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Normal Incels (Incels Without Hate) => A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) => Topic started by: MSL on December 18, 2022, 01:37:42 PM
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Incel in denial (denialcel)
A denialcel
Incel in denial or a denialcel is a person who is dealing somehow with the inceldom but he (she) has no idea that he/she is an incel (femcel). He or she just deny or underestimate his/her inceldom.
And here is my newest chat with a denialcel (he is a Chinese good man, educated too, with some good earnings from the educational business in Guangdong). The main reasons causing his inceldom are that he's not very attractive as face (3/10 to 3.5/10 at best) and he's short (shorter than most of the Chinese in South China).
Because he's mostly a shortcel, I think, this is his main problem and I tried to give him a hint that he should at least gymmaxx (to improve his body and to compensate at least a bit his shortness). If he's gymmaxed, he may achieve a 4.5/10 status (because seems he's already moneymaxxed and statusmaxxed, also he has very good personality) but he surprisingly thinks that he's already enough good to have a girl-friend and even asked me to connect him with a foreign girlfriend (without knowing good English and without improved body) and he is feeling that it's so normal to have a girlfriend in his situation that even said that he doesn't want to use online dating because it's too slow for him; he wants someone to introduce a girl directly to him and to start dating asap. ;D
This is how entitled are many of the incels (denialcels especially) today (they can't imagine that women do have wishes, ideals, needs and they can't just accept you because you need a girlfriend.)
Some moments from the chat:
我做教育，成功了啊；只是没有女朋友，可以介绍个外国女友么
(I am in the educational business, successful; just have no girlfriend, can you introduce a foreign girlfriend to me?)
After a website (in English where he can try to find some foreign women) idea: 但是我英语不好啊
(But my English isn't good!)
After I found for him a website in Chinese: 网络上的，一般要很长时间
如果直接有人介绍，就好很多
(When it comes to online dating, usually it takes a long time
If there is a person who can directly introduce someone, then this is the really good thing.)
So, do you think this man will find a girlfriend if he continues to keep his status unchanged? I think he's almost without chance to ascend if he's not going to improve himself (much) more.
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100% unaware of his incel issues. I am sure he is thinking that there will be a woman for him just like this and that he is not going to put any gym efforts because it is too difficult for him.
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He's thinking something like this: "I am already rich enough and educated. I am with a decent personality and single. That's already enough for every single Chinese or foreign woman to agree to date me." He can't realize that the love needs also at least a bit physical, body, looks attractiveness (the biological base of the love). Only with social upgrade (moneymaxx, edumaxx and personalitymaxx) you can't attract enough. In the best case you'll find some "unicorn" (these rare females nowadays who only value the character, moral and personality, and don't care at all about the looks). But, usually, people like him will end up (in the majority of the best cases) as beta-buxxers.
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Sometimes these guys are able to surprise everybody with some astonishing girlfriend (wife). I suppose these are the "unicorns".
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"And when given the option, it's always nicer to be with a good-looking guy." ("Descent of Goddess" chapter 223.3)
When there is an option most of the women will choose the good-looking guy. So, if he can make himself better-looking and he's ignoring this chance, he will be sorry later.
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More about our useful chats which may help you to ascend: incels and Stacies (http://www.seo-forum-seo-luntan.com/a-forum-for-incels-who-are-normal-people-no-terrorists-no-rapists-no-racists-no-pedophiles-no-haters-and-so-on/something-incels-and-stacies-have-in-common/).
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Hey, I can't deny what I believe and can't be what I'm not.