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Normal Incels (Incels Without Hate) => A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) => Topic started by: MSL on May 18, 2023, 06:16:18 PM
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Social-maxxing (Socialmaxxing) -- don't overrate it.
As you know it's good to be objective -- don't unverrate anything but also don't overrate. Here I'm going to post a bit about the social-maxx (socialmaxx). Usually the problem with it is that it's overrated. For example, the PUA techniques (even those which aren't fake or naive) are sort of this -- they just tell you go there, be social, say/do this and that and the woman will be impressed. But (about this many of the incels are right) if you're not good-looking, not rich and so on, it's not going to work. No matter how much you socialize (aka "socialmaxx"; aka "meet and spend time with people in a friendly way") if you're not good enough for them (and you know that now the standards are higher in many regions) it's not going to work. It's really pity to see all those fatcels, poorcels, uglycels, etc. who are just trying to make a girlfriend with a pure social-maxxing effort. They're like "Why?! I go meet people, I start a conversation! Isn't it enough?" Well, it really isn't. Two points:
- The social-maxx isn't that unique anymore. You see, there are sometimes more chances for you online (in some forums, online groups, social networks, etc. than offline where most of the women will never start to chat with a stranger and even worse -- you can be accused of being a "creep" or a "stalker".)
- The social-maxx (even the online one, which is more powerful) isn't enough. Well, most of the maxx-es aren't enough too but there are tons of more powerful, i. e. more effective ones like gym-maxx, money-maxx, geo-maxx, etc. which gives you chance to ascend like 10%, 20%, 25% at least but a pure social-maxx, if you're a truecel, well, I can't give it more than a 0.5% chance and it's only in a geomaxxed area (i. e. very luck related) one.
So, to tell you the truth, the social-maxxing should be the last thing that you may use. Before it, you have to maxx (i. e. improve) your body, your money (capital) and/or status, your location, your fashion style (if there is a need; in some places it's pointless), your knowledge (like some foreign language-maxx, at least), your culture (some form of art-maxx, for example, at least singing, playing piano, writing poems)...
Don't just go and talk. It's a myth and it's very overrated. (When you're not ready for this.)
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If you're not ready (like it was said: not fit enough, low incomes, bad fashion, lack of social and culture skills, etc.) just "go and meet new people" is not going to work and it will bring you a lot of rejections which are surely going to make your self-esteem low as hell!
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And a short explanation in Chinese (for the Chinese people who're not good at English or for the foreigners who're better in Chinese than in English): 意思就是如果人家觉得你不够好看，不够有钱，不够这个，不够那个（现在，看来，都是“高贵的”），没有用去见人。先要当帅的，有钱的，有这个那个，后来才去见人。
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True. Instead wasting time to approach people who're having high standards better make use of this time to improve yourself as much as you can and then... you know, at least you can have a low-tier Becky (4/10). Don't expect too much but do your best. :-*
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One of the most bluepilled I'd say but it's okay when everything else is well done. To show yourself up you have to have what to show. :)
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Some incels try to socialmaxx in gaybars.
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Yeah brocel got it right.
Socialmaxxing follows to gymmaxxing moneymaxxing facemaxxing etc., those things that can always make most of people feel insecure or anxious but to what all of them follow is 'suspecting-eradication'! And Desi is the best lesson!
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Thanks to her we all saw what crazy criminal dirty and disgusting trashy brain you got!
Hope you end up in the Chinese jails and get cancer!