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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Brutal: good compliments but no wish to date
« on: October 12, 2022, 04:42:41 AM »
Sure, there are non-stop these situations.
For example, this one:
After met once on the street and starting the chat, I am asking (the second chat): "你喜欢做什么?喜欢去什么地方?" (What do you like to do? What places do you like to visit?)
She: "
哈哈问的那么细致嘛" (Ha ha, you asked me so carefully/with precision)
I decided to explain myself and said: "就是要知道你喜欢做什么,爱什么地方。要认识你的喜欢的和不喜欢的。这样可以做更好的朋友。比如如果你不喜欢公园,我不叫你去公园。这样--慢慢认识的。" (Just because I want to know what do you like to do, what places do you like. I'd like to know what you like and what you dislike. Like this we can make better friends. For example, if you dislike parks, I won't call you to go to a park. Like this -- to know each other step by step.) I added a watermelon and a lovely face emoticons too.
She: "
见面就不用了吧" (No need to meet up.)
This disappointed me (I know some PUAs will say it's a common "shit test", i. e. A sort of test that a girl performs on a male by saying or doing something to judge the reaction or response from him. ) but I don't believe very much in this theory. If a girl really likes you (and she isn't a moron) she is not going to blow up her chance with something like this. So I decided to use a "don't waste my time and I don't waste your time" and told her:
"不用聊天,不用见面,什么也不用吗?" (No need to chat, no need to meet, everything "no need"?) and added a question mark emoticon.
"你是不是有男朋友?" (You have a boyfriend, haven't you?)
She: "你猜哈哈" (You guess ha ha)
"只是我觉得我不认识你哦……" (I just feel I don't know you eh...)
Here I decided to be as clear and logical as I can and I told her these:
"所以我慢慢试试了认识你和你认识我。我慢慢问问问题:比如你喜欢什么地方,你做什么工作,你爱什么,你不爱什么。。。。。。 这个方式不是对的吗?" (That's why step by step I tried to know you better and to let you to know me better. Step by step asked you questions: for example, what places do you like, what do you work, what do you like, what do you dislike... This method isn't right or what?) (with a question mark emoticon)
"而且我也自己介绍了--我毕业了什么,我不喝什么,不吸烟,等。我觉得了这样慢慢介绍是对的。可你不喜欢,所以我建议直接见面。"(Also, I also introduced myself -- told you what is my major, told you that I don't drink this and that, told you that I don't smoke, etc. I thought that this gradual way of introduction is right. But you dislike it, so I directly suggested you to meet up.) (with a thumb up emoticon)
"当然,如果你觉得我对你不够帅(好看)还是不够富有,我会理解。不给你压力。你自己决定。我不会浪费你的时间。我是个合理的人。" (Of course, if you think that I am not enough handsome (good-looking) or not enough rich, I will understand. No pressure. You decide. I won't waste your time. I am a reasonable person.) (with a rose emoticon and an OK emoticon)
She didn't say a word.
After around an hour I added: "慢慢考虑你要怎么样子的。" (Take your time and consider it/think about it.)
She answered: "
哈哈我暂时不考虑找哦" (Currently I don't want to consider about searching ah)
Then I asked again some questions to make for myself clear where is the reason (and if there is something that was my fault; to know what to try to improve in myself if possible):
"你是有男朋友吗?
还是就不喜欢我?
不喜欢我的话,请问--是因为你害怕外国人还是因为我的外貌不满意你的理想的男人态度?"
(Do you have a boyfriend?
Or don't you like me?
If you don't like me, may I ask -- is it because you are afraid of foreigners or because my appearance is not satisfying your ideal male attitude?)
She said: "哈哈没有啦
我们只有过一面之缘
我没那么容易喜欢上别人喔" (Ha ha No
We only met once
I don't like others so easily)
Here I told her:
"因为我不好看,所以肯定不会容易的。" (Because I am not a good-looking one, so of course it can not be easy.)
She added: "
哈哈我也没注意看啦
没有对外国人有偏见喔" (Ha ha, I don't pay attention to the looks
No prejudice against foreigners)
I didn't believe this version so I decided to be frank how pity I am and how pity I feel but, still, how reasonable and clever I am:
"我就不行。。。。。。我是个失败者。。。。。。可是我试试,因为如果不试试就生活一点都没有意思的。可是,我觉得,已经要放弃,因为没有什么用。天天读书,锻炼,吃健康的,喝健康的,洗澡,洗手--一辈子都是努力,努力,努力当个帅的男人,可是看来我的外貌,我的身体--都是差的。" (I just can't do it (I am not good for you)... I'm a loser...... But I try, because if I don't try, life is meaningless. However, I feel that I have to give up because it is useless. Day by day reading, exercising, eating healthily, drinking healthily, bathing, and washing hands -- I've worked hard all my life to become a handsome man, but it seems that my appearance and my body are insufficient.)
She: "为啥觉得自己是个失败者呢" (Why do you think you are a loser?)
I answered: "好看的帅哥们--都会有女友。富有的叔叔们--也是。我--又穷,又丑。没门的。我除了我的知识和浪漫的心--什么都没有。" (All good-looking guys have girlfriends. Rich uncles -- too. I am poor and ugly. No way. I have nothing but my knowledge and romantic heart.)
She: "努力生活就很棒呀" (Trying hard in your life is great ah!/ Living and trying hard to achive the things in your life is great!)
I: "因为没有人会见我的。" (Because there is no one who wants to have date with me.)
"缺爱的,没有人喜欢我的生活就是个垃圾的生活吧。" (Loveless life, a life where nobody likes you is just a trash life, isn't it?)
"没关系。你是美丽的,有教育的。肯定会找到男朋友。我--就是个失败者。算了。不好意思麻烦你了。" (But it's okay. You are pretty, educated. Surely you will find a boyfriend. I -- I am just a loser. Forget it. Sorry for bothering you.) (Sweating emoticon and a rose emoticon)
She: "
不要说这样自己啦
努力生活的人都是很棒的
" (Don't talk about yourself like this.
People who work hard are great.)
And I ended it with a great sentence
(I am sure many incels will like it!
)
"但是看来很棒对你不够。。。。。。大家不要很棒,大家要帅的和有钱的。"(But it seems that being great isn't enough for you... Nobody cares about "great", everybody wants handsome and rich.)
For example, this one:
After met once on the street and starting the chat, I am asking (the second chat): "你喜欢做什么?喜欢去什么地方?" (What do you like to do? What places do you like to visit?)
She: "


I decided to explain myself and said: "就是要知道你喜欢做什么,爱什么地方。要认识你的喜欢的和不喜欢的。这样可以做更好的朋友。比如如果你不喜欢公园,我不叫你去公园。这样--慢慢认识的。" (Just because I want to know what do you like to do, what places do you like. I'd like to know what you like and what you dislike. Like this we can make better friends. For example, if you dislike parks, I won't call you to go to a park. Like this -- to know each other step by step.) I added a watermelon and a lovely face emoticons too.
She: "

This disappointed me (I know some PUAs will say it's a common "shit test", i. e. A sort of test that a girl performs on a male by saying or doing something to judge the reaction or response from him. ) but I don't believe very much in this theory. If a girl really likes you (and she isn't a moron) she is not going to blow up her chance with something like this. So I decided to use a "don't waste my time and I don't waste your time" and told her:
"不用聊天,不用见面,什么也不用吗?" (No need to chat, no need to meet, everything "no need"?) and added a question mark emoticon.
"你是不是有男朋友?" (You have a boyfriend, haven't you?)
She: "你猜哈哈" (You guess ha ha)
"只是我觉得我不认识你哦……" (I just feel I don't know you eh...)
Here I decided to be as clear and logical as I can and I told her these:
"所以我慢慢试试了认识你和你认识我。我慢慢问问问题:比如你喜欢什么地方,你做什么工作,你爱什么,你不爱什么。。。。。。 这个方式不是对的吗?" (That's why step by step I tried to know you better and to let you to know me better. Step by step asked you questions: for example, what places do you like, what do you work, what do you like, what do you dislike... This method isn't right or what?) (with a question mark emoticon)
"而且我也自己介绍了--我毕业了什么,我不喝什么,不吸烟,等。我觉得了这样慢慢介绍是对的。可你不喜欢,所以我建议直接见面。"(Also, I also introduced myself -- told you what is my major, told you that I don't drink this and that, told you that I don't smoke, etc. I thought that this gradual way of introduction is right. But you dislike it, so I directly suggested you to meet up.) (with a thumb up emoticon)
"当然,如果你觉得我对你不够帅(好看)还是不够富有,我会理解。不给你压力。你自己决定。我不会浪费你的时间。我是个合理的人。" (Of course, if you think that I am not enough handsome (good-looking) or not enough rich, I will understand. No pressure. You decide. I won't waste your time. I am a reasonable person.) (with a rose emoticon and an OK emoticon)
She didn't say a word.
After around an hour I added: "慢慢考虑你要怎么样子的。" (Take your time and consider it/think about it.)
She answered: "



Then I asked again some questions to make for myself clear where is the reason (and if there is something that was my fault; to know what to try to improve in myself if possible):
"你是有男朋友吗?
还是就不喜欢我?
不喜欢我的话,请问--是因为你害怕外国人还是因为我的外貌不满意你的理想的男人态度?"
(Do you have a boyfriend?
Or don't you like me?
If you don't like me, may I ask -- is it because you are afraid of foreigners or because my appearance is not satisfying your ideal male attitude?)
She said: "哈哈没有啦
我们只有过一面之缘
我没那么容易喜欢上别人喔" (Ha ha No
We only met once
I don't like others so easily)
Here I told her:
"因为我不好看,所以肯定不会容易的。" (Because I am not a good-looking one, so of course it can not be easy.)
She added: "
哈哈我也没注意看啦
没有对外国人有偏见喔" (Ha ha, I don't pay attention to the looks
No prejudice against foreigners)
I didn't believe this version so I decided to be frank how pity I am and how pity I feel but, still, how reasonable and clever I am:
"我就不行。。。。。。我是个失败者。。。。。。可是我试试,因为如果不试试就生活一点都没有意思的。可是,我觉得,已经要放弃,因为没有什么用。天天读书,锻炼,吃健康的,喝健康的,洗澡,洗手--一辈子都是努力,努力,努力当个帅的男人,可是看来我的外貌,我的身体--都是差的。" (I just can't do it (I am not good for you)... I'm a loser...... But I try, because if I don't try, life is meaningless. However, I feel that I have to give up because it is useless. Day by day reading, exercising, eating healthily, drinking healthily, bathing, and washing hands -- I've worked hard all my life to become a handsome man, but it seems that my appearance and my body are insufficient.)
She: "为啥觉得自己是个失败者呢" (Why do you think you are a loser?)
I answered: "好看的帅哥们--都会有女友。富有的叔叔们--也是。我--又穷,又丑。没门的。我除了我的知识和浪漫的心--什么都没有。" (All good-looking guys have girlfriends. Rich uncles -- too. I am poor and ugly. No way. I have nothing but my knowledge and romantic heart.)
She: "努力生活就很棒呀" (Trying hard in your life is great ah!/ Living and trying hard to achive the things in your life is great!)
I: "因为没有人会见我的。" (Because there is no one who wants to have date with me.)
"缺爱的,没有人喜欢我的生活就是个垃圾的生活吧。" (Loveless life, a life where nobody likes you is just a trash life, isn't it?)
"没关系。你是美丽的,有教育的。肯定会找到男朋友。我--就是个失败者。算了。不好意思麻烦你了。" (But it's okay. You are pretty, educated. Surely you will find a boyfriend. I -- I am just a loser. Forget it. Sorry for bothering you.) (Sweating emoticon and a rose emoticon)
She: "
不要说这样自己啦
努力生活的人都是很棒的
" (Don't talk about yourself like this.
People who work hard are great.)
And I ended it with a great sentence


"但是看来很棒对你不够。。。。。。大家不要很棒,大家要帅的和有钱的。"(But it seems that being great isn't enough for you... Nobody cares about "great", everybody wants handsome and rich.)