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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Since Buddhism is not a scientific Dharma of 'happymaxxing', what else are?

« on: January 28, 2024, 12:43:15 AM »

I just posted it too early, now I am editing my post, please, read again after some hours. (Too much stress because of my money problems with the Cambodian cheater and my Bulgarian father and sometimes "losing control".  )

Of course, I never said everything of Buddhism was correct. What I was aruging with you is whether Buddhism is pessimistic or optimistic and why Buddhism could 'liberate' you. And I was elucidating why those things made sense to me. Buddhism itself also tells not to 'put it on pedestral' so that you should think of as everything it says as right.

But shouldn't we get back to the story? What else are the 'scientific dharmas of happiness'

 Did you read my edited (added) answer above? If so, ignore the rest. It's only for the summary:

 - Psychology (and anthropology): to know what you really are and what are your real needs, nature, etc. from a scientific point of view, for example, to know that you're a mammal not a reptile and to know that you're a product of the natural evolution, not a God/god's creation.

 - Everything else based on scientific method/methods (mathematics, dietology, economics, sociology, geography, etc.) to help you being in good shape and health (very basic things for the happiness, because "Health isn't everything but without health everything is nothing."), to help you avoid cheaters, to help you know where the society and the nature are safer, etc.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Since Buddhism is not a scientific Dharma of 'happymaxxing', what else are?

« on: January 28, 2024, 12:36:25 AM »

 Ready! Added more important parts. Please, re-read it again and I'll continue tomorrow.  /It's a bit sad when a philosopher and a scientist have to deal with daily routines like this ones here: to figure out how to find a good place to sell out shelves, to cook dinner, to kill some mosquitoes..., instead to spend all his energy to produce useful knowledge like that above... But this is it... The poor philosophers had to do it. Remember Spinoza? "Spinoza /巴鲁赫·斯宾诺莎/ earned a modest living from lens-grinding and instrument making..." + "Spinoza's health began to fail in 1676, dying in The Hague on 21 February 1677 at the age of 44... Although he had been ill with some form of lung affliction..., perhaps complicated by silicosis brought on by grinding glass lenses..." (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baruch_Spinoza)/ 
 People tend to think that many of the good philosopher, writers, etc. are/were rich and lived a happy life just because they were clever and helped others... but if you read most of their biographies you will find out that they were not rich and even had miserable lives... I am something like this currently (but at least, at last, a way better than my recent years in Xi's China, where I had even no right to teach English, Russian, Korean, Bulgarian, Tatar legally...)

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Since Buddhism is not a scientific Dharma of 'happymaxxing', what else are?

« on: January 27, 2024, 11:42:03 PM »

 I just posted it too early, now I am editing my post, please, read again after some hours. (Too much stress because of my money problems with the Cambodian cheater and my Bulgarian father and sometimes "losing control".  )

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Since Buddhism is not a scientific Dharma of 'happymaxxing', what else are?

« on: January 27, 2024, 11:15:32 PM »

 Appreciations! This is the way I like -- someone to take into consideration (i. e. thinking carefully about a particular fact when deciding or judging something) when we debate it.
 Thank you very much for your mature attitude and for understanding that I was debating without bad intentions.
  And straight to the topic (my style; trying not to waste time):

 1) There are (in Buddhism, and in other religions) things that are right, useful, good. If we're true scientists we shouldn't ignore the things that are right (religious or non-religious). This is what I learned before from an Armenian (Soviet) philosopher (1926-2015) who reminded the old rule that from everything you can take the reasonable and the right thing, don't ignore it in 100%.
 For example,

 1.1. "Things derive their being and nature by mutual dependence and are nothing in themselves." (This is 100% scientific and philosophical because it's stating the universal relationship of the things, simply like "If there is no Earth, we'll be not able to exist." or "If you kill all of the flora and fauna, you're a dead man.") /Nagarjuna/

 1.2. "Although you may spend your life killing, you will not exhaust all your foes. But if you quell your own anger, your real enemy will be slain." (Also, nearly science related, because it's a simple, but true psychological and/or mathematical conclusion that if you're negative, the chance to get more enemies is higher than if you're positive and keep low profile.) /Nagarjuna/

 1.3. "Everything in moderation, including moderation." (Very dialectical, exact and wise!) /Buddha/

 1.4. "One moment can change a day, one day can change a life, and one life can change the world." (Almost the same as the Butterfly effect! (蝴蝶效应, in Chinese, you should know it.))

 2) There are obviously wrong (or semi-wrong at best) Buddhist statements like these:

 2.1. "Since all is empty, all is possible." (First, he didn't prove the emptiness. Second, he didn't realize the nature of the possibility -- there are 3 kinds of it: formal possibility /i. e., only thinkable, but nearly 100% impossible, /, abstract possibility, i. e. somewhat possible and real possibility, i. e. the one that is very easy to become a reality (like Xi Jinping dies soon and China has a better leader like Hu Jintao, at least!))  /Nagarjuna/

 2.2. "Pain is certain; suffering is optional." (Which is true only when it comes to mild problems like "My relatives don't want to give me the property." /our present COMMON problem, my friend, which makes me feel you even closer!/... Well, LET US say that we may ignore that I am losing my thousands of EUROs apartment in Bulgaria and you're not getting your millions of RMB in China... we can just "ignore those lacking off empathy and greedy relatives"... but WHAT IF we really suffer from some physical pain like kidney stones? There is almost no way to say "I feel my kidney like hell, but, hey, no worries! Ii is optional!"... Most of the tough people who are tortured, sooner or later, give up. The physical pain isn't a joke. This is one of the reason why the bad dictators, bullies, etc. do win. They just cause a severe pain, physical, semi-physical or mental, but a pain... )
 See, I know that there are SOME monks (and even ordinary, non-religious people) who can feel no pain or ignore the pain, or stand the pain (to the level when they do some scary protest like "I burn myself!!!"...), but it's all about the outliers (异数, in Chinese, right?).

 And, at the end, the answer:

 3) Well, the felicitology (the "science" or philosophy of happiness) is something that (as I learned during my university's years) something impossible, unrealistic because of "happiness" is too subjective. The happiness for a girl who can't walk is to be able to run on the green grass; the happiness for an incel is just to have a loving Betty or Stacy; the happiness for you is to live happily in Shanghai, but for me is to live happily in Hainan (if the neo-emperor somehow 下台 /steps down/ or just die as soon as possible) because I love China and I love the Tropical places...

 So, let's take into account your concrete subjective situation:

 3.1. You want to be in Shanghai + to have a Shanghai girl... Oh, there is nothing in science that can help you to achieve the happiness (this goal) except the ultra-maxx (yes, I know it sounds silly from the perspective of the colleagues, noncels and the common science, but what I do is to use the incels' jargon). Ultra-maxx, in this case includes:

- money-maxx (and/or property-maxx, car-maxx, status-maxx, etc.) because you can't very easy satisfy a Chinese woman and especially a Chinese woman from Shanghai. Yes, there were some native ones, who claimed that the native Shanghai females weren't so greedy and all the greed came from the new-comers, from the surrounding villages, other places of China, etc. but still, ,if you are house-less, car-less, status-less in Shanghai... "good luck" with a local marriage!

3.2. If  you lower your goals (something like me -- just trying to be happy in the poorer SEA-countries), then you even don't need any science!
 Here, you're enough:

- white
- tall
- good nose-d
- rich (extremely rich!!!)
- you can have instantly a good house, a Toyota (already high-status or around) and a lot of decent girls to like you (not only gold-diggers).

 3.3. If we're not talking about you but about the average person, well, then the science that helps your happiness is almost everything: yes, you have to know your brain and psychology, but also you have to be good at geography (for example, to choose a place without earthquakes, typhoons, volcanoes, etc.), to be good at learning languages (the sooner you learn the foreign language the better!), to be good at elementary math (at least count well the money and the prices, because some locals think "Foreigner = rich" and/or "Foreigner = must pay more!"), etc.
 So, practically, almost all branches of the science may help you to improve your happiness. Last example, knowing hygiene, can save you from getting some easy to avoid (but terrible) disease like echinococcosis (Chinese name: 胞蟲症)...

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Other topics / Re: People of which country are the richest?

« on: January 27, 2024, 07:04:07 AM »

 My friend, you are one of the most informed and intelligent young Chinese I know. But in this case you're wrong (about the second part of the problem you wrote about). The first part is correct 💯, that a rich country doesn't mean rich population and India is one of the best examples. But let me go to the second part: you, as many other Chinese citizens, overestimate the wealth of the average US citizen. So your guess that the richest people are the USA's or Britain's is wrong. According to the CIA's factbook, the richest (GDP per Capita) are Liechtenstein, Monaco, Luxembourg, Singapore, Ireland and Qatar. And, as you know, most of them are unknown to most of the Chinese who know only around 10-15 countries around the world. The geography knowledge of many Chinese isn't good, it's a fact that I am writing objectively, regardless that I am a Chinese fan. But back to the USA and UK. You don't have to compare them with the top richest like Liechtenstein or Monaco! Even Switzerland or Norway (pet capita) are better.
 USA is between SAR Macao (澳门) and Brunei. And UK is worse, it's between Taiwan and France.
 So, I am not saying that the average citizen of USA and UK is too poor, of course, we (people from East Europe and China) can dream to have their GDP per capita. I just disagree to put them on the top which is far away from the reality. About China's GDP per capita, currently it's around the level of Mexico and Thailand. Developing countries' level... Here is the source: https://www.cia.gov/the-world-factbook/field/real-gdp-per-capita/country-comparison/

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Lucid dreams-maxx

« on: January 27, 2024, 12:36:59 AM »

 I want it too... Especially when I can't dream (for a long time) what I want. For example, nearly half year, I didn't dream Long Jun-Hong: (but I think about her almost every week like "Is she alright?", "Is she still in Haikou?", "What will be the effect of the present more and more ultranationalistic and highly subjective Chinese education in Xi's China (Xina) on her?" and some others like "Is she going to live in China forever or she will move abroad later?", "What is her brother doing?", "Are her parents doing still well in there?") but, alas, no dreams about her for so long! And the day before yesterday, at last, I dreamed that we met (I think it was abroad, not in China) and she said "I missed you!" and I asked: "And why you didn't add my Telegram?"  and this dream made me (when I woke up) so much happier, more optimistic, more balanced and I even (nearly) forgot all those traumas that I had recently (the noisy neighbors in China, the endless lockdowns of the neo-emperor, etc. ... and then, here in Cambodia, all those shocks -- my father decided to give his apartment to his girlfriend and a Cambodian man (Heng Santha) refused to pay us back his 100 dollars debt.)
 So, of course, it's a sort of escapism but if you (at the same time) work hard (and work smart) to become a better version of yourself (stronger, healthier, richer, smarter, etc.) then it may be very supportive in fact. It's like the rest for the bodybuilders. If you are a bodybuilder and you don't take a rest, your progress can't be good. You also can't be a bodybuilder if you are only resting. The necessary combination is hard/smart work out + enough rest. And this is exactly the same when we're talking about the lucid dreams: only lucid dreams may be something that ruins your life but a combination of lucid dreams + self-improvement (sports, knowledge, skills, earnings and so on) is another (ideal, I'd say) story!

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EARN MONEY / Re: Cambodian man (Heng Santha) not paying back the money we lent him

« on: January 27, 2024, 12:13:18 AM »

Yes, we are in Blue Diamond hotel.
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Soon will move to another place.
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I think she like ice-cream
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OK
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Georgi

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Georgi
Good, I think they have ice creams too.😊👍
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Best
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Georgi
Tomorrow when it's ready we'll pay you the last money.👌
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Yes thanks
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Georgi
And the day after tomorrow we will meet in the restaurant to celebrate and to get the keys 🔐 🗝️.
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Good.
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Georgi
😊🤝
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Good morning
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Kindly to say for 100 % payment, I will clear for my worker.
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Tomorrow, will bring invoice for you. Thanks
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We ready clean
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We will help more, Incase you need edit some more
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Did you get up yet
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Georgi
Everything is okay. I will pay you soon.😊🍀👍🙏
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OK, so kind to pay I will will clear with my staff. Thanks
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Georgi
Of course, of course. Just a moment please. 🤝
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At 28, if you have time we invite you to join party of my customer
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Georgi
Thanks 🙏😊🍀
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That big project of full decorations.
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And tomorrow at 5:00 p.m. you are invited at La Pizza 🍕. Remember.👌🙂
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good
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ok
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I will prepair the cake for you
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give to me of your date of birth
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I was born 26.10.1975 🙂, but it's not necessary. You can just come without cake. 😊

(Notice that: 1. I saved him money because I didn't want him to buy any cakes for me!, 2. I ordered ice cream for his daughter besides the pizzas and other food in that restaurant. 3. I bought 2 dollars presents for his daughter that time (and often gave her some little presents like sticker or origami...))



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☺
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How is your going with transfer money
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still have a problem
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Canadia bank is working again in Battambang so there is easier now. 👌
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Maybe after a few days I will receive all.
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When you do party?
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How many people
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Only we two and you with your daughter.😊
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We are waiting you here.
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At 5:00 O'Clock.
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Oh
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She sleeps
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Georgi
Come at 6:00 O'Clock then?
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Or 6:30
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I will call my daughter
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Let her sleep well.
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Now is ok
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We will go
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Okay, don't be in hurry, we will wait to 7:00 O'Clock. No problem. 🤝
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Ok
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Where is the pizza name
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I can’t find
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"La Pizza"
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I will send you the map.
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Ok
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Voice message
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Location
13.097010, 103.200048
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That pizza other people not know
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Only pizza company
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This side with a lot of selling
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Not long way after the bridge near park cafe
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Street 159 D.
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Ok we arrived
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You inside
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Yes.
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Pong Sivsea
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Pong Khievsea

(This (the Pong-names) he sent me in the restaurant when he started to speak about some rich Cambodian person and asked me if I know him. I told him that I don't and he tried to spell his name in English (Latin).)
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Your photos for good memories.😊🍀
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27 October 2023
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Georgi
You're welcome.😊
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Good friendship
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🙏🍀
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Thanks
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You can buy the land build the house in Battambong
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I can help you
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Rent to expensive
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We hope we can buy some near Koh Kong.
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In the future, if get richer.
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😊
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ok
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the did you ready do leaflate yet?
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Name card
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Later, when we receive the things for the shop, the shelves, the cashier machine, etc. Still not ready for advertising.
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The cards, yes.
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Do englisg is ok too
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they know all english
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they are educated people
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Do you need a key?
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Georgi
Yes, this evening we can take the keys. For example, 5:30 or 6:30. Where is okay for you to meet?
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We can come to your company or the nearest place you are. 👌
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Choose where is convenient for you and we will meet there.👍
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Better I bring for you
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My office is far, you have no moto too
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Go to your flate ok
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Okay, in front of 123 mart, after an hour.👌😊
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We will be there.
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Ok
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We go now
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I arrived
28 October 2023
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Georgi
Hello 👋
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Send me the logo for the business cards, please.🙂
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You can give this file for the print
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coreldraw
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123 MART.cdr
5.2 MB
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You can open in CORELDRAW softwear
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The printing shop they know
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Georgi
Okay. Thanks.
29 October 2023
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do you ready to go, see you at there 5:30pm
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where are you
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you can find that hospital?
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You can see the Coca Cola store
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That is the market
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Missed
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Location
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Okay, we're going.
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I waiting you
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did you go to open the house
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i saw the door open
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Georgi
Yes.
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We're coming.
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ok
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only walk can come
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bad tracfic
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Yes.
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We only walk usually.
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nearly arrive, i waiting you
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Almost there
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ok
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you can finne
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Yes
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find
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ok
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i wating you infront
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We are almost here
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where are you
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be hind of the big market
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you can see a lot of car
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Here
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no
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you here the music
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Yes.
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come infront
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Saw it 😄
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did you see the red signage
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ok
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We saw all the rooms on every floor!👍😊
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Really good decoration job👍👍👍
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Now we will go back. Good night.🌙🙂
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good night too
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Good
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i go home too
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I can't fine you
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Good. We had a good time.🍸🏮👍🌙
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Thanks for the video!
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yes


To be continued! (In the next part there will be about how he admitted that he's drunken and he is afraid of another traffic accident!)

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EARN MONEY / 100% agreed

« on: January 26, 2024, 11:43:01 PM »

 You see, when it's something that I share the same or very close opinion, I come to support you at once (not having any bad feeling against you).
 So, I do agree 100% about that -- there are some crazy Chinese who really think so because of their mental disorders, but the vast majority of them are just low-educated financially (economically) and/or more greedy than the average Chinese person.
 I also met some Chinese people who (being rich) were thinking that sums (of money) like 100 000 yuan (around USD 14,097.24 now) are "not expensive". They just can't imagine that there are people (in China) who are working for 2000 yuan/month (around USD 281.94 now) -- for example some of the cleaners or waiters/waitress and shop assistants in Hainan province of (still so-called) PRC.
 So, if it comes to USD 1 000 000 (which currently equals ~ RMB 7 000 000: 7,093,600.00 yuan now, to be exact, according to Google's information), only very rich (or very uninformed or really stupid) people may think that it's "so-so". I mean, yes, if you are having USD 100 000 000, for you, objectively, the 1% of this money is a "so-so" amount. But for a person with income RMB 2000, as those mentioned above in Hainan island, it's NOT AT ALL "so-so" because the simple arithmetics shows this (let's take an example with "only" 1 million yuan):

 1000000 / 2000 = 500 (One million renminbis / 2000 renminbi (one salary) = 500 salaries) and 500 / 12 = 41.66(6) (500 salaries / 12 months = around 42 years going to work). Which shows that most of these people (and most, or at least many, of the people around the world) will never receive that much (1 000 000 yuan).

 So, this is it. If some Chinese (or a person from another nationality, it's not the point) states that USD 1 mln. is "just so-so", he or she is filthy rich and/or he/she lacks of "touch with reality" (out of touch with reality).

 (Objectively, the perception of 1 000 000 US dollars depends on where you are. If you're in Singapore where you need to pay 20 dollars for a dish it may be something like "so-so", but if you're in Cambodia where the same dish costs only 1,50 dollars, then the same sum of money (1 million US dollars) is a lot and a dream).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: My will

« on: January 26, 2024, 10:13:45 PM »

 Oh, now I see what "Russian" you meant. Yes, as it was stated above, the letters are similar (in fact, they're almost the same; the difference is that Russians use a few more). The origin is the same (Cyrillic script). The script (in Chinese -- "西里尔字母" or "西里尔文") script was created during the First Bulgarian Empire based on Greek and some Bulgar (西匈奴的) letters/characters.
 I can't laugh if some Chinese don't make difference between Russian script and Bulgarian script because, for example, there are many Europeans and others who don't make any difference between Chinese and Japanese (and even worse -- between Chinese and Korean.) Nobody is omni-knowledgeable, so we learn all life long.
 But a "bio" was really a bit more.
 OK, we can close the memory related sub-topic here. If you are sure everything is okay, we don't need to continue it. Of course, as a Harvard fan, you may be interested to see the Harvard's opinion about what diet is good for a better memory (limiting the red meat, yes, but not all kinds of meat, i. e. a vegetarian (including the Buddhist) diet isn't the best for the memory): https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/boost-your-memory-by-eating-right.
 About the time of the birth, most of the average intelligent people usually know who is born B.C., so I wasn't impressed even the time when I learned for the first time (after the primary school period). Usually it's not very important when someone was born when it comes to ethics, philosophy, literature and some others parts of the knowledge (culture) because some of these people born B.C. like the ancient philosophers were smarter than some of the nowadays people (which even can't read, i.e. the illiterate people). Usually the truth isn't strictly related to the time. For example, if someone, 3000 years ago said "1 + 8 = 9" he/she is right and knows the math better than another one, who right now, a second ago, said that it equals 48237648231746821376562197.  But when it is about more concrete knowledge (and not only) like what is better to eat, what is the Solar system, are there germs and viruses, etc., the ancient people (even the smartest of them) just couldn't know it because it's related with the level of the science and techniques, industry, etc. That is why I prefer to rely on the modern science when I want to know what is better for my health, for my attitudes, for my successful existence in the world than to trust someone like Mohammed, Jesus, Buddha, etc., who even didn't know (and had no way to know!) stuff like: how many planets are there in our Solar system, how to produce electricity (at least on theory, like us), what is a germ, a virus, a molecule, an atom, an electron..., what is sushi,... they really had NO ANY IDEA that there are continents like America (Americas) and Antarctica. ([irony=100%level]They even did't know "Xi Jinping Thought on Socialism with Chinese Characteristics for a New Era" (“习近平新时代中国特色社会主义思想”)[/irony]) So, with their limited knowledge (facts) base, it's logical that they couldn't give you advise the same as some modern scholar.

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Other languages / ВИЦ - Пух, Прасчо и Йори

« on: January 26, 2024, 01:21:40 AM »

Пух, Прасчо и Йори

Мечо Пух и Прасчо отиват на училище на 15-ти септември. Там ги карат да напишат съчинение - "Какво правих през лятото". Прасчо пита:
- Пух, какво да пишем? През цялото лято бяхме пияни, друго не сме правили...
Мечо Пух му казва:
- Прасчо, вместо "пили" пиши "чели". Чели цяло лято звучи добре...
Учителката проверява съчинението на Прасчо:
"Събудих се и започнах да чета. После се измих. Продължих да чета. Преди закуска четох още малко. Закусих. До обяда пак четох. Обядвах. После ми се приспа. Преди да подремна четох още малко. Прочетох книжката. Поспах. Събудих се и започнах да чета. Дойде Мечо Пух. От далече му личеше, че е чел. Отидохме на балкона. Стоим и четем. Идва Йори и ни пита: "Имате ли нещо за четене?". Личи му, че е много начетен... от джоба му стърчи половин буквар."

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EARN MONEY / Re: Cambodian man (Heng Santha) not paying back the money we lent him

« on: January 26, 2024, 12:17:57 AM »

Sun decor
you are welcome
16:38
You need to install class table on the walk road is the best
16:49
Georgi
Yes, maybe later we can install one. Depending on if we will have good earnings from the shop and then, step by step (gradually), we may upgrade it with more things.👌
16:59
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Good
22 October 2023
20:58
Sun decor

20:58
We do LED lighter at office, we will install to finish tomorrow.
21:09
Georgi
Okay, 👌, how about the side sight and the balcony pipe?
21:10

21:10
This， no problem, right?
21:11
And the balcony pipe.
21:12
Sun decor
sure
21:13
Georgi
Good job 👍 👍👍
21:17
Sun decor
while we finish with the lighter connection we will close\cover it.
21:17
I will check for all
21:20
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For that we buy ready while we finish install the below signage we will add too
21:22
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We keep the small hole to hanging iron for under signage below
21:23
We will take out small zin to hang the signage and then do cover back
21:57
Georgi
Alright 👌.
24 October 2023
19:51
Sun decor
Tomorrow we need the cloth to cover signage.
20:25
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4m * 0.6m
20:40
Georgi
Yes. I see.
20:40
Sun decor
Now I open the light to test
20:40
Where are you
20:41
Georgi
In the hotel.
20:43
Sun decor
You can come down to see your signage lighter
20:45
Georgi
Come down but it's late already and we don't have car or bike. (Also don't pay money for tuk-tuk because we are poor and saving.)
20:45
So we will see it tomorrow maybe.
20:45
Sun decor
Oh
20:46
I can bring you
20:46
Which hotel
20:47
I will show you photos
20:47
But not like real
20:48
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OK
20:48
Georgi
Just take a photo is okay 👍, my wife is in the bathroom now and don't want to go out again.😄

It was one of the rightest decisions we ever made! He's driving drunken and jeopardizing his life and the lives of the others! Being on a motorbike (or another vehicle) with this person is too risky!



20:48
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OK
20:48
Georgi
Yes, photo is enough, no problem. We trust you are professional.👍
20:48
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We will do cleaning tomorrow
20:49
Georgi
👍 good.
20:49
And the day after tomorrow is ready?
20:49
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Tomorrow is ready
20:50
Just clean the floor only
20:51

20:51

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Georgi
Okay. So, the day after tomorrow we can have a dinner together to celebrate my 48th birthday.👍😄😊
20:52
Good 👍🍀👍
20:53
If your daughter likes pizza we can go to a good pizzeria. Or anywhere she likes. 😊
20:53
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OK good
20:54
Georgi
26.10. 🍽️🍷 🍷🍾 🍕🍕🌮 🍽️
20:54
😊

Notice how good I was to him! I invited (from all people around) only him and his daughter!

20:55
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She not know
20:56
Up to you
20:58
Why you stay at hotel
20:58
Georgi
Okay. October 26, we will invite you to "La Pizza", 5 p.m.

To be continued!

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Moneymax effortlessly but realized how much of big assholes my relatives were

« on: January 26, 2024, 12:16:47 AM »

About the gym-maxx:

1) It's cheap or even free if you know how to make it in the parks, at home.
2) It's very useful for improving your looks (not only the body, also, partly, the face).
3) It's keeping you more healthy. Which also improves your looks.
4) It's keeping you more positive, self-confident, happier, which is important for your ascending (and daily routines).

 Once something is so affordable and so useful in many ways, of course, we will (and have to) prioritize it. /当然，一旦某样东西如此实惠且在很多方面如此有用，我们就会（并且必须）优先考虑它。/

 About that statement that Chinese girls do not prefer muscle guys. Totally wrong! I saw it by myself:

a) When I was 58 kilos most of the Chinese females said to me I am too skinny.

b) When I became 87 kilos most of them started to avoid me, even don't talk to me and some even said "fatty" ("胖子").

c) At the same time, I observed many of their boy-friends: athletes, body-builders, basketball players, kung-fu, TKD or MMA fighters... and then I saw the truth: they (Chinese females) do prefer better looking people but sometimes they just go out with very ordinary, very fat or very skinny males because of their:

- money (beta-buxxing)
- character, personality (yes, sometimes it's possible, no matter how bluepill-ed may sound)
- just so happened (i. e. no better one or he was lucky in the sense of "just be first" theory).


 So, everyone (especially like our dear friend here, who is not tall enough and even handsome, not 10/10 handsome) should do his best to gym-maxx (body-maxx) in every possible safe way. This improves your chances (+ your looks, health, confidence and mood).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Moneymax effortlessly but realized how much of big assholes my relatives were

« on: January 26, 2024, 12:02:08 AM »

Now I think Nirvana is impossible for me to attain

 Sad... if a person want to be a real scientist he (she) can't just assume something without evidence, proof... Who in the entire human history somehow prove that there is something called "Nirvana"? Even "Santa Claus" or "Great Xi" are more real constructs than "Nirvana"! Because there are people who act like Santa Clauses, because Xi is great in some aspects (for example how can occupy the power of the biggest Party in the world and to practically own the biggest population in the world!) but Nirvana? Where is it? Who prove it? Who is demonstrating it? Experiments? Something? NOTHING. But... we've got a believer...

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 25, 2024, 11:27:53 PM »

 A fast reply about the measurable and unmeasurable things. There are different levels. Yes, you can't objectively "measure" a nose's beauty because some like it big, some like it small, some like it "Greek", etc., BUT at the same time, you can "measure" many other things like if something is proven fact or just a religious fabrication (in which the gullible people believe without problem)!
 Good or bad philosophy -- the criteria may be different, but the one and the most important is the practice. If some philosophy improves your life, chances, etc., it's a good one and the opposite -- if it makes you more poor, more choice-less, more rigid, well, obviously it's not a good one.
 Darwin didn't read Hegel, he even didn't read to the end Marx's book. (Marx read Darwin.) Marx sent Darwin his book ("The Capital") in 1873. That was 14 years after Darwin published “Origin”. It also seems most of the pages were not cut -- so he could not have read most of it.
 The difference between the philosophy and the religions is that many of the philosophic ideas are more or less measurable via practice but the religious claims are just claims and you even can't use logic to understand them, i. e. the ignosticism is something very good (the idea that the question of the existence of God is meaningless because the word "God" has no coherency and an ambiguous definition.) and this is it, most of the religious things are like that...

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 25, 2024, 11:14:18 PM »

 Really sorry to disagree again but as far as I know I have no my bio written in Russian. So, some girl shares my bio in Russian sounds dubious. Are you sure you remember well? (Memory problem/question again, but can't avoid it).

You are misprojecting that, I want to show you I am better than commoner ppl... what?! You serioisly think so?!

 Honestly, to me, looks/sounds something like that. Because in the reality you achieved more than the guys around your age (your generation) and you started to think that even in a place where we discuss omnilogy problems (including science, philosophy, etc.) all of us are under your knowledge. You, that was so surprising, even explained to us that Buddha was born B. C. How you will feel if I explain to you something like that: "可能你不知道，但是我告诉你：北京是中国的首都。你肯定会感到惊讶的。" Telling me that Buddha was born centuries before Jesus equals I am telling you (as a Chinese) that "Beijing is the capital of China."

And yeah, I am really surprised that you were practicing and being with a professor, but you still think Buddhism is so bad.

I was being too young and believed without the necessary proves, just because I was thinking that East Asians are the smartest people in the world and if there are so many Buddhists in East Asia, then it can't be wrong... And I was so wrong... The practicing and not only one professor (there were at least 3, who taught us about the Buddhism from different perspectives -- as a religion, as a philosophy, as history of the philosophy and so on) were real. "So bad" isn't what I said. I am saying that:

• If you want to ascend and becoming a noncel, becoming a true Buddhist is counter-productive and will lead you to a volcel status, which is bad for sure, for those incels who want to be noncels, not to become volcels. It's like wanting to be rich. If you want to make money, you need ways that will help you to get rich, not ways that will teach you how to be voluntarily poor.
• Exactly because I accumulated a lot of practice, knowledge and meta-Buddhist view, I could make the conclusion that the Buddhism may have some better sides compared to many other religions but it's not worthy compared with the nowadays science. What I believe now is only proven, true, real facts and I, as a critical and reasonable elder man, can't blindly believe dubious and totally unproven religious idealistic constructs like Karma, Samsara and other fabrications (捏造的 stuff, if I can use a Chinese term.)

I have got enough self-respect to avoid being gullible. Why are you (a man, who is targeting even IQ research, further mathematics /进阶数学/ and Harvard University!!!) so gullible?! You're demonstrating high level of gullibility ("Classes of people especially vulnerable to exploitation due to gullibility include children, the elderly, and the developmentally disabled." ^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gullibility}). You're not a kid anymore, you're not an old man and even you had/have some psychological issues, you're not a retard. So, how it comes an IQ researcher, a further math fan and a Harvard oriented adult to have got "the tendency to believe unlikely propositions that are unsupported by evidence." (from the same source mentioned above).

If you really knew about emptiness etc., you shoulda not thought Buddhism was 'pessimistic', 'suppressive', etc.,

 For the first time we learned about the so-called "Emptiness" in 1994! I remembered it's original name (Shunyata, i. e. "Śūnyatā") and the etymology which is "nothing", "zero"! And these months it even was useful for my Khmer learning, where the "0" ("zero") is ០ (and is pronunciation is very close to the Indian one):

Value   Khmer   Word Form   IPA   UNGEGN   GD   ALA-LC   Notes
0   ០   សូន្យ   [soːn]   sony   souny   sūny   From Sanskrit śūnya

^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khmer_numerals}
 
 So, again, stop thinking that I (one of the first Bulgarian Buddhists and one who learned Buddhism from the best philosophers in South-East Europe) don't know about the "Emptiness".
 So? The different Buddhist branches have different understanding of it. How it makes you optimistic and free? You must give up the natural (omnivore) diet, you have to suppress your sexuality, you have to forget about many things in the social sphere. How it's not suppressing? Can't you see the life of the real Buddhists? SO MANY SELF-LIMITATIONS (even more than in the Abrahamic religions!) and still, because you "just believe", it's "the best". With the same "success" you can tell me how true are the houris (In Islam, a houri (English plural houris, /ˈhʊəriz/; from Arabic: حُـورِيَّـة ,حُورِيّ, romanized: ḥūriyy, ḥūrīya), is a woman with beautiful eyes who is described as a reward for the faithful Muslim men in paradise.)^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Houri}

This usually happens, particularly in the modern society where nearly everyone is 'attached' to everything, thus you can see lots of people doing crazy things

 Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, wait, wait, wait! One of the crazy things is just this (the core of many problems) that you are taking something as a face value without any proof! You believe gullibly in Buddhist fabrications, others -- in Islamic or Christian... some even believe in the greatness of Xi Jinping! And the common here is that all of you DON'T QUESTION your believes at all!
 And the people are "attached" because they have no choice usually. For example, you as a potential capitalist, don't need to worry about money, but most of the people have to! And this "attached" status is the only way for them (if they don't want to become beggars like many of your favorite monks). It's very easy to be "unattached" when you have it all, right?

for ex, Xi is trying all means to keep his own supremacy... the Brazilian has done close to one hundred plastic surgeries, and... my relatives fought with my father over the take-over of my grandma's ownship of her areas...

 You're giving examples with more or less abnormal people. This type of "attachment" is too much. But you can't negate the normal attachment like: willing to have a healthier body, willing to have a better house, willing to have a safer life, willing to move to a better place... Without all these "attachments" you're just "living and waiting to die" (and, ah yes, believing that you're becoming something special like an arhat until death comes).

But I shoulda been opener, so that I can allow others to choose other 'Dharmas' to happiness... I am sorry for my previous 'attachment' to Buddha-Dharma.

It's/was nearly close to the proselytism (劝诱改宗). You're really too deep in all these fabricated (proof-less) categories, constructs and all this idealism is seriously misleading the incels to ascend and the poor people to do their best to get a better life (poorcels, included).

Many people are inept for Buddhism because of their lack of 'Buddha-Indriya'(佛根)...

Many people are just not willing to waste time and money for this. If you're busy and poor (a working poor like many Chinese and others nowadays) if you start to invest money and time for fabrications you'll end up as an even bigger loser than what you're (as a working poor or as a precariat). I know you're far, far away from such future because you're one of the 1%-5% in the world but... most of us (even people with bachelor and master degrees like many here) aren't so okay financially, so we have no wish to drop into scams like religions and to donate our last money to some "guru", "preacher", etc. We're realistic enough and old enough to follow only proven ways, proven truths.

Well I am just a new learner so I don't even know how to cultivate it and persuade one person into Buddhism(Buddhism calls it 'restoring', but Buddhism also claims not everyone has the 'Indriya' to be able to be 'restored').

Oh, you're developing also a savior complex?!  Check it, in case you don't know it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Savior_complex

What I am feeling about you now is that for some reason you don't admit everything is 'empty', thus u think Buddhism is pessimistic and inactive

 Why I have to admit something that nobody prove? Because someone said so?! Do you really make difference between a said thing and a fact?

You don't admit everything is 'impermanent', thus you were surprised by my choice of learning Buddhism, seemingly just being coping with having given up ascending to you

 Oh, how much wrong someone can be?! As a dialectical materialist and a person who strictly follows the science, I know that everything is impermanent. There is progress and regress, things change. And I am not surprised of your choice that much. I am surprised of the combination: "I like Psychometrics and Further math, and I want to be in Harvard" + "Now, let me teach you how the fabrications of the religion will improve your life!"   

You don't admit 'dukkha' is not real happiness so you think Buddhism is suppressive...

 If you want to admit that dukkha is not real, go now to Harbin, where is -18°C, take off your clothes, sleep only one night outside (to feel what's like to be poor, homeless and cold!) and then tell me again how "unreal" is it.

The only thing that distinguishes you from him are that he didn't even have no Guru lol.

The lol-ling is that a person who wants to be a scientist (Psychometrics, Further mats, Harvard, etc.) become believing gurus and being a victim of "There are no proves, but I believe." (You're the Second Tertullian  . You know him? In case you don't, take a lookhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tertullian (I hope this time won't be like "Yes, you gave me, but I didn't follow, so I'll write whatever...") He is the one who said "Credo quia absurdum. (I believe because it is absurd.) ")

I think a further discussion is not useful so, yes, lock the topic.