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$tackThatMoney person is giving positive, optimistic and motivational opinion. It's much better, for many of the pessimistic incels who only think about "It's over.", "It never began.", "LDAR" (lay down and rot)/("lie down and rot"), etc.
I'm trying to be a realist, so here is what I can comment:
1. It's not so important if you surpass thousands of others or millions of others, or just 10 of others. It's important how many of others you do surpass in your social circle (more exact -- the social circle of the person you like). For example, you may surpass 104 000 000 people around the world but what if you're still number 7 (of 10) amongst the guys who are her potential future partners? Well, maybe she's not going to choose exactly number 1 (because she may feel insecure to be with such a great man or maybe because he'll think that she is not good enough for him). Let's assume that she will skip number 2 too and even number 3... but then, still, she will be with number 4 or 5. And you're the 7
th. So, you're nearly
chanceless.
Now, imagine another situation -- you're arriving in some developing place where you're a unique and attractive person in the eyes of the locals (for example just because you're a foreigner who is considered very good looking (according to the local tastes) and who is much richer, educated, skillful, etc. than the average people around). You may surpass only 100 or 90 (or less) of others in your country and only around 200 all around the world.
, but what's the problem when all (or nearly all) of the local females think that you're the best they ever met? If you like enough at least one of them, then your inceldom problem is solved!
Yes, of course, if you surpass most of the others around the world, the chance (probability) to also surpass most of the competitors around you and the female (females) you like is higher, than if you only surpass a few people in the entire world. But still, it depends, who exactly is in your (and especially, in her) social circle.
2. The correct dietary decisions are important. The healthy menu is going to improve your health and even to make your body, skin, face to look a bit better. But in some cases it may be a reason some of the females to reject you. For example if you're eating normally and you want to be with a 100% vegan girl, probably she'll disagree or you both will have a lot of hard time. Or, imagine, that you like some very religious one who is forbidding you to eat something what you really like (for example pork (Islam) or beef (Hinduism), etc.) So the right, healthy flexitarian menu may be an obstacle in some cases. Anyway, don't give up and keep your healthy diet because the health is number one priority.
3. Hitting the gym (working out) is a good thing too. And you can do it even without a real gym. For example you can make decent muscles at home if you're using some ordinary sports tools and you're doing the right exercises. Even only push-ups, squats and sit-ups may be enough, if you're doing them regularly, almost every day and you're having the right diet.
Well, there are some females who do not like muscles but recently the percentage of these females isn't very significant, so don't worry and build up your body well.
4. It's sad but have to keep it in mind: nowadays, in this cruel capitalistic world which is also full of wars and other problems if you're poor and especially if you're a poor male, your chances to find a partner are not great. That's why the best you can make your goal is to earn a lot of money (but legally; don't risk your life with criminal activities!), which means to try business, to search for jobs with high salaries, etc. Even a super charming male (a "Chad" or a "Brad") if has no money is losing most of the females because one part of them (let's say 40%) will just find another Chad or Brad who is richer. Some of them will even prefer to be with a "Norman" (a.k.a. "normie", i. e. an average male) who has the money, but not with a poor Chad. And other, let's say 25%, even agree to be with a moneyless Chad/Brad will be in trouble because their parents will never agree their daughters to be with a poor man.
5. To be educated and knowledgeable is an important and reasonable value. The problem is that most of the people around the world are not very clever so if you're a clever person, in some cases, it may be a problem because many of the stupid females are not willing to be with a very clever man -- some of them think that they're not a match for a clever man and he should find another clever woman; others just think that being with a clever man is against them because he'll lie them or something like this; also there are women who dislike the very clever males because they're "boring", "geeks", "losers" and so on. Don't forget that category who want to control and to command their partners -- these women usually think that a very clever man is difficult to control, so they're avoiding the high IQ men.
Still, this value is objectively a very important one and it's a must for the humankind. So, if you're able to be clever and to become cleverer, don't miss this chance! In most of the cases the clever people are able to find a way, to avoid some problem, to get a better decision and so on. Also being clever is a sort of a little compensation if you're not rich ("poor and stupid" is a terrible combination indeed).
That's all. So, in a word, I do like this theory but I just wanted to add that it's not a 100% working. Yes, 0.01% counts but not every time. Sometimes even 0.000001% is enough (if you're in the right place, with the right person). Sometimes you have to get at least 0.91% to become at least one of the "TOP 3 potential partners" in your favorite female's social circle.
You see, from time to time, I'm thinking about it, theoretically, if someday I am lucky enough to be close again to my favorite, angelic Long Jun-Hong (龙君红) and she is a mature adult, if I will be able to become at least one of the "TOP 10 males she likes" in her social circle. I doubt it even now when I'm totally sure that I surpass not just "thousands of others", but 80%+ of the others around the world! (Because I'm a philosopher, a poet, a writer, a webmaster. I do not smoke, I do not' drink hard alcohol. Besides my Master's at philosophy, I've got a TEFL and some sports certificates. I'm doing regular sport activities (several). I can speak several foreign languages and I'm learning everyday more and more. I'm learning non-stop about history, psychology, logic and many others. Day by day, I'm trying to earn more money via teaching, webmastering, writing, trading..., i. e. I'm a hard-working person. I'm also comparatively kind, helpful and fair person. I do avoid unhealthy things like dirtiness (germs, viruses, etc.), radiation, pollution and so on. Trying to eat healthily. As you may see, I'm something like a modern genius or, at least, not an ordinary man. That's why I'm pretty sure that 80%+ of the rest are worse than me. And, still, I'm not optimistic that if she meet me again one day, after some years, she'll think that I'm one of the potential partners for her because some the other males in her social circle will be more attractive and more acceptable to her than me).
So, dear incels, do your best and improve yourselves more and more, as much as you can! Just remember that it won't work in every situation but it will be generally helpful (it has the potential to work in some of the situations). In simple words, it's increasing your chances.
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