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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 25, 2024, 01:07:55 AM »

Well first of all, my memory is very well and extraordinary because I just got it tested around one month ago

I hope so. Well, extraordinary may be when it comes to STM (in Chinese: 短期记忆 (English:Short-term memory)), but you saw what happened when it's about the LTM (in Chinese: 长期记忆 (English: Long-term memory)). It's nearly unbelievable --being here one of the eldest, writing so many incelology-related articles, publishing an e-book about inceldom + clearly chatting with you on QQ (even sharing photographs) and in one beautiful moment you're thinking of me as an ordinary incel-student who has no idea what the Buddhism is... Not a good reference for a normal LTM (about the "extraordinary" even not necessary to speak.)

Secondly, sorry for my misprojection of your amount of learning of Buddhism, because(what I can throw is better than this but...) I couldn't even imagine any person who was a former Buddhist claiming that Buddhism was suppressive and pessimistic...

I do value your politeness. Glad to see a "sorry", really. But/and about the Buddhism it's exactly the other way around: BECAUSE OF being a Buddhist, I can tell/know/feel/experience its bad sides. Isn't it the same when it comes to China? Exactly, because of being a very big China fan for long, I can now objectively criticize the neo-emperorisation (neo-emperarization) because I knew the real CCP China (when there were no dictators after Mao Zedong) and the recent China, i. e. Xi-na (Xina; Xi's China)...

Were you practicing Paramitas?

If you're talking about the 波罗密 (पारमिता), of course I did and I still do (most of it) but based totally on the scientific base. For example, 忍 (kṣānti) is something that you can practice (and/or know, use, etc.) based entirely on the present science knowledge; you don't need to start it only when you read/hear about it from some Buddhist.




 

This is even more important than reading literatures

 It may be important for the Buddhists but what is important for the knowledge/understanding of the Buddhism (i. e. to have a Meta-Buddhist view; a real objective knowledge about the Buddhism) is the literature, the theory. This is valid for everything -- from the birds to the neo-emperor, first and foremost you need the theory, the knowledge.

 

Were you having a Guru? a Buddhist must have a Guru for learning Buddhism well otherwise he or she may mislead himself or herself like yeah thinking Buddhism is inactive, pessimistic, anti-humanity etc....

 My "guru" were the specialists of Buddhism like professor Иван Камбуров (Ivan Kamburov): http://phls.uni-sofia.bg/article/3032. There were more too, but let me show you (via Google Translate) his background and you think is he a guru or not:

"伊万·坎布罗夫教授博士
学术传记
现任大学职务：讲师

BA/MA，年份，学科：MA，哲学系，SU“St. Cl. Ohrid”； 1979-1984年，圣彼得堡国立大学哲学系，哲学专业（哲学史专业）

博士学位，年份，主题：1992 哲学博士，（05.00.01）哲学史（东方哲学）； “多克索拉菲纪念碑中桑卡拉的阿德瓦塔-吠檀多哲学”

资格（学科）：2011年哲学教授（古典佛教）（2.3）； 2002年 哲学史副教授（东方哲学）

编辑委员会成员
1994年至2004年，以及2012年《哲学》杂志编辑。 周一
摘自 1999 年《Svetilnik》杂志，编辑。 印度之友俱乐部

精选出版物
古典佛教哲学，第一部分“道”，S.，2011 年，597 页。

智慧范式中的古印度哲学（伟大的游戏），S.2002，591 页。

宗教知识。 破坏性邪教中的精神暴力。 预防。 给老师的书。，S.，编辑。 《Interclass》，2001 年，466 页。 （合着）

世界宗教简明词典，“佛教”部分（86 位作者百科全书式文章和概念 S.1995，第 15 - 87 页。

救世论灵知作为不二论吠檀多哲学中的价值论范式（桑卡拉和 M.埃克哈特），第 14 页。 哲学与价值论，VTU.，1993 年，第 65-104 页。

Advaita-Vedanta：灵魂的观念。，哲学杂志，1993 年，第 2 期，第 52-57 页

作为命理学的中国传统哲学，《哲学》杂志，1993年，第4期，第38-54页。

印度传统中“哲学”的概念，《哲学》杂志，1994年，第1期，第50-56页。

《男性-女性：东方的本体论流淌》，哲学杂志，1994 年，第 6 期，第 15-24 页。

元意识作为大乘佛教的本体论原则，《哲学》杂志，1995 年，第 6 期，第 1-14 页。

作为形而上学的哲学史，《哲学》杂志，1996 年，第 4 期，第 3-12 页。

《大乘佛教中的法的概念与“我”的“存在”问题》，《哲学》杂志，1996年，第5/6期，第86-99页。

大乘佛教中的意识概念和“我”。 保加利亚科学中的印度，S. 1997，第 110 – 118 页。

佛陀 - 游戏的本体论。，《哲学》杂志，第 5/6 期，2000 年。 第 79 - 83 页。

尼采的东方，第 1 册。 尼采与东方（国际会议），编辑。 Dilock 2002 年，第 38 - 47 页。

关于早期基督教古迹中古印度（佛教）“根源”的假定影响：正典（新约）和非正典次经，《哲学》杂志，2001 年，第 5/6 页，第 84-98 页

古印度的知识技术（学院：教师-学生），《哲学》杂志，2002 年，第 5-6 期，第 79-88 页。

印度哲学中的人，Sp。 Svetilnik，第 4 期，第 137-145 页，S.，2002 年。

神话及其游戏神秘化。，《哲学》杂志，2003 年。第 1 期，第 43-49 页。

作为现代意识形态的宗教间对话，《哲学》杂志，2003 年，第 3 期，第 3-6 页。

游戏的“智慧”，《哲学》杂志，2003年，第5期，第15-26页

形而上学的游戏。，周六。 康德与形而上学，YuZU，Bl.，2003，第91-115页，

东西方：宗教之间的对话 - 或关于所谓的影响。，科尔。 哲学与正统，Bl.，2004 年，第 11-25 页。

哲学史：世俗的哲学思考或形而上学。，in sb。 康德与传统的对话。，YuZU，Blag。 2004 年，第 254 - 272 页

海德格尔（1889-1976）与东方哲学，《哲学》杂志，2004年第5期，第5-10页；

东西方：新先知时代（第 1 部分），《哲学》杂志，2007 年，第 2 期，第 10-18 页

东西方：新先知时代（第二部分），哲学杂志，2007 年，第 4 期，第 7 - 14 页

卡尔·古斯塔夫·荣格和东方，科尔。 精神分析。 想法和追随者，BL。 “N. Rilski”YZU，2007 年，第 211 - 241 页

走向东西方对话：马丁·海德格尔（1889年-1976年）与佛教，20年珍藏

索非亚大学“圣彼得堡”印度学 克莱。 奥赫里德斯基”，2009，大学。 埃德。 “英石。 Kl. Ohridski”，第 366-379 页

古典佛教哲学：超验主义和心理技术，卷。 哲学与神秘主义，BL.，2008（大学出版社“N. Rilski”），第 115-137 页

东西方：跨文化时代的宗教传统。 跨文化对话和教育网络：土耳其-保加利亚，S. 2009。

（编者：格式视觉。ISBN 978-954-92309-2-5），第 66-81 页

“沉思的沉默”——一种“谈论”现有事物的超验形式。 形而上学的先验语言，BL.，2009（大学出版社，第115-137页）

黑格尔的东方。哲学另类杂志，2012年第5期，第60-66页

古典佛教中“法”的范畴。 从印度到印度：看法和观点，大学。 埃德。 奥赫里德大教堂，2015 年，第 96-105 页

早期佛教沉思的超验主义，哲学另类杂志，2015 年第 6 期，第 59-74 页

“回到形而上学”寻找超越的“路径”，coll。 回到形而上学（国际会议），UI“N.Rilski”，Bl.，2016，第 23-44 页"


怎么样？ Enough "guru" level or still not?

And I want to tell you about one Chinese "guru" who used a way to sleep with women there -- "teaching" them that to prove they are real female Buddhists they should't care about having or not sex with who and... to "become" true Buddhists they had to sleep with him! One of them told me that in one moment she realized that she is not a Buddhist but a cheap whore for doing this. And I'd like to add -- a "very stupid one". Yes, I am talking about Zhou Ning. This is what many of your "gurus" are. So, better trust the specialists and scientists than the "gurus".

 

my teacher told me we'd better not learn Philosophy otherwise it might be endangering us...

 That teacher is 100% right about some of the philosophies. A pro-philosopher should know all of the philosophy branches, kinds. For example, even I dislike the religious philosophies, as a pro I had and I did/still do learn them more or less. But if you're just a student and you start with some over-pessimistic philosophy like that one of Schopenhauer /阿图尔·叔本华 (Arthur Schopenhauer)/, well then, you may end up in a very bad condition. But if you learn something written by more optimistic philosophers like Socrates, Engels and so on, then it's not dangerous.


 

You yourself said that you had yet to read tons of literatures because of your life, which definitely misleads you to thinking of Buddhism this way...

 It's because I know that knowledge is like a white circle on a big blackboard. The bigger is the circle, the more it touches the unknown. That's why learning is a nonstop process. For example, if you never heard of Cambodia you're not going to know about Pnom Penh but if you know even its capital (Pnom Penh), then you may start to know that there are big rivers, many Buddhist temples, etc. The more you learn, the more unknown (questions) you may have, so this is why we should read and learn "endlessly".

It seems to me you don't even know what are 'sunyata', 'anitya', 'dukkha', 'anatman' etc., which are basic concepts and ideologies of Buddhism.

Seems to you because you're: 1. judging people without prior knowledge who are they + 2. you want to show how greater you are compared with the commoners (but for a bad surprise, here you don't deal with teenage incels in the US or low-educated rich 富家子弟 and 富二代 in Shanghai. You're dealing with people with 20+ more years experience, hard work and knowledge than yourself.)

 Just an example, to state the ridiculousness of what you think that Geser Kurultaev doesn't know about anatman ("非我").

In 1990 (when you even didn't exist in your parents' thoughts) I spent all my money, for a month food, to buy the last "Soviet Encyclopedic Dictionary" in Russian, Soviet Edition! It's its Chinese name: "苏联百科词典
". Here you may see how it looks like: and I started to read and learn everything about Asia, China, Daoism, Buddhism, Confucianism, etc. One of the first things that I learned in the period 1990-1993 (you still was not born that time) was about the anatman (soon after I learned about people in Buddhism like Ananda), which in Russian (I used this foreign language to educate myself + English) is "Ананда" https://www.rulit.me/books/enciklopedicheskij-slovar-read-140017-93.html (I even know the etymology of the word -- "an-" + "atman" and was thinking how similar is the negative particle with the Greek one! For example the word "anarchy" in Greek is from an- "without" + arkhos "ruler".)
 If you're intelligent enough, you should get it: In the period 1990-1993 I even learned the etymology of the words like "Ananda" and "anatman". But you think that it's some very "secret" or "high" knowledge that is "unoptainable" ?!

Well whether one thing is excellent or not depends on individual right?

 This is an agnostic and relativistic view. From the viewpoint of the relativism, of course it is but if you're not a relativist and you know that some things are more easy to be "measured", to be observed objectively, then you can't say that the theories excellence is just a subjective and relativistic choice. One of the ways to see if something is good or not is the practice (a good point of the Leninism).

...just because you think Buddhism is bad, without having ever been practicing and learning it systematically enough?

The difference between the humans and most of the rest of the animals is exactly this: we don't need to practice something in order to know it. For instance, you can see photos of Mars in NASA's website and to get the idea what's on Mars, without being there. I see what is happening with many Buddhists: they're just becoming quitters because of the idea of "It's all Karma" and/or "In the next life, I will be better."
 Also, the Buddhist diet isn't the best for many of us. And at the end, especially in your case: the combination is nearly dangerous for your ascending: 1. you're not tall, you have no big frame and this with malnutrition of a Buddhist vegetarian diet will make you less masculine in the eyes of the women, 2. you're not strong enough mentally and all those fake hopes for next life, karmism and so on, may make you even weaker, 3. you're rich but easy to believe which will make some fake gurus just to lie you to pay them a lot of money "for your happiness"...

 Why I am looking at least 20 years younger? 1. I do sports, 2. I am not a vegetarian and at the same time I avoid a lot of meat, 3. I don't smoke and don't drink hard alcohol, 4. I read useful literature to keep my brain younger, active and I do keep my "spirit" young with some youth content like manhwa (Korean manga). This is the "secret".
 
 OK, I think I prove enough and with the all due respect who and what I am, I do accept your apologies. As I said, I am in SEA and I see great opportunities to cooperate with you in some fields (all legal, never believe the neo-Chinese propaganda that all the SEAs are criminal places and it's everywhere dangerous!), so peace, please!

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 24, 2024, 01:39:54 AM »

The problem is that you, let me be kinda harsh, are severely suffering from Dunning-Krugger Effect!!! Your comment on 'Midway' ideology will really be laughed at if you show it to a venerable monk!!!

 亲爱的QQ网友，请小心点，我现在慢慢说明给你 （To those who doesn't speak Chinese: "Dear QQ-internet friend, please carefully read my explanations which I'll give you below:"）

 1. I admire your honesty but I am not suffering from the effect (because, as you forget, I am 48, I graduated in 2000 in the biggest South-East European University majored in Philosophy, I learned Eastern philosophy, religious philosophies, religions, etc., plus I am a former Buddhist.)

 2. As a person who learned Buddhism (in all his forms from the SEA's Hinayana to the Japanese Zen) by myself and in the university, I'd like to say that I am at the end of the Dunning-Kruger's scale and (as a newbie in Buddhism) you're at its very beginning. Think by yourself: a man who was a Buddhist since 1990 and read even Nāgārjuna (an Indian Mahāyāna Buddhist philosopher monk of the Madhyamaka (Centrism, Middle Way) school) till around 2005 (when he was lucky enough to be in China and to communicate with real scientific-oriented masters of science, law, dialmat, socialism, etc. and to challenge his philosophy and unbased Buddhist/religious beliefs) can't be just a victim of the effect mentioned above. You said, by yourself, that you're a freshman to all this Buddhist theories + you're 25 years younger than me + you're not a philosopher. Well? Any thought?

 3. I met more monks than you in my entire life (both Christian and Buddhist in: Bulgaria, Russia, including Tatarstan, China, Macao SAR, Cambodia) and I want to tell you that there aren't many venerable monks. Most of them are monks just to gain something (like money or donations) and the rest are there just because their parents said so, or because they had no other significant choice.
 Also, it's not important who laugh or not, the important is that the "Midway" (I even know it in Chinese! It's "中道", 那个佛教的术语！) is nothing so "genius" what you think just because you'd like to improve your Karma and/or you're impressed by it because you didn't compare it with similar theories. I bet you even didn't compare it with the Gadaffi's "Third Universal Theory" (ظرية عالمية ثالثة) or the Titoism (Yugoslavian's)...
 So, please (拜托, 兄弟）, before you think someone is that dumb check a bit his background. I didn't spend my 48 years + life to learn and study just to get this sort of criticism online.

 

Of course it's nothing new, but it's really very hard to keep in the 'midway' all the time Yeah it's just 'objectivity' but Buddhism also teaches you how to keep objective, by being without  ātma-grāha for ex, which is actually as easy to be as you think.

 a) ātmagraha (आत्मग्रह) doesn't need a hyphen. Well, if you just copy-pasted it from the 我执's article in Wikipedia, it's understandable.
 b) So many (nearly all) philosophies and theories wants to keep you objective. Point me at least to 3 of them who claim that their goal is to keep you subjective. Can you? So, what's the uniqueness of the Buddhism in this? The Islam also says that if you start following it, you'll be the most objective. So what?
 c) How you will be without the mentioned 我执 (atmagraha), if you don't follow the latest scientific discoveries? Hey, my friend, the Buddhist that time (when they created this concept of atmagraha) even didn't know about the existence of the DNA, the existence of the Pluto, the existence of the Americas, if you wish... Don't think of them as omniknowledgeable.

And you think this makes Buddhism?!
And if you think Buddhism is 'suppressive', 'pessimistic', etc., whatever you think of it as, you even have not had primary understanding of Buddhism yet!  

 And how is it active then? Being an arhat makes you to achieve your goals of having a girlfriend, becoming good-looking and having a business? Yes, if you're filthy rich like Buddha (Siddhartha Gautama, you see? I even know his real name since I was a kid!) you can play around but what if you're poor, homeless and it's -20 degree Celsius outside like in Inner Mongolia (内蒙古)? Still going to be in the state of isolation outside?

I really suggest you embark on reading some sutras and abhidharmas... Your understanding of Buddhism is really not even primary and not better in the slightest bit than the one of everyone who has not tried learning it tbh...

 Said the 26 years younger male to his uncle (大叔, in Chinese) who's graduated in 2000 and learned so much about Buddhism by himself and in the university + was a Buddhist himself + living in a Buddhist kingdom currently + wrote even articles about this culture... Impressive! Try again.

I was really shocked by its 'extraordinariness and excellence'....

1. It's just because you didn't learn enough other philosophies and theories. Be honest to yourself and tell me how many of these you (at least) heard of?

 1.1. Дъновизъм (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Universal_White_Brotherhood)
 1.2. Stoicism (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stoicism)
 1.3. Illusionism (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusionism_(philosophy))
 1.4. Hesychasm (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hesychasm)
 1.5. Варлаамитство (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barlaam_of_Seminara)


  Your knowledge compared with my knowledge is around 25% at its best (when it comes to philosophies, religions, anthropology, etc. If we are talking about Chinese language or Mathematics, you know more probably).

You will also be surprised by how wise and intelligent Buddha was...

Oh, really? Let me think... when I had my first biography of Buddha book (in 1990) you were... just a dream in your father's and mother's heads?  Siddhartha (a.k.a. 释迦牟尼, in Chinese) was just intelligent enough to see that outside of the palace people are getting ill, die miserable, etc. and he was depressed enough to start being scared about his own future to the level when he started to be a philosopher (and not the best of the philosophers to be honest, because you can't compare him with Aristotle or Marx, for example) and to think what to do to "suffer less", because you see, the "life is suffering"... From the root of his philosophy you can see the escapism, the defeatism... nothing in common with the Chad-like (in terms of the Incelology here) philosophy of Marx, Engels, Lenin... Even people like Hegel were more active-oriented and success-oriented than him! It's a fact.

You can't really understand if you have not learned Buddhism enough. I bet you have yet to read any sutra or abhidharma right? I suggest reading some and then come back to disguss witih me.

 Well, if I inherit more than 1 000 000 dollars like you, I surely will. Sadly, as you know, my father decided to give his only small apartment to his lover, not to me. So, even I am a poet, a philosopher, a writer, a webmaster and a martial art fan, I should struggle day by day to earn a dollar or two. (Only the good banks here, with fixed deposits and ~7% interest rates are saving me from being a poor man!) So, really sorry, but not enough time to discuss exactly the useless Buddhism. You're a rich young fellow, you may spend your time for this. I have to struggle to earn a dollar or two, I have to do sports to keep myself above average (not willing to be a Norman-tier type) and I have to learn really useful knowledge (economics, psychology, martial arts, online activities, etc.)

You are a philosophy student right? What about seeing a layman who thinks philosophy is useless and it can only overwhelm yourself in shitloads of meaningless coundrums? I am having the same feeling now.

 It shows that you're a zealot! I don't care who respects or not the philosophy. But you're on the state of a zealot -- a few months ago you didn't even mention the religion and now... trying to make all of us Buddhist or Buddhists fans... Not very different than a Muslim who wants people to truly believe in Allah, meleks (angels), etc.
 I don't want to hurt your feelings but, as it was mentioned above, we're mostly poor or semi-poor people, who only can rely on science, sport and working hard, so we have NO NEED AND NO TIME for Buddhist things that only can make us more:

- poor 
- weak (not active and giving up easy)
- subjective (believing in theories who never prove till today).

But I am not saying you are 'over-confident' or 'unopen'. It's totally normal for a person to be like this when he or she has not learned something yet.

 And I have to repeat that I was born 1975, a former Buddhist, a Master of Philosophy, a writer, etc. and... when I was reading about Buddha you were even not planned by your parents. True.

I remember I myself thought IQ was just bs and believed anyone who treated IQ seriously just coped with his or her unindustriousness, but now? I have known IQ is the most validated construct among all of psychometric constructs.

 Oh, wait! This topics you also didn't finish. There were many questions about it and you just avoided them. Like those that the IQ is once and forever (according to your mentor) and the opposite ones who state that the IQ is improvable. Take a look again. I see your memory isn't well (if you even forgot that I am a 大叔, a QQ-pal and a philosopher-anthropologist), but at least you're not an amnesiac, right?

I remember I myself thought Communism was just a piece of white lie that was made use of by evil politicians like Xi to encroach on his or her people, but after I had known how scientific it was actually, I even embarked on learning Communism literatures before!

 The problem of the Communism (in its Marxism-Leninism variant primary) is that it's too fatalistic. My Ontology professor (Alexander Andonov) did agree with me that it's a sort of fatalism. The world's history showed I am right a few years later (after I stated this in the Sofia University).

For Buddhism, yeah I was even a former anti-Buddhism, because I thought it robbed people's money by the pieces of white lie, the mysterious stories, the hypocritic ideologies it preached, etc., but after I had known how amazing it was, I turned into a Buddhist from an anti-Buddhism!

 And you denied all those facts that you witnessed? Hey, there are really tons of it! In China, everywhere! They, mostly, use your money, sometimes even may rape your girlfriend (if she is too naive to believe them)! Of course, it's nothing to do with the Buddhism as a theory, but... till now you didn't give a single example, at least 1 or 2 examples, how the Buddhism helps the incels to become happy, normal noncels (not volcels what the Buddhism is teaching). OK, you accepted yourself as a volcel, for this time, but, see the "tiny" difference, OK? Here we are trying to deal with the problems of the incels. In case you forgot, here is my e-book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Escape-Inceldom-QUICK-Deincelization-ebook/dp/B0855FTRZ1

I really suggest learning some literatures before forming any viewpoint! You may realize how severely you were suffering from Dunning-Krugger Effect after you really know about Buddhism!
(PS: yeah I know Dunning-Krugger Effect has been debunked but it's easier to throw to let you understand what I am construing than 'You are being too over-confident in your understanding of Buddhism because of your lack of understanding and learning of Buddhism') 

 I do suggest to start a better diet (+ sports) to improve your memory because (I really wish you the best and I hope it's not the case but..) it looks like amnesia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amnesia)! So, don't get me wrong, I have no hard feelings; I even wish to re-connect with you on QQ and I will find you when I move my desktop computer to my apartment because now it's in a shop. I will suggest you some good cooperation here, because there are some bank opportunities which are only a dream in China. Hope to see you soon around! Best wishes!

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EARN MONEY / Re: Cambodian man (Heng Santha) not paying back the money we lent him

« on: January 23, 2024, 11:54:12 PM »

 Once Heng Santha (Sun Design and Decor company) deleted and blocked the chat/-s that I had with him (in Telegram), I am not going to keep any privacy and I continue to show you our chats (conversations) without any editing (for example before I edited my Telegram name and his Telegram name, wasting a lot of time, but now - just posting the rest as a raw text):

IMPORTANT NOTICE: The full name of his company is "Sun Design and Decor", not just "Sun Decor" (which is how he nicknamed himself on Telegram!)

Sun decor
Good morning
13:29
I just come back from hospital to clean and will go to check the site
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Georgi
👋 Hello
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Alright. And have a good Pchum Ben festival!👍🍀
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No pchum Ben
13:32
Get accident
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Do the work
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Georgi
😊👍 appreciate your hard will and hard work!
13:39
Sun decor
Sticker
😓
13:40
In reply to this message
Ok, thanks
13:42
Georgi
We will be outside today to search for a flat for rent. If you need some help, we will come to help you. 👍🤝
13:44
Sun decor
Ok
15:41
Sun decor

15:41

15:41
Where are you now
15:42
Just want to discuss the electric power box
16:25
Georgi
We're coming.
17:48
Sun decor

17:48

17:49
We back home now.
18:04
Georgi
👍🤝
14 October 2023
16:30
Sun decor

16:30

16:30
Hi they finish the translation
16:30
We can sign today
16:36
I need the money to buy other materials for cover, now we finish for the structure, I waiting you here.
16:36

17:08
Georgi
They will finish it on Monday.
17:08
Now we can pay in cash only.
17:09
When do you need the money?
17:10
On Monday we can use the bank to pay you directly.
17:53
Georgi
We came.
17:53

17:53
Are you here around?
17:57
If not, we can pay you in cash 💵 tomorrow. 👌
17:59
And if we pay on Monday, when the banks are open, we can pay directly to your bank account. You choose the best way for you.👌👍🍀
18:03
Okay, we go home now. Tell me how do you prefer.
20:08
Georgi
The payment is 100% sure, no worries .👍🤝🙏
15 October 2023
12:22
Sun decor
ok, i just come back from hospitall, so we can meet on monday
12:23
i will be there any time on monday
12:24
you can give by case
12:24
is ok
13:28
Georgi
Alright. Monday afternoon we'll come.😊👍🤝
16 October 2023
13:09
Sun decor
OK, I waiting you there at 1:30pm, and how is the translation?
13:09
Let sent it to me before print out, ok
13:15
Georgi
Okay, 1:30 we will come to pay you the money.👌
13:15
Sun decor
Great
13:15
Georgi
The contract we can sign later, we trust you.👍🤝
13:16
Yes.😊
13:16
Sun decor
Please take English version of the contract too
13:16
In reply to this message
Welcome
13:16
It true
13:27
Georgi
We can send you the money even now.👌
13:27
Wait a moment...
13:29
Oh... It says your ABA account number isn't right. What's the error?
13:29

13:30
Is it really 00227676?
13:43
Sun decor
No
13:43
It me
13:43
000227676
13:43
Heng santha
13:44
Georgi

13:45
Sun decor
Wrong 0
13:45
Georgi
In the contract only two zeros.😀
13:45
Sun decor
000
13:45
Sorry

As you can see, we were vert responsible, correct and honest to him. Paying soon, giving him loans, correcting his bank account mistakes... and at the end, we were cheated by Heng Santha.




13:45
Georgi
Okay, okay. We're going to try again now.
13:45
Sun decor
Now I'm here
13:47
Help sent to me the report of bank too, I will check
13:52
Georgi
Ready.
13:52
Here is a screenshot from the report.
13:53

13:53
Sun decor
Many thanks
13:56
Georgi
🤝👌👍
13:57
When the contract is ready we will tell you. We will take it this evening from the translator.👌
13:58
Tomorrow will be ready I hope. No worries.👍👌
14:31
Sun decor
Ok
17:55
Sun decor
About the sign above do you need to design some picture of your products, please send to me i will added
19:25
Georgi
Good idea!💡 Thank you for the suggestion! I will send you tonight.
19:26
The contract is ready for tomorrow too! 👍
19:26
100% good news.🍀👌😊
21:36
Georgi
5_6154535320231611911_0.docx
11.5 KB
21:37
This is the contract in English.👌👍
21:41

21:41

21:41

21:41

21:42
And these are the pictures for the banner above.👌
21:53
Sun decor
Good, do you need me to print out
21:56
Georgi
If it's not a problem for you, please print them all and we'll sign up.👍🤝
22:02
Sun decor
ok, no problem
22:03
let afternoon, in the morning i busy.
22:10
Georgi
We prefer afternoon too. 👍👍👍
17 October 2023
12:25
Sun decor

12:26
Do we need to add the name below
12:27
Georgi
Yes, it's better.👌
12:27
Sun decor

12:28
Georgi
😊🤝 okay.
12:59
Sun decor

12:59
Let see the design
13:00
If ok I print it out
13:11
👍
13:12
Georgi
Sticker
👌
13:12
Okay.
13:12
Looks good., 👍
14:38
Sun decor
this afternoon at 4pm will meet you, because now busy check staff to print banner above.
15:05
Georgi
Okay, we prefer to go out late anyway. 4 p.m. is good for us.👍😊
17:02
Georgi
We are here.
17:02
Are you around?
17:02
I brought my passport too.👌
17:12
Sun decor
Where are you
17:13
I’m arrived
19:51
Sun decor
How about the painting on the door, wood door & iron door [add more job]?
20:22
Georgi
They will stay open anyway, so don't need to paint them.👌
20:23
About the water pipe, can your workers repair one water pipe inside too? We have one leaking pipe to repair.
20:26
The landlord said he will pay all the water repairment, 😊👍so you can give me a separate invoice only for the water pipes if the workers can do it well.👌
20:28
When everything else is ready maybe we can order the water pipes repair separately because he said to send him the water repairment invoice and he will pay it all.👌👍
22:02
Sun decor
Others think, in case you have a problem with withdraw the money in to the bank, I can help, because I have a friend at bank, he is the manager.
22:10
Georgi
Good to know.👍🙏 But till now the money transfers in Cambodia were good for us, so it's going without problems.😊👍
22:20
Sun decor
We need to talk more
22:22
In reply to this message
Ok
22:23
And give his phone number to me I will talk with him
22:25
Georgi
I told him that you will repair the water outside and inside and he agrees to cover the water repairment. So you can call him about the details.
22:27
Sun decor
Ok
22:30
Georgi
Good 👍 Now I will tell you, he agrees to receive a call now.👌
22:31
092487777
22:31
Sin Lina
22:31
Sun decor
Ok
22:31
Georgi
👌👍
22:32
Sun decor
Talk with her tomorrow
22:33
Georgi
Him😀. He is a man. The name is Sin Lina. He is a Cambodian person.

(Noticed it? He even can't make the difference between the Cambodian male names and Cambodian female names! What an "educated" person!)



22:34
Okay, tomorrow. 👌
22:35
Sun decor
ok
22:35
Lina is girl
22:40
Georgi
Maybe this name is for boys too? I don't know. 😊 But he is 100% a male.
22:40
Here he is:
22:40

22:41
Sun decor
ok,
22:41
Georgi
We met him already when we signed the rent contract. He is a good man.
22:41
👍 ok.
22:41
Sun decor
ok
22:42
good night
22:42
Georgi
Good night to you too. 🍀
20 October 2023
19:20
Sun decor
So silent man

(We just wanted to leave him to finish his job soon, without bothering him. Didn't know that he expects more communication!)
19:20

19:21
Just want to ask to you for the signage above, I think we need to add two lighter on the top
19:23
Georgi
I think it's okay. If the lighters are expensive, just don't add them. 👌
19:24
Sun decor
small it may be 20$ each

(Notice how all the time he wants to charge more money!)
19:25
Georgi
We want to save money, so only what is in the contract. 🙏
19:25
Sun decor
ok,
19:25
Georgi
The owner said already paid the water.
19:25
Sun decor
yes
19:25
Georgi
👌
19:29
Sun decor
Tomorrow could i borrow 100$ to pay for the worker, the translater forget add for 80% of work, you need to to pay 70% more. I hope you may understand. Thanks
19:41
Georgi
Altogether is 590 dollars, right?
19:41
Sun decor
Ýe
19:41
Georgi
And we paid 290 dollars already.
19:41
Sun decor
Đa 100 mỏ rẻ
19:42
add 100$more
19:42
Georgi
So you need 300 more.
19:42
Sun decor
390$
19:42
Georgi
Why?
19:42
The contract said 590.
19:42
Sun decor
In reply to this message
yes
19:43
Georgi
So we pay 300 dollars more and this is the end, right?
19:43
Sun decor
yes

Nonstop wanted to receive money as much as possible, even if it's not exactly according to our contract! See?
19:44
Georgi
Good. Tomorrow I will give you 100 dollars.
19:44
Sun decor
only logo
19:44
Georgi
And at the end 200 dollars, right?
19:44
Sun decor
we nearly finish letter lighter
19:44
In reply to this message
ok thanks
19:45
Georgi
Okay.
21 October 2023
11:06
Sun decor

11:08

12:22
Sun decor

13:48
Georgi
Okay. I will send you the money very soon.
13:48
👌
13:51
Sun decor
thanks
13:52
now we back to office for eating
13:52
Georgi

13:58
Alright. Have a good day. 🍵 ☕
14:01
Sun decor
In reply to this message
🙏
14:01
Georgi
🤝
14:02
Sun decor
why you don't do any process for preparing, I'm there i can help
14:08
Georgi
Because we are busy to do other things: the house rent, the schools negotiations, the problems with the banks in China, my father's health care in Bulgaria and the business registration in Cambodia. A lot to do these days and we do slowly, day by day.👌 No problem, just need time.
14:09
Sun decor
ok
14:09
waste money for rent
14:10
In reply to this message
why it difficault with banks?
14:11
That not the black money
14:11
In Cambodia, so easy event black money too.

HERE! Exactly here I started to doubt about his moral and ethics! He is mentioning the "black money", i. e. the illegal money; criminal money!!!

14:13
Georgi
We don't waste money for rent. We will start to sell there soon, when it's ready. We only will put some shelves and we start at once.
14:14
Sun decor
You can use my company to shareholder, I have license from Ministry of the commercial too.
14:14
Others about business registration, I can help you too.

(Good that I didn't start to cooperate with him about it too! He stole our 100 dollars (100.76 with the transfer to be exact, because he promised in front of the policemen that he's going to pay it all!), so that was a right decision not to start any shareholder things with him!)

14:15
In reply to this message
Good
14:15
Georgi
My money are from the flat in China. It was 31 sq. M. Small money. But China bank now is controlling the money more and we take them slowly, because of the limits.
14:15
Sun decor
In reply to this message
Ok too
14:16
Georgi
The business only needs a public computer. Yesterday from MOC sent me this.
14:16

14:16
Sun decor
In reply to this message
What kind of business
14:17
Georgi
I am registering the 123 mart in Ministry of Commerce. This is a simple but online procedure for the foreigners.
14:18
Sun decor
I see
14:18
In reply to this message
For small mart
14:19
I think you can start at Battambong city more quick
14:20
This morning so interested with sushi for the children there
14:20
They look to the signage
14:33
Georgi
Because we started in Phnom Penh and they said only online and I will go to an Internet cafe today... About Battambang didn't try it but a person said here is more complicated because they need a body check (hospital examination) and I do avoid hospitals.
14:34
Very nice. If the kids like it maybe it will be successful ☺️👍
14:34
Thank you for sharing 🙏.

 To be continued!

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 22, 2024, 11:58:11 PM »

but Buddhism gives you direction and the less Kleshas you have, the more you feel Buddhism as the only right 'Dharma', though Buddhism itself advocates for 'upekkha' so that you shouldn't be like 'Nah It's not Buddhism so it's just bs!'.

Upekṣā (Sanskrit: उपेक्षा; Pali: Upekkhā) is the Buddhist concept of equanimity, right? Well, because the equanimity isn't only a Buddhist thing, then it's nothing unique and this doesn't make a religion (in this case -- the Buddhism) more precious than, for example, the nowadays psychology that also may teach you to have equanimity (a state of psychological stability and composure which is undisturbed by the experience of or exposure to emotions, pain, or other phenomena that may cause others to lose the balance of their mind.) This virtue and value (equanimity) is extolled and advocated by a number of major religions and ancient philosophies. So? Why we have to restrict ourselves (less kleshas) once/when the equanimity is well done even from scientific point of view?

 

Buddhism seeks for 'madhyamā-mārga', so as long as a 'tirthika' makes sense, Buddhism adopts it, and any tirthika which lets you 'subject to Kleshas' is not correct.

The so-called "Middle way" which is also something that even the kindergarten teaching knows: don't be too this and don't be too that. Even in the politics there are concepts similar to this. Nothing unique and obtainable via common sense (materialistic).

I myself have not been well versed in Buddhism so I may be wrong. At least that's my understanding. I suggest asking some 'bhadantas' about it.

 No need. I think I learned it enough and I may ensure you that this will minn your chances to find a wife (this is one of the goals of many Buddhists to be wifeless) and will have bad impact on your future physical (in the worst cases -- health, too) development (in case you become a vegetarian or a vegan + the lack of sports), which will bring you more un-attractiveness in future (if now you're 6/10, later you will be at its best, 4/10 and when you get older, you'll become a 3/10 or less). At that time, only some super wealth-maxx (money-maxx) will be able to bring you a partner (or you have to search for some 1/10 as looks and social status). Don't ruin your future so early. Give yourself at least 20 years more chance, until you give up your tries to ascend because now you have a better potential for this (the Buddhism is waiting for you when you're really an old, a loser... why now, when you're full of bright future opportunities? )

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 22, 2024, 11:40:43 PM »

As a philosopher I'd like to take the liberty to discuss some of the important (for the incels and also for the noncels) points:

Natural needs are like itches on your skin.

 This analogy isn't correct enough but let's use it practically.

 

You feel itchy so that you have to tickle them, but Buddhism can enable you not to feel itchy.

 Let's suppose it's possible. Then it leads to dangers. Yes, seriously: think about it:

1/ feeling itchy shows (alarms) that there is something wrong (an animal, dirt, allergy, etc.) and you can take the necessary measures. For example, to stop eating the dangerous for your body (allergic reactions) food or to deal with the mosquito around that cause your itchiness. But if you don't have the itchy feeling (sense) then you're unaware what's wrong.

2/ feeling hungry, thirsty, etc. are (to a certain degree) useful for you, because they remind you that you're out of energy, vitamins, etc.;  you're dehydrated. What if you (somehow, due to Buddhism, for instance) in one moment forget (stop feeling) any hunger and thirst. You are dead in less than a month. The same comes about feeling cold, for example. If you don't know that it's too cold and take measures to warm yourself you're dead too. Maybe, in school, you had some language exercises like "They died from cold and hunger. -- 他们死于寒冷和饥饿。", I mean that it's a primary school knowledge level, where the pupils learn that you should avoid the cold, the hunger and so on (thus, you better don't "liberate" yourself from these useful, natural senses, feelings, needs.)

Of course it makes you feel good to tickle them, but won't you feel better not to feel itchy anymore?

 At the beginning, yes, but (as I explained above) in a long term to become a senseless (which is doubtful but let's just suppose it's possible to achieve via Buddhist practices) is leading to dangers and death.

And this is the so-called 'real happiness' in the perspective of Buddhism. And when you are 'free' from 'natural needs', you become an 'Arhat'.

 The natural needs are really natural, so we can't use quotes (to doubt them) if we want to be realistic and right. The so-called arhats are not completely "free" from their natural (biological) needs. They may suppress some of them (like the sexual desire and others) but the basic ones: to eat, to drink, to go to toilet, to sleep... they can't. So this "liberation" you're talking about is just an illusion, a wrong definition even (giving up, suppressing all that is natural, avoiding most of the things, isolation, not even trying to achieve what most of the people achieved in the society... it's not a "liberation", it's nothing more than a "self-limitation".)

And no, I don't think I will give up Buddhism within 2 yrs... It is really helping me a lot.

 I met many people who said that the religion helping them a lot (for example an Arab girl said she is happy no matter what because she just believes in Allah. Other two, Europeans, a male and a female, said they're secured because they have their faith in Jesus...) so, yes, to a certain degree the religions may "really helping you a lot" but this doesn't make them full of truths or useful about everything. You may think about this in that way: reading manga stories (or some good novel) may also help you to feel better, to feel "it is really helping me a lot" and so on, but this doesn't make the stories real and this doesn't guarantee you will be better only with the (religion, manga, novel, etc.) in a longer term. You need more, for example: science, social support, self-improvement...

Well indeed I've yet to hear of any Arhat who is completely free from natural needs. I think I said Buddhism gave you a direction that could 'liberate' yourself. Treat Liberation like Communism. It's idealistic but it gives direction.

 The communist philosophy (Dialmat, i. e. Dialectical Materialism) is really something that teaches me useful things like: try to develop all sides of yourself (knowledge, morals, physics), don't believe without proves (only real, true science), etc., but at least it's teaching me to struggle, to be active, to have hope (energy) for success, etc. Buddhism is almost the opposite: passiveness, acceptance, avoidance, and... many, many stories (claims) that aren't based on science, on anything... So, what direction may be useful (for example to achieve your goals like: becoming more rich, having more real love, etc.) from Buddhism when it's goal is people just to refuse all and to lead nearly beggars' lives?
 Do you notice how similar is the Buddhism with the blackpillers' "LDAR" (lay down and rot)? The difference is that the blackpillers' don't promise you unproven stuff like nirvana, paradise, and so on.

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EARN MONEY / Update!

« on: January 22, 2024, 11:32:33 PM »

An important update! He deleted today his Telegram's chats with me too. I re-added him and asked him what's going on, to which he sent me messages with this meaning: "Please go to the police", "I am not afraid of the Cambodian policemen", i. e. he proved that he's just a bad man, a cheater; a thief who deserves people to know about him (I showed him that I keep screenshots of his chats and it's not so easy to delete all and just to disappear. Then he blocked me on Telegram and now no messages.)! We're trying to report him to different policemen around!

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EARN MONEY / Fisher Effect

« on: January 22, 2024, 12:08:20 AM »

Fisher Effect

Fisher Effect -- this effect is an economic theory (which is created by economist Irving Fisher) that describes the relationship between inflation and both real and nominal interest rates. The Fisher Effect states that "the real interest rate = the nominal interest rate - the expected inflation rate". (Therefore, real interest rates fall as inflation increases, of course, unless nominal rates increase at the same rate as inflation.)

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EARN MONEY / The chat history (so far) /part 1/

« on: January 21, 2024, 11:59:32 PM »

 The chat history (so far) with that Cambodian man:


6 October 2023
20:58

Sticker
👋
20:58
Hello!
20:58
Do you speak English or Chinese?
20:59
英文或中文，懂吗?
21:00
We have a decoration question.
21:03
我们有个装修的问题。
21:03

21:04
How much for this decoration?
21:05
这个装修要多少钱?
21:14

yes
21:14
In reply to this message
English ok
21:14
more detail
21:14
How do you know my company
21:14
Whare do you want to do the decoration ?
21:19

We found it from Facebook.
21:19
(Facebook link sent.)
21:21
It's a small shop. I want to decorate the entrance and to fix some little things inside. How much does it cost
21:21
00:12
21:23
It will be Food and Drinks shop. 🍣 🍾 🍪 🍼 🧇
21:23
This sort.
21:24

Which province?
21:24
Ok, let me think and tell to you
21:24
Ok
21:25

Battambang.
21:25

Do you need the letter?
21:25

Street 123.
21:26
Yes, like this, for example.
21:26

Inside also
21:26
In reply to this message
Gồ
21:26
Good
21:26


21:26
Letters with light.
21:27

Can i go to meet you tomorrow
21:27
What time
21:27
That you are free
21:28
Tube coffee
21:28
I also I do
21:28
Ok
21:28

If it's expensive, then only letters without light, because we're not rich.👌
21:28

Not so much
21:28

Wow, you do the Tube coffee?
21:28
Great 👍
21:29
See you tomorrow.
21:29

I want to do a great job for you too
21:29
In reply to this message
At 10am ok
21:29

At Gloria Jean's coffee?
21:29
Afternoon please?
21:29
Like 3:00 p.m.?
21:29
Or 2:30 p.m.?
21:30

Oh! You are the owner of that coffee?
21:30
In reply to this message
Ok, welcome
21:31

Okay, you're so nice.
21:31

21:31
I suppose you know this place.
21:31
Or if you want another one, let us know.
21:32
I am not the owner of that coffee.
21:32
But our shop is behind that coffee.
21:33
🙂
21:34


21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34

21:34
(photos above (it's only the text repost of the chats, no images; so, if you see an empty message, it is image related, like a photo, a gif, an emoticon, etc.))
In reply to this message
So let go to check that home and talk together
21:35

Yes.
21:35

Ok
21:35
Good night!
21:36

2:30 in front of Gloria Jean's Coffee.👌👍
21:36
Good night!
21:37

In reply to this message
😉
7 October 2023
14:55

We're on the way already, but no car, only on foot and it's a bit rainy so maybe we'll arrive 10 minutes later...
14:58

ok
15:00
just busy painting too
15:00
Will be arrived at 2:30pm
15:22


Missed
15:22
Voice message
00:04
15:23

15:23

Okay.
15:23

you come here and will go to see the house
15:23

Almost there.
15:30

ok
15:35

We are here.
10 October 2023
18:59

kindly sent logo for me
19:04

Before you start with logo, can you please tell us the price of the he decoration 🙏, because we are afraid we can't pay if it is expensive. How much will be the decoration?
19:05

i charge not much don't worry
19:05
How is budget you have?
19:09

We still don't know the price, so we worry. 😅
19:09

The sign at front around with carbon & Iron with lighter is 590$
19:09

And if you add a counter inside?
19:09

and counter 400$
19:10
the table for sale 1 is 150$
19:11

I see. Okay, only the front then, because we have no income now and the money from China are little.
19:11

19:12
The logo.
19:12
Something like that, can be yellow. 🟡
19:13
590 dollars deal.🤝
19:14

that discount ready
19:15
just get pay for my worker and buy the material too
19:15
new customer i charge chip
19:15

🙏☺️ good.
19:16

one week for sign
19:16
so i will design and let you .
19:17
that logo no soft copy
19:17

Okay, simple design, everything is okay 👌
19:18

good
19:21


19:22
Just 123 Mart. Everything else is okay. The easiest for you. Don't waste too much time.👍🙏
19:23

In reply to this message
ok, it mean the bage?
19:26

"123 Mart" in a circle ⭕.
19:26

i know but on the top
19:27

10.10.2023 19:11:52

19:27

same inside
19:27
but move it on the top
19:27

Without a top is okay too.
19:27

In reply to this message
ok
19:27

Yes, anything okay.👌
19:28
👍
19:28

that simple but professional idea
19:28
you are so good
19:29

Yes, just to show the "123" street is the idea.😃
19:29
Thanks ☺️☺️
19:30

❤️
11 October 2023
17:39


17:39

17:39

17:39

17:41
Kindly to check which one
17:41
That you like
17:43
And I can start by tomorrow for you, Thanks
18:31

The first one 👌
18:31

18:36
You are starting tomorrow?
18:37
Do we need to come there too, or the workers will just start it?
18:49

I will go there and you can come too we need the key to keep the materials too
19:02
I think that you waste money for rent so I want to do quick for you too. It may be at 9am, ok for you. Thanks
19:34

Thank you very much for your understanding! 🙏 We can come at 2:00 p.m.
19:35

Ok, thanks
19:39

You're a very professional and understanding company!👍 Next time we will hire you again for the next little shop! (If this 123 shop runs well! 👌😊)
19:40

Hope it very well
19:40
Wish you start a good business too
12 October 2023
13:23


13:23
Can you give to me of your full name?
13:31
No problem you can write by hand
13:32
I let my staff print out
13:57

I don't understand the meaning. Give me some time.
13:58
My name is ... ... .
14:00
Prepare some English version, please. We don't understand even the numbers.
14:03

Just short contract
14:03
When you come I will explain
14:03
If you no need ok,
14:04

Good， but I don't understand it and my wife wants English.
14:04


14:04

Yes, some short English version please.
14:05

I have only Khmer version
14:05
Ok, come first
14:06

Okay, postpone it for tomorrow, we will search for some translation company first.
14:06

We can write by hand, ok
14:06

Have to be 100% clear.
14:06

Has ha
14:07
I will give the soft copy
14:07

Tomorrow will connect again. Now we'll go to find some translation company first.
14:07
Okay.
14:12
You can send me a copy here and I will print it in the translation company. I found one already.👌
14:14

Final contract 123 mart.docx
2.2 MB
14:15
You can see
14:19


14:19
Yes 👍
14:28


14:28
Voice message
00:09
14:28
Voice message
00:08
14:44

Okay, we're coming now. Will take around 45 minutes
14:49

Now I come back ready while you finish translation, tell to me, I will go back
14:51
You can ask them for translation, near there too
15:37

We're on the way now.
15:40
We are searching now...👌
15:47
They said they can't translate it till Tuesday because of the Holidays...
15:48
I can give you the keys and about the contract we will sign later when we got the English version.
16:26

We are in front of the shop now.
16:27
We will be around if you need the keys.
16:44

Ok
16:44
Finish transfer
16:45

Translation, you mean, right?
16:46

Yes
16:46
When finish
16:46

About the keys 🔐🗝️, anytime
you say.👌
16:47

In reply to this message
When the transition finish
16:47
In reply to this message
Where are you now
16:49

Close to the Australian school on 123 street.
16:57

Ok
16:58

When you are around, tell us, we are in this area all the day long.👌
17:24

Where are you
17:24

17:25
You stay there
17:25

Okay, coming.
17:26

Where is the trainslation
17:26
Company
13 October 2023
13:27

Good morning
13:29
I just come back from hospital to clean and will go to check the site

As you saw, I gave him to make the easiest logo possible; to safe him time and work. And this hospital related message was about his injuries. He almost die in a vehicle incident with his kid (driving drunken!) and he was very injured: face, leg... Terrible, really...

(To be continued!)

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Other languages / ВИЦ - Околосветско пътешествие

« on: January 21, 2024, 11:36:21 PM »

Околосветско пътешествие

- Миналото лято ходих на екскурзия в Австралия. Сега пък ще ходя на Хаваите.
- Аз пък ходих на околосветско пътешествие, но не ми хареса и сега ще ходя някъде другаде.

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Other languages / Когато някой има да ти връща пари и не ти ги връща

« on: January 21, 2024, 11:13:54 PM »

Когато някой има да ти връща пари и не ти ги връща

  Когато някой има да ти връща пари и не ти ги връща, обикновено, никак не ти е приятно. Ядосваш се.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: A post recording everything I do for the self-improvement

« on: January 21, 2024, 11:12:07 PM »

 But as a straight man, I don't think that he is going to like it.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 21, 2024, 09:41:04 PM »

 As a philosopher I'd like to take the liberty to discuss some of the important (for the incels and also for the noncels) points:

Natural needs are like itches on your skin.

 This analogy isn't correct enough but let's use it practically.

 

You feel itchy so that you have to tickle them, but Buddhism can enable you not to feel itchy.

 Let's suppose it's possible. Then it leads to dangers. Yes, seriously: think about it:

1/ feeling itchy shows (alarms) that there is something wrong (an animal, dirt, allergy, etc.) and you can take the necessary measures. For example, to stop eating the dangerous for your body (allergic reactions) food or to deal with the mosquito around that cause your itchiness. But if you don't have the itchy feeling (sense) then you're unaware what's wrong.

2/ feeling hungry, thirsty, etc. are (to a certain degree) useful for you, because they remind you that you're out of energy, vitamins, etc.;  you're dehydrated. What if you (somehow, due to Buddhism, for instance) in one moment forget (stop feeling) any hunger and thirst. You are dead in less than a month. The same comes about feeling cold, for example. If you don't know that it's too cold and take measures to warm yourself you're dead too. Maybe, in school, you had some language exercises like "They died from cold and hunger. -- 他们死于寒冷和饥饿。", I mean that it's a primary school knowledge level, where the pupils learn that you should avoid the cold, the hunger and so on (thus, you better don't "liberate" yourself from these useful, natural senses, feelings, needs.)

Of course it makes you feel good to tickle them, but won't you feel better not to feel itchy anymore?

 At the beginning, yes, but (as I explained above) in a long term to become a senseless (which is doubtful but let's just suppose it's possible to achieve via Buddhist practices) is leading to dangers and death.

And this is the so-called 'real happiness' in the perspective of Buddhism. And when you are 'free' from 'natural needs', you become an 'Arhat'.

 The natural needs are really natural, so we can't use quotes (to doubt them) if we want to be realistic and right. The so-called arhats are not completely "free" from their natural (biological) needs. They may suppress some of them (like the sexual desire and others) but the basic ones: to eat, to drink, to go to toilet, to sleep... they can't. So this "liberation" you're talking about is just an illusion, a wrong definition even (giving up, suppressing all that is natural, avoiding most of the things, isolation, not even trying to achieve what most of the people achieved in the society... it's not a "liberation", it's nothing more than a "self-limitation".)

And no, I don't think I will give up Buddhism within 2 yrs... It is really helping me a lot.

 I met many people who said that the religion helping them a lot (for example an Arab girl said she is happy no matter what because she just believes in Allah. Other two, Europeans, a male and a female, said they're secured because they have their faith in Jesus...) so, yes, to a certain degree the religions may "really helping you a lot" but this doesn't make them full of truths or useful about everything. You may think about this in that way: reading manga stories (or some good novel) may also help you to feel better, to feel "it is really helping me a lot" and so on, but this doesn't make the stories real and this doesn't guarantee you will be better only with the (religion, manga, novel, etc.) in a longer term. You need more, for example: science, social support, self-improvement...

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 21, 2024, 08:52:39 PM »

 The white pill is one of the best but the best is the meta pill . It's my discovery, as you all know.

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Other languages / ВИЦ - Жени и държави

« on: January 20, 2024, 02:05:31 AM »

Жени и държави

Как се променят жените с възрастта:

МЕЖДУ 18 и 20 ГОДИНИ

Жената е като Африка или Австралия.Все още е наполовина открита, наполовина дива и естествено красива, с буйна растителност около плодородната делта.

МЕЖДУ 21 и 30 ГОДИНИ

Тя е като Америка или Япония. Изцяло открита, много добре развита. Отворена е към търговия и преговори, по специално към страни с много пари или скъпи автомобили.

МЕЖДУ 31-35 ГОДИНИ

Като Индия или Испания. Много гореща, отпусната и убедена в своята собствена красота.

МЕЖДУ 35-40 ГОДИНИ

Жената е като Франция или Аржентина. Може да е наполовина разрушена от войната, но вероятно все още топло и желано място за посещения.

МЕЖДУ 40-50 ГОДИНИ

Тя е като Югославия или Афганистан. Загубила е войната и освен това постоянно я преследват предишни грешки. Наложително е да й се направи цялостна реконструкция.

МЕЖДУ 50-60 ГОДИНИ

Тогава жената е като Русия или Канада. Много обширна и тиха. Границите й на практика не са контролирани, но хладния климат прогонва евентуални посетители.

МЕЖДУ 60-70 ГОДИНИ

Жената е като Англия или Монголия. Гордее се със славно и завладяващо минало, но уви, няма особено бъдеще.

СЛЕД 70 ГОДИНИ

Жената е като Албания. Почти всеки знае къде се намира, но никой не иска да ходи там.

 Ейджистки, донякъде виц, но нали е просто виц. А и едва ли е смешен за някои... та този път без усмихвачета или усмивкачета (смайлита).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: The reason why you should learn Buddhism philsophy

« on: January 20, 2024, 01:58:37 AM »

 There are still many Chinese and non-Chinese who still don't realize that Xi Jinping is a 100% neo-emperor type dictator who controls all of the CCP which is already not like a Communist/Socialist party but like a tool or like a "mafia structure" (as one clever Chinese communist woman said) of this criminal who ruined the lives of millions in China and abroad. If he say something, CCP (all of the members) is just going to follow. In case someone disagrees, well, you know what happens, right? The person is not anymore a member of the CCP and even, worse, he/she may totally disappear (to die, to be jailed, to have to run away, etc.)
 Really, can't understand how there are still people who can't see that CCP is just a past, a history and now China is a "Xina" ("Xi-na") and the CCP is nothing more than a "XiP" ("Xi-P"), a "Xi's Party".