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Normal Incels (Incels Without Hate) => A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) => Topic started by: MSL on May 10, 2023, 09:00:42 PM
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Why it's good to delete online "friends" that aren't useful for your development
Here is the problem -- if you're an incel (or another kind of not successful person) you need improvement. For example if you're poor, you need to search for affordable business or at least some job. If you're fat you'll need to think how easily to reduce the calories and how to burn more of them via different healthy activities. If you're lacking foreign language skills you need to spend more time learning new words, reviewing old words, improving your listening, training your pronunciation and so on.
It means that you need to spend more time for everything (trying businesses, searching for jobs, doing sports, learning, etc.) Time is not necessary money (I avoid trusting platitudes like "Time is money.") but time is precious.
Well, what happens when you use it to chat with some of those online "friends" who is not capable to give you anything you need? Let's suppose you're a kind of lonely man (an incel or incelish, or just a failed normie) who's spending hours to chat with some female who's not going to give you even a chance to meet her. She is like "Sorry but I don't want to date you; we just chat online. You'll listen to my problems and I'll use you to practice my English. Great, right?" In a long run (i. e. at some time in the future) she'll feel better because she's reducing her stress via sharing with you all her problems about her insecurities, her ex-boyfriend or present husband, her boss, relatives and so on, and probably her English will become better because you're helping her (more or less) to practice it for free! But what you'll get from all this? ;D Are you going to become smarter, richer, leaner or more muscular? Not at all. You'll keep your previous level and maybe you'll be more stressed, more frustrated, in worse shape and poorer because instead to make use of your time to maximize your wealth, body, knowledge and all other things that makes you attractive, you'll just be her orbiter who'll rot gradually mentally and physically, just because you didn't use your time in the right way.
See, if you're already successful person (rich, attractive, healthy, educated) you can afford to waste a lot of your time being an orbiter (or, if I use an idiom from an European language -- "a bin for souls' trash".)
It's like the charity. If you're already a rich person, it's okay to be charitable! But if you're poor, you should focus on yourself not to spend your last resources (money, clothes, shoes, etc.) for the others. Be reasonable! If you're in trouble, if you become a homeless person or worse, are you sure there will be somebody for you? Usually there isn't! Or there will be some "army offer" like those in Russia where you have to fight in the aggressive war in Ukraine for money. I hope you'll never have to be one of the people with this only choice (i. e. lack of alternative)!
So, just delete all those useless, time consuming, fruitless contacts and make some better use of your time! (Of course, be polite and explain first why are you going to say "good bye", don't be rude and make your point clear politely. 8))
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It's an importance notice: I wrote it about the males' perspective but it's the same when it comes to the females. There is no female who should waste her time with useless, stressful, time consuming for nothing, etc. online "friends". There are plenty of activities that every female person can do rather than waste time with this type of online communication.
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Useful for the incels and for the femcels and for all of us...
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Nothing to add. It's exactly right. No time to waste!
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I have discord and there's setting that's automatically switched on when you make an account.
Anyone on a server you're on (besides the ignored) can message you but only your friends can do stuff like post NSFW stuff or links.
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It's not about the chat system. E-mail, communications app like discord or even a face-to-face meeting. What I am talking is reducing the time spent with people who're not useful and only waste your time, or worse, only regress you.
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I know people who are actually useless to me and offer not a single thing.
Also, feel free to email me. I just changed my email and email settings so you can send random stuff.
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Good for those who would like to. :) I'm really terribly busy right now -- have to clean up my old computer (all the useful and not that useful stuff transfer or repost here) and to sell it because it's too heavy to take it abroad. Learning a new foreign language. Doing my sports as usual and waiting to finish the selling process of my apartment... also have to sell out some old stuff like shelves, basins, buckets, etc., plus the heaviest sports tools like the dumbbells which are too heavy for moving abroad with them. And on top of that I have to finish reading some of the paper books because they're probably around 10 kilos. I'll miss some of this stuff but I just don't want to spend more money for additional luggage (the so-called overweight luggage or overweight baggage). I also prefer to travel with lighter luggage (for example not more than 20 kilos in one hand) because otherwise it makes you less mobile, more tired and so on.
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About your new e-mail! Looks good. You chose "a platform providing online services based on principles of freedom, privacy, federation and decentralization. No tracking, no ads, no profiling, no data mining!"
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Following strictly the idea (http://www.seo-forum-seo-luntan.com/a-forum-for-incels-who-are-normal-people-no-terrorists-no-rapists-no-racists-no-pedophiles-no-haters-and-so-on/that-feeling/msg49101/#msg49101). :D 8)
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Great. You deserve to ascend.😂😇
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Something related (http://www.seo-forum-seo-luntan.com/a-forum-for-incels-who-are-normal-people-no-terrorists-no-rapists-no-racists-no-pedophiles-no-haters-and-so-on/divorced-maxx-divorcedmaxx-sometimes-it-s-working/msg49124/#msg49124) to this topic.
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Exactly🤓
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Kitsune is such a good girl!
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She's back, but with a new name (nick; nickname).
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The criminal post calling for homicide via painful ways deleted!
Edit: Admin.
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It was a very criminal post that I deleted completely. Calling for causing Desi's death through painful ways that he learns from horror movies.
100% psychotic criminal. Don't hesitate to report him.