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Normal Incels (Incels Without Hate) => A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) => Topic started by: SEO on April 29, 2023, 02:17:30 AM
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That feeling when she ignored you and chose to date another one and then he is cheating on her
You know it's for the incelologists, incels, ordinary people who study the love and the relationships and so on... so no hate, no gloating but the feeling is unique.
She refused to date me years ago. Answers like: "Dating is trouble." and "No need, I am okay. Thank you." And then she found some "better than" me and these days chatting with me saying that... oh, no "我老公出轨了" (My husband has an affair)... well... and then "我老公吵着离婚。" (My husband is talking about divorce.)
Sorry but can't feel anything else than "That serves you right!" (for the people with poorer English -- this is used to say that something that has happened to somebody is their own fault and they deserve it) 8)
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All I can say is a big Lol
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Thanks! Because... well, most of the females I know will say I am selfish and I should be like "Oh, no! Poor you girl! You don't deserve it." I was not like this. And also I didn't say something rude like "You are a moron, that's why."
I only reminded her that she chose to be with this kind of man because she felt he is the best; she chose to live in China because she feels China is the best and the president of China is the best; she even thinks that Russia is right to fight Ukraine and that the European countries are bad countries because they support the victim (Ukraine) with weapons... Totally a person who is brain washed with all possible propaganda and easily believes anything. ::) So long about her intelligence...
So well, I just can't explain how I feel, something like... justice, maybe.
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Obviously a female who isn't well informed about the life, the politics and so on. Including the love.
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I don't know you so I can't say anything.
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She is going to find somebody else. I am sure. :P
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People never learn. They never change.
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I also told her the same because she said:
"Oh, noooooo! You're doing so much better than me now; you're not dealing with a divorce; you're gifted and you can work in some many fields, you're a person students can like. Look at me, such a loser -- nobody likes me, the students, the husband, the money... I am poor..." and I told her that she, as a female, especially one in China where the male:female ratio is so good for her is not going to be alone at all. Well maybe already not so easy because she doesn't date to show me a recent pic. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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I also told her the same because she said:
"Oh, noooooo! You're doing so much better than me now; you're not dealing with a divorce; you're gifted and you can work in some many fields, you're a person students can like. Look at me, such a loser -- nobody likes me, the students, the husband, the money... I am poor..." and I told her that she, as a female, especially one in China where the male:female ratio is so good for her is not going to be alone at all. Well maybe already not so easy because she doesn't date to show me a recent pic. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
I need more details. This sounds good.
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Many people like her. And being honest, I'll tell you that at the same time I read something in Bulgarian, where exactly almost the same things (chats) occured -- one is telling that the Russia is right and it's totally according to the justice and so on, another one is asking him "Are you living in a parallel reality?", the third one adding that it's sad to see so many "deluded Bulgarians" who're denying the Russian aggression...
And also, many people like her about "I will chose this one because, you see: he's hot, he's tall, he's handsome, yeah!" and then: "Ah!?! No!!! How?! There are other women?! Impossible! I am the one!" Come on! (There are also these males who're choosing some model-tier Stacy and then complain that she is cheating or at least there are so many males around her.) You get what you choose to get, at the end of the day. Yes, some people are suffering from the same problem with even low-tier Beckies, or some Melvin who's visiting prostitutes, for example. You're never secured when you are with a cheater but when you're choosing some really obviously attractive what do you expect really?
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More details. I avoid to show personal data but it's simple as this: I met her before close to a big park when she was still in a medical university. Later wanted to date her but she refused several times and nothing... years later she informed me she is getting married, she is married... I didn't notice her for long but recently she is in a same English language and English teaching group and doing some translation + teaching jobs. Strongly influenced by the local propaganda. Going to divorce but she doesn't want to... and step by step is checking if I am still single, if I am okay to accept her and playing some games like "but see, you know, we are still friends" and "I don't' want to lose him"... and when it came to "You saw my recent photos? I am fit now, I am richer now. I am going abroad" How about you? The answer is, let me quote, it's unique: "No photos." Well, sorry to say that but if she got overobese or something like it, we can't blame very much her husband that he's at least offering her divorce honestly without cheating on her for a long time.
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;D The infidelity huh... That husband is really something. Well, logically:
a) he's just a normie but she's really getting disgusting (fatter and/or bitter as character, no matter what) and he's just tired of her, maybe he hasn't any lover just wanting to leave her. "Please, release me let me go! For I don't love you anymore!" you know?
b) he's a Chang-tier! He succeed to marry her (as we see she was a hot or a cutie maybe a noodle Stacy-tier or around) but also he's so attractive and/or smart that he's able to attract another one! Wow!
In both cases it's not a commoner, an ordinary man.
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People never learn. They never change.
I do agree with this. Like before: Russia was a China's competitor and had fights with them and Russia was bad. Now, Russia is good... when the propaganda says "Good" the followers are saying the same and the opposite.
I wonder why still keep in touch with this kind of girl?!
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8) Because he hopes she is still the same hot as before. If she is now a landwhale and plus her antihumanistic political views ohhhhhh... I bet he is blocking her forever. ;D
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Understandable at its fullest. The women will be the same: ouch, he's not a cheese ball and he's such a bad personality! Screw him!...
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Oh, no. Not to say that I am virtue signaling (for the people with bad English it's the public expression of opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or social conscience or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue) but I was this close (https://tse4-mm.cn.bing.net/th/id/OIP-C.glUqymAQe5LkYESqjBpvhgAAAA) to delete her, especially the moments when she started to talk that it's okay and right a big country to invade another one and to kill, destroy, etc. but at the same very second she said that she feels she's losing "another friend". All of her friends left her and went abroad and ... I just decided to give her some more chance but... obviously I'm dealing with a person without sense of humanity and easily to get brainwashed by any type of propaganda (not only this one; if she was in an Islamist place I bet she will praise the power of Allah over all of us or something else over everything and everyone of us.)
But honestly, if she is also a lazy one who is ignoring her body and thinking that becoming a sportless, inactive fat-deformed human, is giving her the same attractive value... oh, it's too much and as a man with a bit esthetics sense (审美学) I am really going to refuse dealing with her anymore.
No, honestly, 3 problems is too much: didn't chose me before, now she's wanting to secure me as a "reserve player"... + tends to support the aggressive ones and to not pity the victims... + (maybe) getting worse looking... Oh, c'mon! Where is her real value? Which aspect? Personality, looks, ethics, logic?
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Not to predict but I can make a guess that except you she is having at least 2-3 more "reserve players". The females (if they're not in the lowest stage of the decile scale as the 0/10, 1/10 and 2/10) are full of male friends, orbiters, admirers, etc. who'll be glad or proud at most to be their next.
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Looks matters.
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Just waist of time...
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People never learn. They never change.
I do agree with this. Like before: Russia was a China's competitor and had fights with them and Russia was bad. Now, Russia is good... when the propaganda says "Good" the followers are saying the same and the opposite.
I wonder why still keep in touch with this kind of girl?!
Yuh!
I wonder why. Russia is a nice country though ngl.
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Russia has many nice things -- the culture (literature, some good philosophy, science, ballet, etc.), the normal Russians and other nationalities there who are loving the peace and the freedom (including the democracy -- no matter which one -- capitalistic democracy, socialistic democracy and so on, but at least democracy, i. e. when the people (or its biggest segment) decides the laws and the future, not when one monarch or one neo-monarch decides instead of most of you, most of us.) And here comes the problem (the same problem that Germany had before with Hitler). Germany has many nice things (great philosophers, high level science and technologies, literature and so on) but Hitler made it "Hitler's Germany" which wasn't nice. Well, now the situation with Russia is the same -- it's not Russia what we knew, it's now Putin's Russia (or something like "Putinia", "Putinland", "Putinstan"...) which means that only he decides the course, the politics, etc. (in the best case -- he and some of his closest friends and/or advisers, who knows?) and the bigger problem is that this one-man rule is highly aggressive towards many of the neighbors and many of the countries around the world, which is not nice. You can't call the aggressiveness which escalates even in wars against Georgia, Ukraine, Moldova, in one or another form, something "nice", right?
This is what we're talking about. Let's imagine -- Norway is now a nice country, isn't it? But what if it starts to hit Denmark, Finland, Poland? Are there normal people who'll still consider Norway as a "nice" one? Surely not.
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We're not against the Russia's culture or the Russia's people. We're against the Russian's aggressive wars. As nice people we don't support death, blood, disabled people, etc. So many people are dead and will die. And so many disabledcels will be there day after day.
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People never learn. They never change.
I do agree with this. Like before: Russia was a China's competitor and had fights with them and Russia was bad. Now, Russia is good... when the propaganda says "Good" the followers are saying the same and the opposite.
I wonder why still keep in touch with this kind of girl?!
Yuh!
I wonder why. Russia is a nice country though ngl.
Russia's politics is to become an empire and to conquer (="overcome and take control of (a place or people) by use of military force") many of us. For example the Russians already have got part of Moldova, part of Georgia (Грузия), now they want Ukraine. How is it 'nice'? I don't understand this value system.
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People never learn. They never change.
I do agree with this. Like before: Russia was a China's competitor and had fights with them and Russia was bad. Now, Russia is good... when the propaganda says "Good" the followers are saying the same and the opposite.
I wonder why still keep in touch with this kind of girl?!
Yuh!
I wonder why. Russia is a nice country though ngl.
Russia's politics is to become an empire and to conquer (="overcome and take control of (a place or people) by use of military force") many of us. For example the Russians already have got part of Moldova, part of Georgia (Грузия), now they want Ukraine. How is it 'nice'? I don't understand this value system.
You do know I'm not talking about the government or politics of Russia, right?
As MSL said. Germany is an example.
Russia and Germany aren't bad as a whole but it's the people in charge of the country that make the whole country seem bad.
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Yes, she is right.
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No arguing here, I think... the people in charge of the country made is "not nice" at the present. So as far as now it's a military machine it's hard for us to thinking nice of it. For me "nice" can be some peaceful thing like Iceland or San Marino but things like Russia, oh no. :o
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Or Norway too. Out money is stable and hasn't changed in value much unlike the Russian Rubles(?).
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Yes, Norway and most of the European countries too. I picked Iceland and San Marino because they're something like very small, cute, quiet and I imagine them as really nice. ;D Btw the Icelanders are relatives of the Norwegians as I know.
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She said she will search for another husband... life on a tutorial mode. Life on tutorial mode is a meme concerning how easy it's for women to find a partner in the dating scene. ;D
(https://incels.wiki/images/3/3c/1ag.png)
;D
(https://incels.wiki/images/4/42/Life_difficulty_level.jpg)
;D ;D
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I don't remember if she really said so but yes, basically she's going to search for another one and to born a kid. This is her wish and yes, basically she's having something like a life on tutorial mode but not like some Stacy because she's already not that young, she is not very rich, she's not very skillful and so on.
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I just mean that usually after the divorce they're searching for another one or just keeping it divorced but with orbiters, lovers, etc. Usually not a problem for them.
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Yes, their SMV is never too low.
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If she is not going to date you and only uses you as an orbiter or a gay-type friend (only to share her problems or something), why you still didn't suggest her to delete each other?
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I told her I am not going to waste time in this way. At first I felt some pity but later I realized that it's a fruitless relationship: time consuming, not leading to any result, unclear future (maybe no future). She wanted to continue just being online friends but I told her I am too old for this 'game'.
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She is going to be alright. I bet.
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Yes. I hope so and I think so. It's easier for the females to find (at least male) friends, net-friends, etc.
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It's rare but sometimes they're trying to re-add you again. ;D
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She tried to add me again, with some "useful info" excuse. It's silly because I told her I am not interested (regarding that type of info)... and then, again, politely told her that we should delete each other. No more.
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Time wasters. Of course not that strange taking into account their selfishness and egocentrism. In the worst cases -- Zhang Jie from Shanghai who posts many, long texts online to waste his time (and if you are gullible enough to start reading his all texts you will lose hours, weeks, months for sport, learning, sleeping, earning money and you will become like him:
- less knowledgeable
- less muscles
- less physical and mental health
- less money (and forced by the poverty to serve to some bosses and managers who are usually even less educated than you and have no compassion).
By the way, check the news: http://www.seo-forum-seo-luntan.com/a-forum-for-incels-who-are-normal-people-no-terrorists-no-rapists-no-racists-no-pedophiles-no-haters-and-so-on/an-update-about-zhang-jie-from-shanghai-insanity-and-criminal-acts/msg53696/#msg53696
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Of course, of course. Can't agree more. Wasting more than 5 minutes a day for criminal psychos like him is a big damage to your body and brain development, your earning of money and your peace in mind. You are going to be a degraded hikikomori with antisocial issues and disgusting body, chubby or fat face. Don't allow him to damage your time.