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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why it seems to me many short men are also 'short' in emotional intelligence?

« on: June 14, 2023, 02:01:18 AM »

If you care about your haters, this indicates deep inside your mind, you are also hating yourself more or less because of what haters hate you for.

It depends. Some people enjoy having haters. I know one who shows his rich dinners and lunches (full of food and drinks that the ordinary people can't afford) only to make the haters jealous and to hate him more and more.
But other people are very sensitive; some even commit suicides because of online hate, which for others is "just an insignificant joke".
I think it depends who the hater is. If he's somebody you never met, from another country, probably you don't give a damn but what if it's the boss of the local mafia who you know very well and maybe he knows you too because you're living in the same district? It's "a bit" different, right and then you have to care.

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Psychology / Rejection #60

« on: June 13, 2023, 09:38:49 PM »

Rejection #60

 Another simpy ghosted one. The significant is that the girl was nearly 9.5/10 according to my taste but... that's it. Nicknamed " " (pig head emoji) ("很多时候  心里明明不是那样想的却控制不了自己而说出相反的话"):

"2019-06-07
 4:25:15 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
 8:03:13 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:45:19 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:41:06 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-10
 11:21:58 PM
美女，已经不上QQ吗？
 11:24:01 PM
加了你的微信。"

She didn't add me there (WeChat) at all. In a word, it was so fruitless and time wasting... and sort of very sad.

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Psychology / Rejection #59

« on: June 13, 2023, 09:26:14 PM »

Rejection #59

It is about someone who's a great example how personality matters too. You see, she is almost a 7.5/10 looks wise but when the personality is rejecting, difficult, hard, etc., you just can't rate her more than 3.1/10 altogether. So, I didn't try any harder to approach her online... Well she was nicknamed "L-娜" ("用自己的左手拥抱右手边的幸福，用右手抱紧左手边的爱情。"): That's why it was as short as this:

"2020-01-30
 3:47:59 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:43:42 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-08
 2:26:06 AM
已经不上QQ吗？
"
There are these situations where you know your efforts are 100% ineffective and then you just don't try any harder. This is (was) one of them.

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Psychology / Rejection #58

« on: June 13, 2023, 09:06:37 PM »

Rejection #58

It was one that every time found excuses not to meet me. At the end asked me can she come with two males (like guards maybe?) and at the end started to send stupid jokes like "Go to have fun in Antarctica." and I decided that it's really hopeless to deal with this kind of unmatured person. It was someone who I met once in a bus and she was nicknamed "巴巴鲁" ("岁月因青春慨然以赴而更加静好，世间因少年挺身向前而更加瑰丽。"):

"11:53:21 PM
Hi！
 2019-11-16
 12:09:33 AM
Hi! Who are you?
 1:46:23 PM
你好！你是谁?
 2019-11-17
 10:38:50 PM
你怎么不说话？
33 10:39:45 PM
公交车上认识的呀
 10:40:12 PM
是吗？你是那个女孩子的？
33 10:40:19 PM
嗯
 10:53:17 PM
发给我个照片看看你是哪位的？
 10:53:25 PM
我也发给你我的一张：
33 10:53:31 PM
没照片，难搞哦
 10:57:18 PM
哦。好的。没关系。
33 10:57:40 PM
 
 2019-12-05
 2:17:59 PM
Hello!
 2:18:08 PM
Good afternoon!
33 2:25:39 PM
em，you too。
 2:25:40 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
 2:35:35 PM
我去教小朋友们英语的。回家的时候再聊天。 Have a good day!
33 3:14:49 PM
嗯
33 6:16:10 PM
你要我的照片吗
33 6:16:15 PM
我刚刚拍的
33 6:16:18 PM
 
33 6:16:38 PM
你可能对我印象不深刻，因为我在公交车上，不像那三个女生跟你聊的那么多
 10:36:29 PM
谢谢！照片很好看！
 10:37:20 PM
没问题，我们慢慢聊天，慢慢认识的。   
 10:38:17 PM
你有什么爱好？我的第一个的爱好，在中学的时候是写诗。现在，有时，我也写诗。
 2019-12-06
_____________ 8:53:14 AM
我喜欢看电影呀
 2:08:47 PM
我也非常喜欢去看电影。
 2:09:51 PM
我的最爱的运动是武术。我从4岁开始了慢慢锻炼。所以现在我不是高手，可是我懂好多，好多武术的动作。我最喜欢李小龙的武术。
 2:10:25 PM
那，你有没有喜欢的运动？你做什么运动吗（比如跑步，什么的？）
_____________ 5:28:34 PM
嗯
 2019-12-07
 1:38:36 PM
运动
 1:39:09 PM
我不吸烟。吸烟不好。
 1:43:41 PM
我喜欢健康的生活，所以：运动， 不吸烟，不喝白酒。这样对身体很好。
_____________ 6:25:21 PM
跑步
 11:15:04 PM
跑步，别喝白酒，别抽烟。这样你会当健康。 
我每天学习新的信息，喜欢看电子书本，百科全书。天天学习新的科学的，外语的和其它信息。
 2019-12-08
_____________ 9:14:27 AM
 
 1:44:59 PM
我也做网站和网页。比如这个：
 2019-12-09
1:55:44 PM
所以，我觉的，我是个比较好的人。是不是？
_____________ 6:35:23 PM
哈哈，你这个网站肯定火。
 9:52:12 PM
 
 2019-12-10
 2:04:46 PM
我的父母是心理的医生。
 2:05:21 PM
如果你有其它问题的话，你可以问我。我希望我对你已经不是个陌生人。
_____________ 2:54:55 PM
我心理没有问题。
 2:56:06 PM
很好！ 所以，有空的时候要去看电影或其它地方吗？ 
_____________ 6:48:10 PM
不用了，谢谢
 10:38:50 PM
为什么你也怕我？！我人很好，为什么一直这样大家不喜欢跟我见面？！
 2019-12-11
 1:48:20 PM
我已经说了：我不吸烟，我不喝白酒，我教育好，我的父母是医生，我有高的文化，我天天看书，学习中文；我热爱中国，中国人。也在写诗，天天运动。我有好的生活。我是好的外国朋友。那，你为什么害怕？我还要改变什么？我不够好吗？
33 6:56:38 PM
不是哦，最近我在忙学业，没时间出来。
 2020-01-07
 2:25:14 PM
很快放假。 看看放假的时候你有没有时间。
33 5:11:42 PM
 
 2020-01-18
 2:25:50 PM
寒假了！         
 11:31:18 PM
对不对？
33 11:35:01 PM
是的
 11:37:25 PM
 所以，现在我看看，你会不会再说你忙。我已经很久等见面你。
33 11:39:34 PM
回老家了都
 11:39:54 PM
但是你会回来几天后。
33 11:40:09 PM
回来都开学了
 11:41:57 PM
清楚了。你就是害怕见面我。你说的这些都是借口的：上课的时候忙，放假的时候不在，回来的时候开学。100%不给我机会见面。
 11:42:01 PM
我真的不明白你为什么不喜欢我？我不吸烟，不喝白酒。我很聪明，天天看书，我有好的教育，好的文化。我爱中国。也是对大家非常有礼貌的，我不说脏话，不骂人，不大家。我人很好。你为什么不要我们见面？
 11:42:28 PM
没有问题。我以前有过了中国女友。没有了什么尴尬的，我是好的人。
 
 看到了吗？跟我一位中国女孩子不会有问题的。而且我只有请你见面，看电影或喝饮料。做简单的朋友们。为什么你那么不要我的？

2020-01-18
 11:52:44 PM
算了。
 2020-01-30
 3:39:52 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
卖老板的窝窝头. 3:58:01 PM
嗯
 4:04:40 PM
嗯呀。
 2020-02-05
 3:07:22 PM
那是“DICE”漫画的个非常非常感人的瞬间：
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 2020-02-07
 2:35:16 PM
家里好无聊 。今天要去公园。要跟我来的话，发给我信息。 
33 2:35:44 PM
疫情
 2:40:31 PM
疫情，但是我有口罩，而且我不会一直只呆在家里。 这样不健康，所以我出去做点运动，呼吸新鲜空气，买新鲜蔬菜，水果。这样。
 2020-02-14
 2:29:59 PM
情人节快乐！
 2020-03-30
 11:01:08 PM
你好吗？
 11:01:18 PM
已经出门吧？
 2020-03-31
 2:36:14 PM
我们见吧。
 2:36:21 PM
今天怎么样？
 2:39:50 PM
 2:55:46 PM
 2:56:24 PM
你好吗？已经出门吧？我们见吧。今天怎么样？
33 3:04:46 PM
我这边有两个男生也要来
 3:06:28 PM
你的保安们？
 3:06:37 PM
你怎么那么害怕我？
 3:06:43 PM
真可笑。
 3:07:18 PM
你见面你的喜欢的人，他们2个也来吗？ 
 3:08:02 PM
昨天看到了你已经有喜欢的人： 
 3:08:23 PM
所以你见他的时候，一直跟你的其它2个男生一起见？
33 3:16:24 PM
我喜欢我爸妈
33 3:16:30 PM
 
 3:18:56 PM
不是，你就是说你有喜欢的男孩的意思。关于妈妈和爸爸是另外的喜欢的种类。
33 3:19:22 PM
都是喜欢
 3:19:48 PM
所以你对我有恐怖的感觉？为什么？我的教育是高级的，我不喝酒，不吸烟。写书。天天读书，学习，锻炼。我人很好。为什么怕？
 3:23:56 PM
说直接的话，就好。我是坦白的。
 3:28:39 PM
好的。你跟你的2个或多点保安可以来见。你们要我们去哪里玩玩？
 3:32:29 PM
从1月份没有见了朋友们。所以随便你--我们见面，你如果那么害怕的话，可以叫2个或多保安跟你莱。你先说我们一起去玩玩哪里?
 3:39:54 PM
怎么了？跟保安一起也不敢吗？哎呀，哎呀。。。。。。
33 3:40:59 PM
去南极玩
 3:41:28 PM
是什么公园这个？”南极公园“还是什么？
33 3:41:49 PM
南极洲
 3:45:07 PM
我不是开玩笑。我是说真的。你到底要不要我们见面。如果那么害怕的话，来跟你的2个或多男生们。但是说我们去哪里？要不要在万绿园见？
 3:54:20 PM
这样的吧，我真的不要我们浪费时间的。如果你不要我们做朋友，见面，等，你就删掉我也可以。我不要给你压力。我希望了你是个合理的，要做朋友的女孩子，可是我觉的你又害怕，又不喜欢我的。所以我说：要见的话，来，不要的话，拜拜。
 4:23:09 PM
我不是开玩笑。我是说真的。你到底要不要我们见面。如果那么害怕的话，来跟你的2个或多男生们。但是说我们去哪里？要不要在万绿园见？

这样的吧，我真的不要我们浪费时间的。如果你不要我们做朋友，见面，等，你就删掉我也可以。我不要给你压力。我希望了你是个合理的，要做朋友的女孩子，可是我觉的你又害怕，又不喜欢我的。所以我说：要见的话，来，不要的话，拜拜。
 5:07:14 PM
自己考虑。我真的不要互相浪费时间的。
 6:00:51 PM
这个也发给你：
 6:01:06 PM
看起来你只有要网友。可是我觉的网友是无聊的。我喜欢去外面，散步，跑步，锻炼，喝饮料。我要我们一起出去这样做朋友的。不要只有看QQ上的单词。
 6:01:39 PM
所以如果你不敢的话，我没有办法的。
 6:55:25 PM
好吧。删掉。"

After I saw she is even not coming with her two guards and that she already has a male to like, I decided it's already time to delete this contact. I am really too patient, thus wasting a lot of time with these people.

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Psychology / Rejection #57

« on: June 13, 2023, 08:16:18 PM »

Rejection #57

This one is what you can call "the ultimate ghosting". She added me but she never ever sent even a single "Hi" or "yes", "no", "maybe", etc. Wow, the ultimate silence! Here, someone nicknamed "妗沅":
"2020-12-31
 2:35:26 AM
Hi!
 2:35:48 AM
Nice to see you !
 2:36:13 AM
How are you now?
 2021-01-10
 10:58:26 PM
不懂英文吧？
 10:58:31 PM
在吗？"

It was like I am talking to a wall.

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 13, 2023, 08:15:18 PM »

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why it seems to me many short men are also 'short' in emotional intelligence?

« on: June 13, 2023, 06:56:36 PM »

These 2 points worth to be repeated:

• Only if you're from a rich family you can do what you like to do; otherwise you have to go to work or struggle with the poverty;  struggle with the unemployment and you have no way just to do what you like to do.
• Being a shortcel is already fucked up situation and if you make it worse with wasting precious time with games and working for free for a website, then you're not maxxing yourself (no muscles, no better capital, no better location with shortie females, no chance for you to ascend, ohhhhhhhhhhhhh, even worse, you're minning yourself to the worst and from a 4/10 shortcel you're becoming a 1/10 short fat-ass, ill and more unhappy losercel.)

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Other topics / Re: Visible sound

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:11:02 AM »

Good one.

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Other topics / Re: Have you ever gone through hard times?

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:10:01 AM »

Even now.

118

Psychology / Rejection #56

« on: June 13, 2023, 06:32:05 AM »

Rejection #56

This is about a low-tier Becky, hitting the wall, not more than 3/10. And she had a good trait, she had own business (ads related) but it wasn't that important to me. You know that for most of the man the status and the incomes of the females aren't very important and we focus more on the looks, abilities, personality and so on. So, she just wasn't very attractive to me and I didn't try any hard to reach her. Yes, she was the first one to ghost me but I also didn't feel so sorry or something but still, because I'm not a standardcel, I did some tries:

"2020-01-31
 7:13:45 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:51:08 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-01
 3:10:04 AM
(A Happy B-day e-card.)
 2020-04-04
 4:48:22 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
  2021-08-09
11:32:23 PM
美女，还做广告吗？"
 A bit boring but... just one of the 500 rejections, you know.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why it seems to me many short men are also 'short' in emotional intelligence?

« on: June 13, 2023, 06:00:06 AM »

Thank you for the interesting thread! And also thanks for how politely you explained that you're not a heightist (in Chinese: 高度主义者). It's good the shortcels and the short guys to know that we're not against them. I'm a shortcel too (in Europe, where I am from, where almost every 80% of the other males are taller than me and maybe only 10% are the same tall as me. It's a miracle to meet a shorter one from Europe and when I do I feel so proud of myself.  Kidding...)

So, my fast 1^st guess is: you're visiting shortcels' (and short guys' generally) communities which are full of men who are not successful. If you visit some successful short guys I think you'll never have this impression.

Try that: visit tallcels communities and others who are dealing with the problem called gigantism (in Chinese: 巨人症) and there compare. I think you will found out almost the same "unmatured, apathetic, extremely depressed & depressing, etc., like they have any negative characterstic of a man that you can think of."

When you're too-something (too short or too tall) and this makes your live hard, of course, you're going to be depressed and depressing, at best -- apathetic and so on.

120

Psychology / Rejection #55

« on: June 13, 2023, 05:43:57 AM »

Rejection #55

This one was a typical "hitting the wall" 5/10 female. She has a small clothes shop. At the beginning showed some interest but later, when she found out that I'm not money haver she just ghosted me for a long time. I tried to connect with her but the ghosting was solid. And one day I decided to tell her that I am already rich. (Won the lottery or something, I don't remember. Just a social experiment to see if she is going to un-ghost me. And she did!) Later (just a short time after the un-ghosing) she said to invite her and her close female friends to have some fun in an expensive KTV (karaoke bar) in the center of the city. I decided not to and the re-ghosting came soon. And then I had some last tries but she never answered. Probably because she decided that I am not stupid enough orand not generous enough for her.

She was nicknamed "阳光百合" ("上善若水，厚德载物！！！")
"2020-01-31
7:20:00 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 7:20:13 PM
(phone call attempt)
 7:20:16 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:34:37 PM
 (a pic)
 2020-08-26
 8:34:26 AM
 (Happy b-day e-card.)
 2021-08-05
11:26:05 PM
美女，外国哥哥想你了。 "
Ghosted, un-ghosted and then re-ghosted again. She just wanted some generous and stupid enough (to follow all what she say) according to what she showed me.