The lol-ling is that a person who wants to be a scientist (Psychometrics, Further mats, Harvard, etc.) become believing gurus and being a victim of "There are no proves, but I believe." (You're the Second Tertullian  . You know him? In case you don't, take a lookhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tertullian (I hope this time won't be like "Yes, you gave me, but I didn't follow, so I'll write whatever...") He is the one who said "Credo quia absurdum. (I believe because it is absurd.) ")

I think a further discussion is not useful so, yes, lock the topic.

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Other languages / ВИЦ - Ленин

« on: January 25, 2024, 09:41:53 PM »

Ленин

 Евреин от СССР получава разрешение за имиграция в Израел. На изхода в Москва, докато съветските другари проверяват багажа му, намират бюст на Ленин.
- Какво е това?
Евреинът им отговаря:
- Въпросът "какво е това?" е грешен, другари! Трябваше да питате "кой е той?"! Това е Ленин - геният, който полага основите на социализма, носейки доброта на руския народ и останалите съветски народи. Взех го със себе си като спомен от плодородните дни...
 Съветския офицер бил впечатлен от отговора:
- Добре, можеш да минеш!
На летището в Тел Авив (Израел) митническият служител също видял бюста и попитал:
- Какво е това?
Евреинът му отговаря:
- Въпросът "какво е това?" е грешен! Трябваше да питаш "кой е той?", братко! Това е Ленин. Наложи ми се да напусна Русия заради този луд злодей! Взех го със себе си, за да го гледам всеки ден и да го проклинам!
Израелският служител също останал впечатлен:
- Добре, можеш да минеш!
Евреинът се е прибрал в къщи, сложил бюста на бюфета и поканил близките си. Един от племенниците му попитал: "Кой е той?"
Евреинът му казал:
- Въпросът "кой е той?" е грешен, моето дете! Трябваше да питаш "какво е товва?"! Това е бюст на Ленин... десет килограма, двадесет и четири каратово злато, без данъци, безмитно и без ДДС!

 

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Other languages / Има кандидат да му завещая!

« on: January 25, 2024, 09:32:21 PM »

Кандидат за завещание

Много се радвам, че се намери поне един кандидат да му завещая всичко (че да не попада, в случай че умра, в неправилни ръце!)
 Всъщност, то и още двама (една жена и един мъж) също проявиха желание, но малко бавно се наканват да питат нотариуси, адвокати, та както и съм казал, ще е "кой превари, той завари", т. е. който пръв успее да уреди тези правини формалности.
 Та ето, засега какво бе обсъждано с най-сериозния кандидат да получи моето завещание:

 Той:
- По-рано се впуснах в едни разсъждения относно процедурата по подготовка на завещание в твоя случай. Понеже станаха дълги обобщавам всичко тук: при положение, че имаш имущество в двете държави, легализацията на завещанието, за да важи то и в другата държава е задължителна; тази легализация трябва да се придвижи възможно най-бързо след изготвяне на завещанието, за да се избегнат възможни проблеми, до които едно отлагане би довело; трябва да се види в Камбоджа как предлагат за граждани услугата по легализация: дали тя включва получаването на всички необходими заверки, като документите се прехвърлят вътрешноведомствено, включително съответното посолство на РБ и клиентът само трябва да си плати таксите, или сам трябва да си представя документите за заверка в отделните ведомства. Това до голяма степен ще определи колко сложно ще е да се направи легализация на документ, издаден в Камбоджа, който да важи и в България. Има вариант и ако кандидат-наследникът е съгласен на наследство само в държавата, където е изготвено завещанието, или това го решиш ти, то легализация за другата държава да не се прави; ако кандидат-наследникът не живее в държавата, където се намира (част от) наследството, трябва да е готов, че при възникване на обстоятелства за претендиране на наследство трябва да е готов да пътува до тази държава, за да си го получи. От моя страна след празниците ще се консултирам лично при нотариус има ли изобщо някаква възможност да направиш завещание при нотариус в България, след като не си физически в държавата.

 Аз:
- Нямам имущество в Бг никакво. Ако имах, нямаше да правя завещания. Всичко е в Азия.
В смисъл, че баща ми ме лишава от последното БГ имущество.

 Той:
- Разбирам. В този случай ако завещанието се изготви в Камбоджа няма нужда от легализация. Така или иначе кандидат-наследникът трябва да е съгласен, че при откриване на наследство ще трябва да пътува до Камбоджа. Ако по някакъв начин завещанието може да се изготви при нотариус в България това вече ще налага легализация, защото този документ без легализация няма да е валиден в Камбоджа. Все пак мисля, че внесох нов важен елемент и не съм ти изгубил времето.

Също така от гледна точка на необходимостта едно наследство да се претендира на място, резонно е да си посочил наследник, който или е местен, живее в Камбоджа или би пътувал до Камбоджа, защото без да коментираме лични взаимоотношения, в случай на откриване на наследство не е сигурно, че тези, които по роднинска линия биха имали право да те наследят въобще биха си направили труда и в този случай такова наследство би се прахосало в полза на държавата. Все пак може да е добра идея да провериш дали законите за наследството, които те касаят, в Камбоджа казват същото, което знаем за България.

И друго: ако допуснем, че хипотетично можеш да направиш завещание в България, въпреки, че си физически извън държавата, за да може да се легализира това завещание, да важи в Камбоджа, този, който ще го внесе за легализация в България трябва изрично да е упълномощен от теб за целта с пълномощно, което е легализирано да важи в България. Така че да се прави завещание в България, което да важи в Камбоджа изглежда непрактично, ако въобще е възможно. Разбира се, бих питал официално при нотариус, за да е сигурно, че не съм сбъркал и объркал и теб.

 Трябва да се провери в законите на Камбоджа, има ли срокове, в които наследство може да се претендира и ако случайно има, кандидат-наследникът да е запознат.

 Аз:
- Питай официално, сигурен съм, че с две изречения ще обясни как точно трябва, вместо ти/ние сега да спекулираме (разсъждаваме логично, но без да знаем законовата уредба) и нещата да са все на това положение.

 Той:
- Добре

...
Обаче ще питам официално това питане след като взема заплата. Тоест, преди края на месеца но около края на месеца.

 Аз:

- Това директно или индиректно до баща ми, но идеята е, ПАК напомням, ако някой иска да му дам завещание, че ако напусна този свят, той/тя наследява, а не баща ми (който ще даде на онази всичко.) Линк долу:
seo-forum-seo-luntan.com/other-languages/na-ivanovden-do-ivan-georgiev-rusev-ot-byala-rusensko/

Тук казват безплатно. За питане не вземат такса.

В Бг и там не са ми искали, сега не знам...

Преди 20 години...

...

Е, аз мога и гласово съобщение до нотариуса да пратя, че да е законно.

...

 Той:
- Ясно, разбрахме се.

 Аз:
 (Скрийншот от правен форум)
- Най-сетне отговор и по това. Но за завещание аз по-предпочитам.

Виж как са нещата с нотариуса също така, че времето наближава...

 Той:
- Не съм забравил; при първа възможност.

 Аз:
 - ОК.

 Той:
- В следващо съобщение прилагам как съм формулирал въпросите за нотариуса, за да кажеш точно ли са формулирани според теб. За пълномощни и легализации нищо не споменавам, защото хем си го знаем (аз съм на 98% сигурен), хем, че нали искаме те да ни кажат.

 Български гражданин, пребиваващ в страна извън ЕС желае да завещае
имуществото си в тази страна на друг български гражданин, който се
намира в България.
Съответно въпроси:
(1) Има ли вариант, при който завещанието да се извърши при нотариус в
България, като наследодателят, намирайки се в чуждата страна удостовери
самоличността си пред нотариус в България чрез дистанционно включване с
видеовръзка на живо, показвайки на камера личните си документи, себе си,
и заявявайки желанието си?

(2) В случай, че (1) не може да се осъществи, а наследодателят няма да
дойде в България, какви други варианти има завещанието да се направи при нотариус в
България?

(3) Според българското законодателство има ли вариант, при който наследник
да наследи само наличното имущество, но да не приеме заедно с
наследството потенциални дългове и друго тежести на наследодателя?

Във връзка с цялата тематика се сетих за нещо, което го има по филмите, но реално е резонно да го има и на практика: когато се прави завещание има адвокатска кантора, която има за задача при настъпване на събитие, което касае приемане на завещание, да се свърже с наследника и да го уведоми.

 Аз:
- Добре са.👍

 Той:
- Като съм готов ще докладвам

 

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 От това по-добре - здраве!

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Other languages / ВИЦ - Рисува!

« on: January 25, 2024, 01:15:53 AM »

Рисува

- Имам четири картини на Клайдерман! - хвали се един руски олигарх.
- Ама той е музикант! - смеят се приятелите му.
- А, музикант е, но когато му кажа аз, веднага почва да рисува!...

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 25, 2024, 01:07:55 AM »

Well first of all, my memory is very well and extraordinary because I just got it tested around one month ago

I hope so. Well, extraordinary may be when it comes to STM (in Chinese: 短期记忆 (English:Short-term memory)), but you saw what happened when it's about the LTM (in Chinese: 长期记忆 (English: Long-term memory)). It's nearly unbelievable --being here one of the eldest, writing so many incelology-related articles, publishing an e-book about inceldom + clearly chatting with you on QQ (even sharing photographs) and in one beautiful moment you're thinking of me as an ordinary incel-student who has no idea what the Buddhism is... Not a good reference for a normal LTM (about the "extraordinary" even not necessary to speak.)

Secondly, sorry for my misprojection of your amount of learning of Buddhism, because(what I can throw is better than this but...) I couldn't even imagine any person who was a former Buddhist claiming that Buddhism was suppressive and pessimistic...

I do value your politeness. Glad to see a "sorry", really. But/and about the Buddhism it's exactly the other way around: BECAUSE OF being a Buddhist, I can tell/know/feel/experience its bad sides. Isn't it the same when it comes to China? Exactly, because of being a very big China fan for long, I can now objectively criticize the neo-emperorisation (neo-emperarization) because I knew the real CCP China (when there were no dictators after Mao Zedong) and the recent China, i. e. Xi-na (Xina; Xi's China)...

Were you practicing Paramitas?

If you're talking about the 波罗密 (पारमिता), of course I did and I still do (most of it) but based totally on the scientific base. For example, 忍 (kṣānti) is something that you can practice (and/or know, use, etc.) based entirely on the present science knowledge; you don't need to start it only when you read/hear about it from some Buddhist.




 

This is even more important than reading literatures

 It may be important for the Buddhists but what is important for the knowledge/understanding of the Buddhism (i. e. to have a Meta-Buddhist view; a real objective knowledge about the Buddhism) is the literature, the theory. This is valid for everything -- from the birds to the neo-emperor, first and foremost you need the theory, the knowledge.

 

Were you having a Guru? a Buddhist must have a Guru for learning Buddhism well otherwise he or she may mislead himself or herself like yeah thinking Buddhism is inactive, pessimistic, anti-humanity etc....

 My "guru" were the specialists of Buddhism like professor Иван Камбуров (Ivan Kamburov): http://phls.uni-sofia.bg/article/3032. There were more too, but let me show you (via Google Translate) his background and you think is he a guru or not:

"伊万·坎布罗夫教授博士
学术传记
现任大学职务：讲师

BA/MA，年份，学科：MA，哲学系，SU“St. Cl. Ohrid”； 1979-1984年，圣彼得堡国立大学哲学系，哲学专业（哲学史专业）

博士学位，年份，主题：1992 哲学博士，（05.00.01）哲学史（东方哲学）； “多克索拉菲纪念碑中桑卡拉的阿德瓦塔-吠檀多哲学”

资格（学科）：2011年哲学教授（古典佛教）（2.3）； 2002年 哲学史副教授（东方哲学）

编辑委员会成员
1994年至2004年，以及2012年《哲学》杂志编辑。 周一
摘自 1999 年《Svetilnik》杂志，编辑。 印度之友俱乐部

精选出版物
古典佛教哲学，第一部分“道”，S.，2011 年，597 页。

智慧范式中的古印度哲学（伟大的游戏），S.2002，591 页。

宗教知识。 破坏性邪教中的精神暴力。 预防。 给老师的书。，S.，编辑。 《Interclass》，2001 年，466 页。 （合着）

世界宗教简明词典，“佛教”部分（86 位作者百科全书式文章和概念 S.1995，第 15 - 87 页。

救世论灵知作为不二论吠檀多哲学中的价值论范式（桑卡拉和 M.埃克哈特），第 14 页。 哲学与价值论，VTU.，1993 年，第 65-104 页。

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怎么样？ Enough "guru" level or still not?

And I want to tell you about one Chinese "guru" who used a way to sleep with women there -- "teaching" them that to prove they are real female Buddhists they should't care about having or not sex with who and... to "become" true Buddhists they had to sleep with him! One of them told me that in one moment she realized that she is not a Buddhist but a cheap whore for doing this. And I'd like to add -- a "very stupid one". Yes, I am talking about Zhou Ning. This is what many of your "gurus" are. So, better trust the specialists and scientists than the "gurus".

 

my teacher told me we'd better not learn Philosophy otherwise it might be endangering us...

 That teacher is 100% right about some of the philosophies. A pro-philosopher should know all of the philosophy branches, kinds. For example, even I dislike the religious philosophies, as a pro I had and I did/still do learn them more or less. But if you're just a student and you start with some over-pessimistic philosophy like that one of Schopenhauer /阿图尔·叔本华 (Arthur Schopenhauer)/, well then, you may end up in a very bad condition. But if you learn something written by more optimistic philosophers like Socrates, Engels and so on, then it's not dangerous.


 

You yourself said that you had yet to read tons of literatures because of your life, which definitely misleads you to thinking of Buddhism this way...

 It's because I know that knowledge is like a white circle on a big blackboard. The bigger is the circle, the more it touches the unknown. That's why learning is a nonstop process. For example, if you never heard of Cambodia you're not going to know about Pnom Penh but if you know even its capital (Pnom Penh), then you may start to know that there are big rivers, many Buddhist temples, etc. The more you learn, the more unknown (questions) you may have, so this is why we should read and learn "endlessly".

It seems to me you don't even know what are 'sunyata', 'anitya', 'dukkha', 'anatman' etc., which are basic concepts and ideologies of Buddhism.

Seems to you because you're: 1. judging people without prior knowledge who are they + 2. you want to show how greater you are compared with the commoners (but for a bad surprise, here you don't deal with teenage incels in the US or low-educated rich 富家子弟 and 富二代 in Shanghai. You're dealing with people with 20+ more years experience, hard work and knowledge than yourself.)

 Just an example, to state the ridiculousness of what you think that Geser Kurultaev doesn't know about anatman ("非我").

In 1990 (when you even didn't exist in your parents' thoughts) I spent all my money, for a month food, to buy the last "Soviet Encyclopedic Dictionary" in Russian, Soviet Edition! It's its Chinese name: "苏联百科词典
". Here you may see how it looks like: and I started to read and learn everything about Asia, China, Daoism, Buddhism, Confucianism, etc. One of the first things that I learned in the period 1990-1993 (you still was not born that time) was about the anatman (soon after I learned about people in Buddhism like Ananda), which in Russian (I used this foreign language to educate myself + English) is "Ананда" https://www.rulit.me/books/enciklopedicheskij-slovar-read-140017-93.html (I even know the etymology of the word -- "an-" + "atman" and was thinking how similar is the negative particle with the Greek one! For example the word "anarchy" in Greek is from an- "without" + arkhos "ruler".)
 If you're intelligent enough, you should get it: In the period 1990-1993 I even learned the etymology of the words like "Ananda" and "anatman". But you think that it's some very "secret" or "high" knowledge that is "unoptainable" ?!

Well whether one thing is excellent or not depends on individual right?

 This is an agnostic and relativistic view. From the viewpoint of the relativism, of course it is but if you're not a relativist and you know that some things are more easy to be "measured", to be observed objectively, then you can't say that the theories excellence is just a subjective and relativistic choice. One of the ways to see if something is good or not is the practice (a good point of the Leninism).

...just because you think Buddhism is bad, without having ever been practicing and learning it systematically enough?

The difference between the humans and most of the rest of the animals is exactly this: we don't need to practice something in order to know it. For instance, you can see photos of Mars in NASA's website and to get the idea what's on Mars, without being there. I see what is happening with many Buddhists: they're just becoming quitters because of the idea of "It's all Karma" and/or "In the next life, I will be better."
 Also, the Buddhist diet isn't the best for many of us. And at the end, especially in your case: the combination is nearly dangerous for your ascending: 1. you're not tall, you have no big frame and this with malnutrition of a Buddhist vegetarian diet will make you less masculine in the eyes of the women, 2. you're not strong enough mentally and all those fake hopes for next life, karmism and so on, may make you even weaker, 3. you're rich but easy to believe which will make some fake gurus just to lie you to pay them a lot of money "for your happiness"...

 Why I am looking at least 20 years younger? 1. I do sports, 2. I am not a vegetarian and at the same time I avoid a lot of meat, 3. I don't smoke and don't drink hard alcohol, 4. I read useful literature to keep my brain younger, active and I do keep my "spirit" young with some youth content like manhwa (Korean manga). This is the "secret".
 
 OK, I think I prove enough and with the all due respect who and what I am, I do accept your apologies. As I said, I am in SEA and I see great opportunities to cooperate with you in some fields (all legal, never believe the neo-Chinese propaganda that all the SEAs are criminal places and it's everywhere dangerous!), so peace, please!

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 24, 2024, 01:39:54 AM »

The problem is that you, let me be kinda harsh, are severely suffering from Dunning-Krugger Effect!!! Your comment on 'Midway' ideology will really be laughed at if you show it to a venerable monk!!!

 亲爱的QQ网友，请小心点，我现在慢慢说明给你 （To those who doesn't speak Chinese: "Dear QQ-internet friend, please carefully read my explanations which I'll give you below:"）

 1. I admire your honesty but I am not suffering from the effect (because, as you forget, I am 48, I graduated in 2000 in the biggest South-East European University majored in Philosophy, I learned Eastern philosophy, religious philosophies, religions, etc., plus I am a former Buddhist.)

 2. As a person who learned Buddhism (in all his forms from the SEA's Hinayana to the Japanese Zen) by myself and in the university, I'd like to say that I am at the end of the Dunning-Kruger's scale and (as a newbie in Buddhism) you're at its very beginning. Think by yourself: a man who was a Buddhist since 1990 and read even Nāgārjuna (an Indian Mahāyāna Buddhist philosopher monk of the Madhyamaka (Centrism, Middle Way) school) till around 2005 (when he was lucky enough to be in China and to communicate with real scientific-oriented masters of science, law, dialmat, socialism, etc. and to challenge his philosophy and unbased Buddhist/religious beliefs) can't be just a victim of the effect mentioned above. You said, by yourself, that you're a freshman to all this Buddhist theories + you're 25 years younger than me + you're not a philosopher. Well? Any thought?

 3. I met more monks than you in my entire life (both Christian and Buddhist in: Bulgaria, Russia, including Tatarstan, China, Macao SAR, Cambodia) and I want to tell you that there aren't many venerable monks. Most of them are monks just to gain something (like money or donations) and the rest are there just because their parents said so, or because they had no other significant choice.
 Also, it's not important who laugh or not, the important is that the "Midway" (I even know it in Chinese! It's "中道", 那个佛教的术语！) is nothing so "genius" what you think just because you'd like to improve your Karma and/or you're impressed by it because you didn't compare it with similar theories. I bet you even didn't compare it with the Gadaffi's "Third Universal Theory" (ظرية عالمية ثالثة) or the Titoism (Yugoslavian's)...
 So, please (拜托, 兄弟）, before you think someone is that dumb check a bit his background. I didn't spend my 48 years + life to learn and study just to get this sort of criticism online.

 

Of course it's nothing new, but it's really very hard to keep in the 'midway' all the time Yeah it's just 'objectivity' but Buddhism also teaches you how to keep objective, by being without  ātma-grāha for ex, which is actually as easy to be as you think.

 a) ātmagraha (आत्मग्रह) doesn't need a hyphen. Well, if you just copy-pasted it from the 我执's article in Wikipedia, it's understandable.
 b) So many (nearly all) philosophies and theories wants to keep you objective. Point me at least to 3 of them who claim that their goal is to keep you subjective. Can you? So, what's the uniqueness of the Buddhism in this? The Islam also says that if you start following it, you'll be the most objective. So what?
 c) How you will be without the mentioned 我执 (atmagraha), if you don't follow the latest scientific discoveries? Hey, my friend, the Buddhist that time (when they created this concept of atmagraha) even didn't know about the existence of the DNA, the existence of the Pluto, the existence of the Americas, if you wish... Don't think of them as omniknowledgeable.

And you think this makes Buddhism?!
And if you think Buddhism is 'suppressive', 'pessimistic', etc., whatever you think of it as, you even have not had primary understanding of Buddhism yet!  

 And how is it active then? Being an arhat makes you to achieve your goals of having a girlfriend, becoming good-looking and having a business? Yes, if you're filthy rich like Buddha (Siddhartha Gautama, you see? I even know his real name since I was a kid!) you can play around but what if you're poor, homeless and it's -20 degree Celsius outside like in Inner Mongolia (内蒙古)? Still going to be in the state of isolation outside?

I really suggest you embark on reading some sutras and abhidharmas... Your understanding of Buddhism is really not even primary and not better in the slightest bit than the one of everyone who has not tried learning it tbh...

 Said the 26 years younger male to his uncle (大叔, in Chinese) who's graduated in 2000 and learned so much about Buddhism by himself and in the university + was a Buddhist himself + living in a Buddhist kingdom currently + wrote even articles about this culture... Impressive! Try again.

I was really shocked by its 'extraordinariness and excellence'....

1. It's just because you didn't learn enough other philosophies and theories. Be honest to yourself and tell me how many of these you (at least) heard of?

 1.1. Дъновизъм (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Universal_White_Brotherhood)
 1.2. Stoicism (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stoicism)
 1.3. Illusionism (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusionism_(philosophy))
 1.4. Hesychasm (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hesychasm)
 1.5. Варлаамитство (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barlaam_of_Seminara)


  Your knowledge compared with my knowledge is around 25% at its best (when it comes to philosophies, religions, anthropology, etc. If we are talking about Chinese language or Mathematics, you know more probably).

You will also be surprised by how wise and intelligent Buddha was...

Oh, really? Let me think... when I had my first biography of Buddha book (in 1990) you were... just a dream in your father's and mother's heads?  Siddhartha (a.k.a. 释迦牟尼, in Chinese) was just intelligent enough to see that outside of the palace people are getting ill, die miserable, etc. and he was depressed enough to start being scared about his own future to the level when he started to be a philosopher (and not the best of the philosophers to be honest, because you can't compare him with Aristotle or Marx, for example) and to think what to do to "suffer less", because you see, the "life is suffering"... From the root of his philosophy you can see the escapism, the defeatism... nothing in common with the Chad-like (in terms of the Incelology here) philosophy of Marx, Engels, Lenin... Even people like Hegel were more active-oriented and success-oriented than him! It's a fact.

You can't really understand if you have not learned Buddhism enough. I bet you have yet to read any sutra or abhidharma right? I suggest reading some and then come back to disguss witih me.

 Well, if I inherit more than 1 000 000 dollars like you, I surely will. Sadly, as you know, my father decided to give his only small apartment to his lover, not to me. So, even I am a poet, a philosopher, a writer, a webmaster and a martial art fan, I should struggle day by day to earn a dollar or two. (Only the good banks here, with fixed deposits and ~7% interest rates are saving me from being a poor man!) So, really sorry, but not enough time to discuss exactly the useless Buddhism. You're a rich young fellow, you may spend your time for this. I have to struggle to earn a dollar or two, I have to do sports to keep myself above average (not willing to be a Norman-tier type) and I have to learn really useful knowledge (economics, psychology, martial arts, online activities, etc.)

You are a philosophy student right? What about seeing a layman who thinks philosophy is useless and it can only overwhelm yourself in shitloads of meaningless coundrums? I am having the same feeling now.

 It shows that you're a zealot! I don't care who respects or not the philosophy. But you're on the state of a zealot -- a few months ago you didn't even mention the religion and now... trying to make all of us Buddhist or Buddhists fans... Not very different than a Muslim who wants people to truly believe in Allah, meleks (angels), etc.
 I don't want to hurt your feelings but, as it was mentioned above, we're mostly poor or semi-poor people, who only can rely on science, sport and working hard, so we have NO NEED AND NO TIME for Buddhist things that only can make us more:

- poor 
- weak (not active and giving up easy)
- subjective (believing in theories who never prove till today).

But I am not saying you are 'over-confident' or 'unopen'. It's totally normal for a person to be like this when he or she has not learned something yet.

 And I have to repeat that I was born 1975, a former Buddhist, a Master of Philosophy, a writer, etc. and... when I was reading about Buddha you were even not planned by your parents. True.

I remember I myself thought IQ was just bs and believed anyone who treated IQ seriously just coped with his or her unindustriousness, but now? I have known IQ is the most validated construct among all of psychometric constructs.

 Oh, wait! This topics you also didn't finish. There were many questions about it and you just avoided them. Like those that the IQ is once and forever (according to your mentor) and the opposite ones who state that the IQ is improvable. Take a look again. I see your memory isn't well (if you even forgot that I am a 大叔, a QQ-pal and a philosopher-anthropologist), but at least you're not an amnesiac, right?

I remember I myself thought Communism was just a piece of white lie that was made use of by evil politicians like Xi to encroach on his or her people, but after I had known how scientific it was actually, I even embarked on learning Communism literatures before!

 The problem of the Communism (in its Marxism-Leninism variant primary) is that it's too fatalistic. My Ontology professor (Alexander Andonov) did agree with me that it's a sort of fatalism. The world's history showed I am right a few years later (after I stated this in the Sofia University).

For Buddhism, yeah I was even a former anti-Buddhism, because I thought it robbed people's money by the pieces of white lie, the mysterious stories, the hypocritic ideologies it preached, etc., but after I had known how amazing it was, I turned into a Buddhist from an anti-Buddhism!

 And you denied all those facts that you witnessed? Hey, there are really tons of it! In China, everywhere! They, mostly, use your money, sometimes even may rape your girlfriend (if she is too naive to believe them)! Of course, it's nothing to do with the Buddhism as a theory, but... till now you didn't give a single example, at least 1 or 2 examples, how the Buddhism helps the incels to become happy, normal noncels (not volcels what the Buddhism is teaching). OK, you accepted yourself as a volcel, for this time, but, see the "tiny" difference, OK? Here we are trying to deal with the problems of the incels. In case you forgot, here is my e-book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Escape-Inceldom-QUICK-Deincelization-ebook/dp/B0855FTRZ1

I really suggest learning some literatures before forming any viewpoint! You may realize how severely you were suffering from Dunning-Krugger Effect after you really know about Buddhism!
(PS: yeah I know Dunning-Krugger Effect has been debunked but it's easier to throw to let you understand what I am construing than 'You are being too over-confident in your understanding of Buddhism because of your lack of understanding and learning of Buddhism') 

 I do suggest to start a better diet (+ sports) to improve your memory because (I really wish you the best and I hope it's not the case but..) it looks like amnesia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amnesia)! So, don't get me wrong, I have no hard feelings; I even wish to re-connect with you on QQ and I will find you when I move my desktop computer to my apartment because now it's in a shop. I will suggest you some good cooperation here, because there are some bank opportunities which are only a dream in China. Hope to see you soon around! Best wishes!

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EARN MONEY / Re: Cambodian man (Heng Santha) not paying back the money we lent him

« on: January 23, 2024, 11:54:12 PM »

 Once Heng Santha (Sun Design and Decor company) deleted and blocked the chat/-s that I had with him (in Telegram), I am not going to keep any privacy and I continue to show you our chats (conversations) without any editing (for example before I edited my Telegram name and his Telegram name, wasting a lot of time, but now - just posting the rest as a raw text):

IMPORTANT NOTICE: The full name of his company is "Sun Design and Decor", not just "Sun Decor" (which is how he nicknamed himself on Telegram!)

Sun decor
Good morning
13:29
I just come back from hospital to clean and will go to check the site
13:29
Georgi
👋 Hello
13:31
Alright. And have a good Pchum Ben festival!👍🍀
13:32
Sun decor
No pchum Ben
13:32
Get accident
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Do the work
13:37
Georgi
😊👍 appreciate your hard will and hard work!
13:39
Sun decor
Sticker
😓
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In reply to this message
Ok, thanks
13:42
Georgi
We will be outside today to search for a flat for rent. If you need some help, we will come to help you. 👍🤝
13:44
Sun decor
Ok
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Sun decor

15:41

15:41
Where are you now
15:42
Just want to discuss the electric power box
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Georgi
We're coming.
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Sun decor

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We back home now.
18:04
Georgi
👍🤝
14 October 2023
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Sun decor

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Hi they finish the translation
16:30
We can sign today
16:36
I need the money to buy other materials for cover, now we finish for the structure, I waiting you here.
16:36

17:08
Georgi
They will finish it on Monday.
17:08
Now we can pay in cash only.
17:09
When do you need the money?
17:10
On Monday we can use the bank to pay you directly.
17:53
Georgi
We came.
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Are you here around?
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If not, we can pay you in cash 💵 tomorrow. 👌
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And if we pay on Monday, when the banks are open, we can pay directly to your bank account. You choose the best way for you.👌👍🍀
18:03
Okay, we go home now. Tell me how do you prefer.
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Georgi
The payment is 100% sure, no worries .👍🤝🙏
15 October 2023
12:22
Sun decor
ok, i just come back from hospitall, so we can meet on monday
12:23
i will be there any time on monday
12:24
you can give by case
12:24
is ok
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Georgi
Alright. Monday afternoon we'll come.😊👍🤝
16 October 2023
13:09
Sun decor
OK, I waiting you there at 1:30pm, and how is the translation?
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Let sent it to me before print out, ok
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Georgi
Okay, 1:30 we will come to pay you the money.👌
13:15
Sun decor
Great
13:15
Georgi
The contract we can sign later, we trust you.👍🤝
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Yes.😊
13:16
Sun decor
Please take English version of the contract too
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In reply to this message
Welcome
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It true
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Georgi
We can send you the money even now.👌
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Wait a moment...
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Oh... It says your ABA account number isn't right. What's the error?
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Is it really 00227676?
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Sun decor
No
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It me
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000227676
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Heng santha
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Georgi

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Sun decor
Wrong 0
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Georgi
In the contract only two zeros.😀
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Sun decor
000
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Sorry

As you can see, we were vert responsible, correct and honest to him. Paying soon, giving him loans, correcting his bank account mistakes... and at the end, we were cheated by Heng Santha.




13:45
Georgi
Okay, okay. We're going to try again now.
13:45
Sun decor
Now I'm here
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Help sent to me the report of bank too, I will check
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Georgi
Ready.
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Here is a screenshot from the report.
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Sun decor
Many thanks
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Georgi
🤝👌👍
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When the contract is ready we will tell you. We will take it this evening from the translator.👌
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Tomorrow will be ready I hope. No worries.👍👌
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Sun decor
Ok
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Sun decor
About the sign above do you need to design some picture of your products, please send to me i will added
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Georgi
Good idea!💡 Thank you for the suggestion! I will send you tonight.
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The contract is ready for tomorrow too! 👍
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100% good news.🍀👌😊
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Georgi
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This is the contract in English.👌👍
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And these are the pictures for the banner above.👌
21:53
Sun decor
Good, do you need me to print out
21:56
Georgi
If it's not a problem for you, please print them all and we'll sign up.👍🤝
22:02
Sun decor
ok, no problem
22:03
let afternoon, in the morning i busy.
22:10
Georgi
We prefer afternoon too. 👍👍👍
17 October 2023
12:25
Sun decor

12:26
Do we need to add the name below
12:27
Georgi
Yes, it's better.👌
12:27
Sun decor

12:28
Georgi
😊🤝 okay.
12:59
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12:59
Let see the design
13:00
If ok I print it out
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👍
13:12
Georgi
Sticker
👌
13:12
Okay.
13:12
Looks good., 👍
14:38
Sun decor
this afternoon at 4pm will meet you, because now busy check staff to print banner above.
15:05
Georgi
Okay, we prefer to go out late anyway. 4 p.m. is good for us.👍😊
17:02
Georgi
We are here.
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Are you around?
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I brought my passport too.👌
17:12
Sun decor
Where are you
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I’m arrived
19:51
Sun decor
How about the painting on the door, wood door & iron door [add more job]?
20:22
Georgi
They will stay open anyway, so don't need to paint them.👌
20:23
About the water pipe, can your workers repair one water pipe inside too? We have one leaking pipe to repair.
20:26
The landlord said he will pay all the water repairment, 😊👍so you can give me a separate invoice only for the water pipes if the workers can do it well.👌
20:28
When everything else is ready maybe we can order the water pipes repair separately because he said to send him the water repairment invoice and he will pay it all.👌👍
22:02
Sun decor
Others think, in case you have a problem with withdraw the money in to the bank, I can help, because I have a friend at bank, he is the manager.
22:10
Georgi
Good to know.👍🙏 But till now the money transfers in Cambodia were good for us, so it's going without problems.😊👍
22:20
Sun decor
We need to talk more
22:22
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Ok
22:23
And give his phone number to me I will talk with him
22:25
Georgi
I told him that you will repair the water outside and inside and he agrees to cover the water repairment. So you can call him about the details.
22:27
Sun decor
Ok
22:30
Georgi
Good 👍 Now I will tell you, he agrees to receive a call now.👌
22:31
092487777
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Sin Lina
22:31
Sun decor
Ok
22:31
Georgi
👌👍
22:32
Sun decor
Talk with her tomorrow
22:33
Georgi
Him😀. He is a man. The name is Sin Lina. He is a Cambodian person.

(Noticed it? He even can't make the difference between the Cambodian male names and Cambodian female names! What an "educated" person!)



22:34
Okay, tomorrow. 👌
22:35
Sun decor
ok
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Lina is girl
22:40
Georgi
Maybe this name is for boys too? I don't know. 😊 But he is 100% a male.
22:40
Here he is:
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22:41
Sun decor
ok,
22:41
Georgi
We met him already when we signed the rent contract. He is a good man.
22:41
👍 ok.
22:41
Sun decor
ok
22:42
good night
22:42
Georgi
Good night to you too. 🍀
20 October 2023
19:20
Sun decor
So silent man

(We just wanted to leave him to finish his job soon, without bothering him. Didn't know that he expects more communication!)
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19:21
Just want to ask to you for the signage above, I think we need to add two lighter on the top
19:23
Georgi
I think it's okay. If the lighters are expensive, just don't add them. 👌
19:24
Sun decor
small it may be 20$ each

(Notice how all the time he wants to charge more money!)
19:25
Georgi
We want to save money, so only what is in the contract. 🙏
19:25
Sun decor
ok,
19:25
Georgi
The owner said already paid the water.
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Sun decor
yes
19:25
Georgi
👌
19:29
Sun decor
Tomorrow could i borrow 100$ to pay for the worker, the translater forget add for 80% of work, you need to to pay 70% more. I hope you may understand. Thanks
19:41
Georgi
Altogether is 590 dollars, right?
19:41
Sun decor
Ýe
19:41
Georgi
And we paid 290 dollars already.
19:41
Sun decor
Đa 100 mỏ rẻ
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add 100$more
19:42
Georgi
So you need 300 more.
19:42
Sun decor
390$
19:42
Georgi
Why?
19:42
The contract said 590.
19:42
Sun decor
In reply to this message
yes
19:43
Georgi
So we pay 300 dollars more and this is the end, right?
19:43
Sun decor
yes

Nonstop wanted to receive money as much as possible, even if it's not exactly according to our contract! See?
19:44
Georgi
Good. Tomorrow I will give you 100 dollars.
19:44
Sun decor
only logo
19:44
Georgi
And at the end 200 dollars, right?
19:44
Sun decor
we nearly finish letter lighter
19:44
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ok thanks
19:45
Georgi
Okay.
21 October 2023
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13:48
Georgi
Okay. I will send you the money very soon.
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👌
13:51
Sun decor
thanks
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now we back to office for eating
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Georgi

13:58
Alright. Have a good day. 🍵 ☕
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Sun decor
In reply to this message
🙏
14:01
Georgi
🤝
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Sun decor
why you don't do any process for preparing, I'm there i can help
14:08
Georgi
Because we are busy to do other things: the house rent, the schools negotiations, the problems with the banks in China, my father's health care in Bulgaria and the business registration in Cambodia. A lot to do these days and we do slowly, day by day.👌 No problem, just need time.
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Sun decor
ok
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waste money for rent
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why it difficault with banks?
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That not the black money
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In Cambodia, so easy event black money too.

HERE! Exactly here I started to doubt about his moral and ethics! He is mentioning the "black money", i. e. the illegal money; criminal money!!!

14:13
Georgi
We don't waste money for rent. We will start to sell there soon, when it's ready. We only will put some shelves and we start at once.
14:14
Sun decor
You can use my company to shareholder, I have license from Ministry of the commercial too.
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Others about business registration, I can help you too.

(Good that I didn't start to cooperate with him about it too! He stole our 100 dollars (100.76 with the transfer to be exact, because he promised in front of the policemen that he's going to pay it all!), so that was a right decision not to start any shareholder things with him!)

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Good
14:15
Georgi
My money are from the flat in China. It was 31 sq. M. Small money. But China bank now is controlling the money more and we take them slowly, because of the limits.
14:15
Sun decor
In reply to this message
Ok too
14:16
Georgi
The business only needs a public computer. Yesterday from MOC sent me this.
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Sun decor
In reply to this message
What kind of business
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Georgi
I am registering the 123 mart in Ministry of Commerce. This is a simple but online procedure for the foreigners.
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Sun decor
I see
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For small mart
14:19
I think you can start at Battambong city more quick
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This morning so interested with sushi for the children there
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They look to the signage
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Georgi
Because we started in Phnom Penh and they said only online and I will go to an Internet cafe today... About Battambang didn't try it but a person said here is more complicated because they need a body check (hospital examination) and I do avoid hospitals.
14:34
Very nice. If the kids like it maybe it will be successful ☺️👍
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Thank you for sharing 🙏.

 To be continued!