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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why it seems to me many short men are also 'short' in emotional intelligence?
« on: June 13, 2023, 06:31:13 AM »
It's really good to make clear that we're not haters or discriminators. I often underline these things that, for example, I may dislike the current Japanese government but I don't hate Japanese people (I even like many of the Japanese and their stuff) or that if I am not a fan of the homosexuals it doesn't mean that I am a homophobe, etc. So, I do appreciate how well you make it clear that having an opinion about some group of people doesn't imply that you're discriminating them or willing to hurt their feelings!
Well, now concretely about the important points:
1. "unmatured" -- this is so common among people that you name a group and there will be someone who'll show you a lot, a lot of unmatured people there -- vegans, feminists, incels, communists, democrats... no matter what, there are and there will be a part (sometimes a bigger part) that you can call "unmatured".
So, it's just not specific to the shorties.
2. "apathetic, extremely depressed & depressing" -- that's already specific but it's specific for every group (as was mentioned above already) of people who're dealing with some problem (and especially with a problem that hasn't easy solution like being disabled, being too short/too tall, being very poor, etc.)
3. "shortcels are prone to overestimating the benefits of being tall"
Often. And not only this type of incels:
I'd like to add this little example: Most of the Chinese people are not xenophobic (we're not talking about the political course here). Maybe 80% will never say they hate foreigners or they love foreigners; maybe 15% will say they adore foreigners and maybe just 5% of all the Chinese population will be like "I hate them!"
And here comes the example.
There are those funny, ridiculous Chinese uncles, young lads and some women who're really thinking that all the problems of Chinese are because of the foreigners and, if there are no foreigners in China, everything will be better.
So simple, huh? Or those ones (Chinese and non-Chinese) who would say that "If Japan/Russia/Israel/you-name-it doesn't exist, everything is going to be okay!"
So, in a word, people often tend to overestimated a problem and to underestimate (or even not to notice) the rest of the problems.
Well, now concretely about the important points:
1. "unmatured" -- this is so common among people that you name a group and there will be someone who'll show you a lot, a lot of unmatured people there -- vegans, feminists, incels, communists, democrats... no matter what, there are and there will be a part (sometimes a bigger part) that you can call "unmatured".
So, it's just not specific to the shorties.
2. "apathetic, extremely depressed & depressing" -- that's already specific but it's specific for every group (as was mentioned above already) of people who're dealing with some problem (and especially with a problem that hasn't easy solution like being disabled, being too short/too tall, being very poor, etc.)
3. "shortcels are prone to overestimating the benefits of being tall"
Often. And not only this type of incels:
- many of the ethnicels think that JBW (just be white) is enough; they even don't believe that mayocels (white incels) do exist.
- many of the baldcels think that if they have the hair and everything will be fine (which is true only if they're just baldcels but when you add that some are also fatcels, poorcels, oldcels, etc., the picture isn't optimistic at all.)
- many of the poorcels think that if they just money-maxx and the girls are flooding them. Well, partly true, but if you're just rich and you're disgusting in many other ways, the best you'll do is beta-buxxing.
- many of the oldcels overestimate the youth.
- many of the slimcels, framecels, etc., overestimate the gymmaxx and when they get gymmaxxed and still no girls, they wonder how is that possible. They just don't see their other problems (for example they have to add some style, some money, some knowledge, some status...)
I'd like to add this little example: Most of the Chinese people are not xenophobic (we're not talking about the political course here). Maybe 80% will never say they hate foreigners or they love foreigners; maybe 15% will say they adore foreigners and maybe just 5% of all the Chinese population will be like "I hate them!"
And here comes the example.
There are those funny, ridiculous Chinese uncles, young lads and some women who're really thinking that all the problems of Chinese are because of the foreigners and, if there are no foreigners in China, everything will be better.
So simple, huh? Or those ones (Chinese and non-Chinese) who would say that "If Japan/Russia/Israel/you-name-it doesn't exist, everything is going to be okay!"So, in a word, people often tend to overestimated a problem and to underestimate (or even not to notice) the rest of the problems.
Утре, предполагам, ще ни огрее.

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