☯☼☯ SEO and Non-SEO (Science-Education-Omnilogy) Forum ☯☼☯
Normal Incels (Incels Without Hate) => A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) => Topic started by: Non-SEO on August 14, 2022, 03:39:43 PM
-
Hypergamy
Hypergamy is everywhere.
-
Usually, yes. But let's be honest, sometimes there is hypogamy as well. If you don't knot its definition, the term "hypogamy" refers to a person of higher social status who marries a man of a lower social status. The most notable case is Jenny von Westphalen who was born in an aristocratic family but married the poor philosopher Karl Marx (and then they were often poverty-stricken political refugees).
Nowadays there are still some hypogamy stories but usually the hypergamy wins.
There was a girl I loved nearly 11 years. After more than 10 years of fruitless love she became my ICQ-friend and even sent me some virtual love signs; one day when she wasn't sure she is pregnant or not, I was ready to go to her place (she resides in Germany) and to take care of her and her future child... it was a big love... but at the end, she got married to a richer son of a politician and businessman who works in East Europe. All my efforts -- improving my degrees (Master's at Philosophy, TEFL, 3 sports diplomas) /aka edumaxx/, improving my body (building muscles, learning more fighting techniques, entering new sports levels) /aka gymmaxx and/or looksmaxx/, improving my earnings (at least to the degree to own an apartment which already is a fact) /aka moneymaxx/ and improving my knowledge (psychology, anthropology, biology, history, foreign languages, sinology) /aka studymaxx/ were practically useless... but at least all these helped me to got some girlfriends and wives so far (not at the same time, of course). So, the self-improvement is useful, even when you can't succeed with your dreamful girl (aka one-it-is), there will be others that may like you. The hypergamy isn't something that should make you scared; the opposite, it should be a stimulus (a thing that rouses activity and energy in you), a useful challenge that will lead you to your point when you will ascend, dear good incels! Prove the incelophobes and the world that not every incel is a hopeless and/or dangerous person!
-
I am totally sure that 90/100 of the incels are willing to be hypergamic if they can. I can't see how they'll reject a richer, prettier, better educated woman from a good family and choose willingly some poor, ugly, low educated woman from a dysfunctional family.
Tell me I'm a biased or unfairly prejudiced woman but before it prove I'm wrong. :P
-
I am not sure if it's some incels joke between them or they mean it but they often can say "Stacy only." Therefor they are ok with the hypergamy I guess. :P
-
To summarize what incels like/want is the same as to summarize what the Japanese want or what the cooks want. Everybody wants something different. Like some Japanese want to be anime creators, others to be karate-do masters... some cooks want to work in 5 star hotel, others to have own restaurant... you understand the analogy, right?
Well, there were some polls that showed that some groups of incels do really prefer women who rank 7/10 to 10/10 (the Stacies and Gygastacies) but there are many incels who're not going to be with such a woman at least because they think of these super pretty and attractive females as promiscuous or just "out of my league" and "not my looksmatch".
It's a myth that most of the people (males or females) target the most good-looking persons. Many of the incels and the average (Normans) will just be okay with a moderately good-looking girl that they like but at the same time not attracting most of the other males; once in a TV show I saw a Chinese woman who rejected a handsome Chinese man (a so-called Chang in incels' slang) because many other Chinese women applauded him and liked him. She said: "I don't like this type of too handsome man when the other women will say "Wow! :-*" I need a less attractive person."
The highest IQ males (incels or not) know that the beauty isn't all and they look beyond it; they'll search not just for a pretty but clever, reasonable, not hysterical, clean, moral and skillful woman.
-
It's not that complicated to understand but there are people who can't get it or at least think of it in a wrong way. For example that brocel who said "hypergamy always wins, nonchads lose"... Bro, hypergamy is not only about the looks. Many females are just leaving the poor man for a rich man. This is the main hypergamy - from a lower social status to an upper social status.
-
I am totally sure that 90/100 of the incels are willing to be hypergamic if they can. I can't see how they'll reject a richer, prettier, better educated woman from a good family and choose willingly some poor, ugly, low educated woman from a dysfunctional family.
You're right, however I personally prefer poor than rich :P
-
Hey, good to see you around again! Glad that you're doing well! 8)
-
There are many studies that shows that most of the males will ignore the money (and other kind of capital like property: villas, cars, company, etc.) if the woman is enough pretty and/or has something else that they value.
-
I am totally sure that 90/100 of the incels are willing to be hypergamic if they can. I can't see how they'll reject a richer, prettier, better educated woman from a good family and choose willingly some poor, ugly, low educated woman from a dysfunctional family.
You're right, however I personally prefer poor than rich :P
Because it makes you feel better the poor woman is of a lower status than you?
I mean, I don't care about wealth BUT there are women who have money and are pretty and they'll date a poor guy.
-
Of course, I can't speak of him, but I'd say that there are males who do prefer poor women because they expect them to be more modest, more traditional, more moral. Of course, it's a sort of naive because there are many of poor women who (because of the poverty sometimes) are full of bad moral like thinking how to cheat, how to steal, how to deal with prostitution, drugs and so on.
I mean that they don't want some spoiled rich girl that will think only about cars, clothes, travel and so on but the poor one may be worse than the rich one.
That's why I just don't judge people like "Poor = good" or "Rich = bad". I am a socialist and I do want a world without poverty but the reality is that there are plenty of poor-AND-bad people. The poverty doesn't provide moral (and in many cases is a base for the anti-moral and anti-social behavior.)