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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What was your biggest mistake when you tried to ascend with a girl you like?

« on: August 29, 2022, 04:05:16 AM »

What was my biggest mistake when I tried to ascend with a girl I like?

In my personal experience it was once when I thought that one will like my special oral skills in s. and I told her that I can do it well (I tried it because I heard that there are many females who complain that their boyfriends, lovers, husbands and other kinds of partners do not want to orally respect them. I wanted to show that I'm an orally respectful person.) But she was that kind of "I had a better opinion about you! You're not what I thought. And I am not what you're thinking."

(I still don't know if she really was that moral or just because I am not a Chad. If it was a really attractive Chad, could she say the same to him? Or she could accept him?

According to those experiments online where someone shows a Chad photo (photos)/profile and speaks dirty and highly disrespectfully, there are many females who are accepting this rudeness, dirtiness and even willing to get closer with him... (it is knows as "Chadfishing" online you know... ) I bet that highly likely the problem was that I'm not a Chad, Chang, Chadpreet or something around these levels.

But because there is a probability that she was really very moral, I do admit it as a mistake of mine and even my biggest one.)

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Psychology / Rejection #9

« on: August 28, 2022, 03:54:23 PM »

Rejection #9

 In this chapter I'll make a bit clear about these two moments which I mentioned in the previous chapter:

I am not a hooligan and that time I wasn't as strong and sporty as I am now because I was at the very beginning of my sports development. But I was ready to fight with him...

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I was with a knife in my pocket that time (in the country I grew up there are many dangerous guys outside and often we wear different weapons for self-protections) and I wasn't sure if he start to attack me how long I could protect myself without using the knife.

There was a university mate (an educated and cultured person) who said ones "From all people I know I am the one and only who still didn't buy a weapon." Since that time I decided to buy some simple weapons like knives.
 Later I met a rap oriented guy who wanted to be my friend. He even had a gas gun (gas pistol). Later I bought one too.
 So this rap guy and I went to meet 3 girls. The result was that they decided to give us back a call and to say if they like us or not because they feel shy to give us a real life straight answer.
 I was more handsome and more educated than this guy; also with better manners. But the girls said (phone call): "One of us don't like both of you. The rest two like only that rap man."
 The "rap man" was flattered (he got 2/3 likes and I got 0/3) but didn't like those 2 girls and nothing happened after this. I was like "Oh, gosh... at least he also didn't get 3/3 likes, so there is some subjectiveness and I have chances next time."

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: That is why we should be incels without hate (and supportive)

« on: August 28, 2022, 05:17:32 AM »

If he's not using these sick epithets surely he may sound really intelligent. I think he was the one who realized an important fact that many of the less knowledgeable incels can't see - the fact that there are uglier men than him who have got girlfriends, hence there is something more than just looks.

Of course most of the "blackpilled incels" will explain this fact with the betabuxx (but it's not enough because it can explain how the uglier and poor men got girlfriends).

It worth a separate topic.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Good news: an incel mod wants to become the best version of himself

« on: August 28, 2022, 03:32:16 AM »

Good for him to stay away from those blackpilled incels. There are also some normal and even intelligent people. But all that blackpillism (fatalism, pessimism) and calls for aggression... not a good place for an incel who really want to ascend.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Incels should know what is "necessary but not sufficient"

« on: August 28, 2022, 02:48:50 AM »

I saw and continue to see many people like that.

There are some normies (males) who think that they can compensate their fatness, bad manners and low education with some skill like cooking. They're cooking once or twice some dish, showing or giving to females they like and they expect that females will say something like "Hey, he is fat, stupid, primitive and stuff but what a good cook! I love him!"  I know two cases like this. The first one is a stupid European nazi who thinks that really cooking good dishes ensures him the success with women. The second one is a rude Asian who thinks the same but at least trying as well to make some looksmaxx (shaving his white hairs)... both are far away from attractiveness (failed normies) and too stupid to see that to cook good is a cool skill but it's not sufficient at all if you're so fat and weak physically, and with those disgusting manners, rude way of communication, limited knowledge and bluepilled as hell.

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SEO / Re: What You Need To Know About SEO For Success

« on: August 28, 2022, 01:39:19 AM »

To add many links in your forum signature is the newest in SEO.

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Psychology / Rejection #8

« on: August 27, 2022, 08:24:36 PM »

Rejection #8

This isn't a 100% rejection because for a short time (a few days) the girl in question was my girlfriends (we had some kisses; I'm not  a kissless incel.) but I'm sharing this story because

• a/ at the end she left me
• b/ I promised you to tell you about that bike story

A friend of mine told me a lie that this girl looks almost the same as his sister. His sister was my "one-it-is" and I considered her as the most pretty person in the world. When I met the girl I saw she doesn't look like his sister (the similarity wasn't more than 2% at most) but she wasn't ugly or something so I decided to give her a chance. She was almost the same tall as me. I wasn't sure if she's going to give me a chance but we end up as a couple for a few days. I did my best: took her to some pretty national parks, parks, gardens, cafes; draw some romantic pictures for her, made her small presents and so on.

She doesn't seem to love me so much but jealous a lot. For example we exchanged a joking dialog with her female classmate who learned some Turkish (I learned some Turkish language too). And my girlfriend then suddenly said: "What you too are talking? Translate now!!!" Another time there was some mIRC (online chat) female friend who said I look good or something like that and my girlfriend then saw it (I showed her because I am frank and share all; no secrets) and get literally red face, heartbeat, temperature... I thought she's going to have a heart attack at that moment... I told her the chat pal is far away, not going to meet her, don't love her... but it wasn't enough.

Well, you think that if someone jealous you probably she or he is not going to go meeting others and flirt with them, or even worse? You're wrong. She was full of jealousy but she doesn't self-limit herself to meet and even dance closely with boys. One night she said she's going to a club with her female classmates and there will be no boys. Oh, sure I believed it. A club full of males who 90% are there not for the dance or the drinks but for the mating and "no boys"... I went there too (some hour or two after she was there) and I saw her dancing with some fatty... She saw me, I made a question sign and she just smiled like "Oh, I am so sorry, he invited me to dance and I couldn't say "no"! Don't mind me, it's okay!"

Later she had to go her village (parent's home) every weekend. I was sure she's meeting there other boys (it's a typical story in our region - some people have boyfriends in the towns or cities but when they visit their villages they do have another boyfriend there, for the time being... or just some flirts, one-night stands...) so I decided to be there too. But at that moment I had no bike, no motorbike of course and even no money for the bus. I walked 35 km to the village to meet her for a while (I really met her, it was so romantic according to her cousin)... Then a best friend of mine when heard this story and was shocked that I walked 35 km said that he's going to rent me a bike or to lend me his bike for a long time. I agreed but his bike was in his village and I had to walk this time another 20 km to his village. His grandmother was shocked how I walked to there on foot. He smiled and said "Don't worry about him, he used to; he is a tourist."  Then I was so happy that I have a bike and I ride it back to the city. Even went to meet her in front of her cram school with the bike and to tell her: "You see, I'm already equipped with a vehicle and we'll be together more!" but when I met her I fall with the bike in front of her  it was embarrassing but I was young and fast, in less than a second I stood up and said to her about the bike...

It was less than a week since we were a couple I went to her home to give her some cassette tape as a present but she said she want us to break up. I was very shocked, sad and... even found her father to tell him words like: "You see, uncle! I was so good to your daughter but she decided to break up with me! From now on if she meet another one and he's a bad man, don't blame me, it's not my responsibility." I am not a hooligan and that time I wasn't as strong and sporty as I am now because I was at the very beginning of my sports development. But I was ready to fight with him if he was like "My daughter is right, you loser!" Well, he was a polite man, he just said "Oh, sorry... I see." and it was a peaceful separation.
 
A few days later (or 2-3 weeks later maybe, around this kind of time period) I saw her walking with another boy who was much taller and bigger than me; a "real Chad" as some present days incels will say about him. She saw me too, said something to the "Chad" with some foxy smile (I guess it was like "That short guy is my ex-boyfriend. Can you imagine me being a girlfriend of such a loser?!") and that was all. We even didn't greet each other and I'm glad that the "Chad" wasn't some asshole who'll say some bad words to me because I was with a knife in my pocket that time (in the country I grew up there are many dangerous guys outside and often we wear different weapons for self-protections) and I wasn't sure if he start to attack me how long I could protect myself without using the knife. I'm a reasonable person and I don't want to go to jail but when it's about love, the emotions are too strong to control them and I am just happy that "Chad" was a reasonable man too and nothing happened.

Since that time I started to train harder; I knew I'll be not become as tall as he was, nor as handsome as he was. But I knew (and I was right) that the sports will make be better looking, stronger and with improved health. As a result I become a man who doesn't need a knife to protect himself and who won several fights (some friendly and some not very friendly).

Why she rejected me? The rejection according to that friend was because my bad clothes (honestly I was more poor than now; I had no money for more than second hand clothes) but that friend was sort of not very clever and he tended to explain all with the clothes, shoes, hairstyle and other stuff that many incels now know as "blupilled" (too naive or brainwashed). I just think that she rejected me because she already met that taller, handsomer and richer man. The classical hypergamic behaviour, the classical hypergamic woman who doesn't feel shame to do so and even maybe proud to say "I found a better one and I don't care if I broke the heart of that poor, short and uglier one!"

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Other topics / 可信网站

« on: August 27, 2022, 04:50:15 PM »

可信网站

In Chinese - 可信网站 (A website that you can trust.) 

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Social network | SEO - Social network / То zionpill

« on: August 16, 2022, 01:28:23 AM »

These days I saw a new user in that forum full with hateful incels. His nickname - zionpill. He quoted my opinion that the world needs more studies like that (about the incels, violence and mental disorder) to make people understand that the violence comes only from the crazy and stupid incels. A normal and educated incel is not going to ruin his life with violence because his inceldom already is makes him miserable enough. The normal and educated incel is searching ways to ascend or at least keeps calm.

And the comment (if you can call it "a comment") of that zionpill creation is "nah ur a faggot. if someone harms u u harm them back dipshit"

Explanations for this over-poor brain:

1/ Saying "nah" doesn't make you right. Also thinking that an incel who is against the violence and supports the ascending via normal methods is a "faggot" doesn't make him one.

2/ Nobody harms you just because you're an incel. In case there is some hater or incelophobe really tries to harm you there are other methods to protect yourself (calling the police or self-defense BUT with using reasonable force to protect yourself. For example, if some incelophobe hit me, I'll hit him back but not going to take a gun like Elliot R. and to kill him and other innocent people!) Upgrade your law knowledge kid! Don't end your days in the jail!

3/ Dipshits are surely the ones who raise you; you sound like some orphan without parents who grow up on the ghetto streets in the West. You can't call a nearly 50 y. o. uncle majored in Humanitarian studies a "dipshit".
Leave as soon as possible that blackpilled shithole which makes many of you to commit crimes or suicides and join some normal incel community! Save yourself and your future until you can!

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Social network | SEO - Social network / Re: Incel, incels, r/incels (incel reddit; incels reddit) -- good and bad

« on: August 16, 2022, 12:51:05 AM »

Yeah, sure, because of one psycho female and one psycho male to limit our posts or something? But it's not a problem because nobody is posting elsewhere anyway.

Just to mention it because going to answer an aggressive brocel in that topic where I usually answer them because I can't pollute the "Incels without hate" board (which is about the normal incels) with answers to some of the abnormal incels.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Different Topics and Answers to a Foreigner in China who blocked me in 微信

« on: August 15, 2022, 05:51:46 PM »

Brickie, you in China, brocel? If so, why you're in China and not develop in your developed word? Some Chinese fellows think so "Only the losers from the developed world are coming to China." Your cool bro in question is from another developing country so it makes sense when he is trying his luck in China and you what? Why are you in China? And if you're not how you know what is in China? From your fake news media I guess?

If you don't mind, which is your country that is so social? Because if you're from one of those US, France, Italy and others, pal, you're full of native beggars, Islamic refugees, Ukrainian homeless and so on and so fourth. Don't distort the Chinese users that you're the paradise on Earth and when the continental China's Chinese go there to get stressed of your social reality.

Seems you're dealing with some mentalcel issues (congrats on the right nick choice by the way) and you are obsessed of the mental health of the others. So, here is a little present for you Japanese who visit France (and discover what sh*t is it there by their own eyes) are developing a French madness or something. Let me check it for you.


Paris Syndrome https://www.japanpowered.com/japan-culture/paris-syndrome


What I know is that the Japanese expect that French people are polite, romantic, clever, clean... and when they see the French reality (even in the capital which is Paris) they feel they want to die.

So if you don't mind tell us from which so social society you're coming? Or soyciety? Only if you are from somewhere like Sweden, Norway, Iceland or Ireland I (and most of the Chinese likely) can do agree that there the social problems are less. But don't praise to us holes like Italy, France, US and fourth because we have some friends who were there and the impression is "Why the heck I left China? Here sucks!"

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I feel lazy to post another post only for this, thus over here comes the very important note

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / A very important note

« on: August 15, 2022, 05:45:46 PM »

A very important note


Maybe the regular users of the board saw that crazy accusation based on my cope here. All I said was that I was teaching a high school girl and that I am a real professional (I never try to do STUPID AND IRRESPONSIBLE things like some non-professional teachers do like kisses, dirty talks, etc.) I only imagined that I am not only teaching her but we are sitting in a cafe and talking like a boyfriend and girlfriend. Even with the incels I shared that I don't have dirty dreams and all I dream is when I really like some girl I prefer to dream of her like "We walk together on the beach and I hold her hand.", "We drink wine and watching the stars talking about the future." and she feels cold and I give her my coat.

But some sick stalker (J.) accused me that

Not interested in incels bullshit, dreaming while teaching young girls...

It was already explained there that first of all nobody is teaching "young girls". That one is a teenager who after an year is going to be a college student (and after 2 or 3 is already in marriage age around!
Yeah, when I meet some of my female colleagues I may say "Hello, girls!" but in fact they're not "girls", they're "aunts" and "grandmoms"! So your "young girls" is a nonsense.

Secondly, you're taking photos of kids, boys, girls, babies... What if we also say that we're "Not interested in photography bullsh*t, dreaming while taking photos of kids?"  (Ooooops, sorry, it's "photographie" based on your poor English and your "great" HTML website that mogs only some of the early HTML-based ones  )

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Offtopic but not a big deal

« on: August 15, 2022, 05:15:41 PM »

Offtopic but not a big deal. Let check it out.

Brickie, I'm in the middle of something (answering the crazy accusation of that J. stalker) in another topic but you grab my attention with your incel-related question. No, I am not kidding you, this is what the 99% of the blackpilled incels will ask. Congrats on your good hit!

Bro,... really, I don't know what kind of incel are you (according to your nick you're a mentalcel, is that right?) but let me ask you, why all of you brocels think that "a partner" means "s@xual partner" or "friends with benefits" and other overthinked partnership?

I am not sure what Wechat and who claims (let him or her answer you that) but based on my common interest I'll take the liberty to ask you: isn't there in your native language something else like in English ---------------------

• JOB PARTNER (for example, jobpartners.org)
• MUSIC PARTNER (for example, mymusicpartner.net)
• BUSINESS PARTNER (no examples because I want to believe that a brocel like you heard this at least once in his life)

Don't get me wrong! I wish the bros here to get a real life partner (what you stipulate) but why you bros think that "partner" means only "girlfriend", "wife", "lover" and fourth?

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Psychology / Rejection #7

« on: August 15, 2022, 04:10:39 PM »

Rejection #7

It's one of the most unforgettable. We became penpals. That time we haven't Internet and people made new friends using mails. The post offices were happy. In one period there was a boom of mails exchange.

During all my conscious life I tried to be an informed, educated and knowledgeable person. I was looking for a girlfriend who is interested in science, Discovery channel or at least the Martial arts and China (or another East-Asian country). One day, in a teenager newspaper, I saw that advertising: she was a high-school girl interested in astronomy, music and popular science. I ran to the post office to buy some envelopes and wrote her an introduction letter. She answered me. Our cities were far away from each other but it doesn't stop me to think that "This is my right girl!"

The several interesting details were these:

• She refused to send me her photos. This made it clear that she's an insecure, not confident about her looks. In other words, she was an ugly girl. I knew it; I was sure she is something like 3 of 10 (on the decile scale) or maybe 2 of 10. But this fact didn't stop me to like her more and more. To read and reread her letters. To write her back and sometimes to write her additional letters, as a surprise just to tell her how much I miss her and how I'm willing to meet her during the upcoming summer vacation (that time I was at the beginning of my university life.)
• Her writing style was simple but deeply educated and from almost every single letter from her I could learn something new, interesting and to improve my knowledge about the astronomy, English language, musical news, geography and speleology. This made me to fall in love more and more and more and more. It was so cool to see that there is at least another person from the opposite gender who is valuing the knowledge and who makes progress.
• She wasn't fake like many of the others. She was a polite but straight person, a real person who may tell you the truth in your face without hesitation. She earned not only my respect but my admirations as well.

And the long-awaited summer vacation came! We really met. We chose a place, next to the seashore where she and her last year classmates camped (before the final high school exams). When I met her for the first time and I saw her face for the first time I was (just for a second or two) a bit shocked because it was a face that can't even pass a 1.5 of 10. Her body was better (around 5 of 10). But as I wrote, I didn't care much about her looks once she got all that rich internal world. So I felt that I like you the same and her ugly face didn't influence my previous admiration.

The next day I met some of her classmates, there were some prettier girls but I didn't feel anything special towards them and I focused all my attention, emotions, thoughts on this girl which I was already sure that "She is the rightest one for me."

Sadly there was her best friend (another girl). That best friend looked like someone who dominates their friendship and that "my girl" listens to her best friend as a kid who listens to his beloved mommy. For example she decided where we'll go, when we'll meet, what movie we'll watch and if we're visiting the beach or not. I didn't interfere because I was educated enough to know that a quarrel with the best friend is an (almost sure) "negative score". Well, we went to watch a movie (still remember it was one starring Sean Connery) and after that I asked "my girl" when we'll meat tomorrow. Her best friend said something that tomorrow we're not meeting... some hours later, somehow I met only "my girl" and asked her what's going on, if she is not going to spend at least some moments with me alone and to have at least some days a "you and me" vacation. (All I dreamed was just to sit on the beach, to watch together a sunset, to have a hug, maybe a kiss. This kind of semiplatonic love. I knew she was a virgin too so I even didn't mention anything like "hug" or "kiss" too.) But all this attention, kindness and carefulness were in vane. She said something like "We must only remain very good friends." (It was a total shock for me because in her letters, especially the ones before we met, she expressed more warm feelings and even readiness and sort of willingness to have an emotional, beyond friendship, relationship). I got it. She didn't get the vibe (or her best friend, who as even uglier and colder than her; a type of Tomboy girl, was single and probably jealous of our potential falling in real love, was the real reason "my girl" to reject me so coldly and unemotionally?) It will be one of the enigmas in my life: if it was that in the reality I wasn't what she imagined (I did my best to keep fashioned, taking showers, using perfumes, making good hairstyles... from my present perspective the only mistake that I had was that I didn't hit the gym and I was a skinny boy. Now I never ever miss a day to keep myself fit, strong and confident by means of gyms and sport tools)? Or it was only because her best friend was a blocker who controlled her free will and actions to that degree? Or there was some combination of both? Or there was another, third factor, that will remain unknown?

Whatever. I was so sad that I cried in front of my landlord (an old grandmom who expressed her sincere condolences and said that her bet is that the best "friend" ruined our potential true love relationship). It was my first and last seashore vacation when I was so depressed that I even didn't go to swim. Only visited the nearest beach, touched some sea waves, said "Good bye" to the sea and left earlier (at least to save some money. This travel cost me a bike; I couldn't buy a new bike because of this and I was thinking that if I knew earlier that she will surprise me with this shock I better never spent the money and better to have the bike which at least could help me keep healthy and save me some money from the public transportation).

The end of the story was that I remain bikeless  for a long time (in the next chapter I'll tell you why I had to rent a bike from my best friend, because of another girl) and we never exchanged mails any more.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Different Topics and Answers to a Foreigner in China who blocked me in 微信

« on: August 15, 2022, 01:57:12 PM »

Oi! He is a fan! He reads my 500 rejections book! Don't be too hard to my fan-reader!

Nah... bros and sis... as another, way more clever and edumaxxed French male said, folks like him  shouldn't be allowed to speak.
They are talking about things they don't know anything about. And their life is as miserable as ours.
When you spend your whole day browsing a male forum and posting stuff like "Hehe, look at these incels! lmao~`", your life isn't better than ours, far from it.

Sorry if some of the females felt underrepresented. I know here we've got several female members/moderators too but he (J.) is obsessed by the male stuff hereby I rephrased that other French male's thoughts.