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Psychology / Rejection #12

« on: September 10, 2022, 03:36:47 PM »

Rejection #12

  A very simple one and maybe boring but it counts. There was that girl interested in martial arts who I met in a forum related to this matter. Her boyfriend was a karate trainer and he was pretty good; better than me probably; a real pro. But he wasn't very educated and cultured. She said she likes my romantic poems and my science based thoughts. Maybe she also preferred my face? I am not sure. So we started to exchange warm and emotional e-mails. I wasn't against it because I thought that "it's just e-mails", I even don't touch her so it's not something like she is cheating her karate boyfriend. Also, I had that hope that someday she may officially break with that karate man and come to my city, become my girlfriend. Of course, I didn't press her to do so, I am totally for this: she to make her free and independent choice. I even was concerned about her well-being and told her several times that it's not a good idea to exchange so warm and emotional e-mails because if her karate boy-friend find out she will be in trouble. I didn't worry about me so much because I was ready to spare with him for her (if in case there was this ideal situation: "Let's fight and she is choosing the winner!"  ) Well, nothing like this happened. The worst happened - he really found out that she is in an "e-mail relationship" with me; she started to hate me, speak some rough and unpleasant words towards me in that martial arts forum (of course most of the people would think that it was just a sort of "virtue singnaling", which, according to a definition, is "The public expression of opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or social conscience or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue.") Simply, she started to fool him and the others that it was all my fault, she was too naive to believe me, she loves only him, blah-blah-blah-blah...
 Later I lost connection with her and she didn't left something that I can miss (I can't compare her with some others who also rejected me but at least they were unforgettable women) but, for sure, she was a sporty, cute and pretty girl (at that time; no idea what she become now). And that karate man tried to be bitter, attacking, competing against me in that forum and one bigger forum but I was many times more knowledgeable than him and he had to suffer a lot of emotional losses online and he was really embarrassed and many people thought he looks like a looser, not me. Later I heard he died in some traffic accident and because I never hate him (I was his enemy but he wasn't my enemy; I mean he had much stronger negative emotions towards me.) I felt like "Oh, gosh! Pity boy. First his stupid girlfriend, then all his misery online and now dead so young!" And now all I can say is "Rest in peace, man! I don't hate you."

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: If you're a janitor it's not over

« on: September 10, 2022, 04:11:40 AM »

Totally. Janitors typically earn an average wage of $15 per hour in the USA (Source: Wikipedia).

There are janitors who're respected and loved. I will share some stories.

School janitor goes viral for singing Journey's 'Don't Stop Believin'' https://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/school-janitor-goes-viral-singing-journeys-dont-stop-believin Popularitymaxx.

A man in California who started his career 30 years ago as a janitor is celebrating his first year as that same school’s new principal. https://www.ky3.com/2022/09/01/amazing-former-elementary-school-janitor-works-his-way-up-principal/ Statusmaxx and moneymaxx 

There are more but now I'm sleepy.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Another good story about how bodymaxx helped an incel (ethnicel) to ascend

« on: September 10, 2022, 03:44:04 AM »

Yeah, that dude certainly got very fit. I'm something like him now. I don't work that much (probably not more than 2 hours per day: washing, sweeping, shopping, carrying heave bags) but I do much more sports and I am getting that model-tier body; people often tell me that obviously I'm doing some sports.

Still, my body is far from perfect.  B. J. Gupta said "Hard work doesn’t guarantee success, but improves its chances." so I stick to it; I'm not sure if all this hard working (chores and sports + all those diets) is going to make me more V-shaped and looking like a bodybuilder (I want to look like Brad Pitt in "Fight Club" at least)... but I don't give up and I keep believing that hard work pays off someday.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Are you optimistic that you will ascend in future?

« on: September 03, 2022, 01:16:49 AM »

Yes. Almost. I think it depends on the geomaxx first and foremost. Of course you can't ignore the gymmaxx (plus healthmaxx; it's a part of it) and the moneymaxx, especially in the more competitive place (and just in case).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Chad's body

« on: September 01, 2022, 02:09:23 AM »

Some truisms about the Chads' bodies

The incels know that Chads have got not only attractive and masculine faces; they know that being a Chad = having a strong, muscular, huge body too.

I see a problem here. There are those "Everything is genetic lottery, bro!" incels who do believe that the Chads just have muscles "genetically". They can't understand that even the best genetically gifted Chads will become fatties if they just eat, drink and do not do any sport activity! These incels are so uninformed about the biology of the human body that they believe that a real Chad body isn't attainable without putting in some serious effort!

Even their image (concept) of "untrained Chad" is a Chad with body that is impossible without diets and fitness:

The Classic Untrained Chad VS. Gym-maxxed incel

 

 Isn't it pretty obvious that if there is a Chad with this kind of body he may be not gymmaxxed but for sure he is fitness or cross-fitness maxxed and on low-calorie diet?

At least some of the incels know that if a Chad is inactive, lazy, hence obese he's not a Chad (there is that term "Chad in disguise").

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / What is Betabux (Betabuxx)

« on: August 31, 2022, 06:53:54 PM »

Betabux

Yesterday it was mentioned in this board's visa girls topic. So I think it's a good idea to have more clarity about the terminology of it.

Betabux (aka betabuxx) is a popular term in the incelosphere.

Betabuxx

Betabux (betabuxx) is a form of cacography and contraction of "beta bucks". It means a "beta male provider".  Betabux is a male in a romantic ("romantic"?) relationship which is mostly predicated on him being an "ATM machine", "food ticket", housing and the like.

Betabuxing (betabuxxing) is a high-investment reproductive strategy using own resources to make up for the otherwise low looks, status, etc.

A betabux isn't an incel. Obviously the term is used to describe a man who manages to find a partner. Many incels believe this only happens due to that partner "hitting the wall", which refers to the time at which women start to lose SMV and decide to settle for a man who can support them (moslty financially). This is not true because there are a lot of young females who also are going after rich males (rich Chads or rich nearcels, for them doesn't matter because they want the money first).

Many incels tend to dislike men who betabuxxes, and dismiss the idea of attracting a woman later in life in this way because of the fear of being treated in this feelingless materialistic way.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Those "JBx" things

« on: August 31, 2022, 04:30:02 PM »

The skill (quality or trait) alone doesn't equate to success. You (in the majority of the cases) need more than one to succeed.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: "Being an incel is a mindset"

« on: August 31, 2022, 03:41:03 PM »

Being stupid is a problem.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Some incels to beware of: visa girls

« on: August 31, 2022, 03:03:58 PM »

It's not misogyny or something similar, just stating the facts: there are many females like the Chinese one above (and they are from all around the world). I had similar stories with some from Europe, Russia and China. I heard of similar ones from Spain... so it's a world problem. The incels and the guys without experience should know that there are many, many females who are cheaters and you never can be sure. Don't be too paranoid but keep your eyes open and don't trust easily, remain vigilant.

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Psychology / Rejection #11

« on: August 31, 2022, 02:48:43 AM »

Rejection #11

  One of my latest rejections abroad. There was that woman who assumed (without asking me where I am from) that I'm from the USA. Just because I am white and worked as an English teacher?! Well, some people just have this limited logic like "Yellow = Chinese", "Black = African" and "White = American". I can't call it 100% rejection because I even wasn't sure if there will be a day when I can (probably, theoretically) feel something towards her and then to ask her out. She was an elder 3/10 auntie.
 She wanted me to teach her swimming and I started to teach her but after 2 lessons she sticked to "her way" which was to keep her head long under the water and to use my pinkies as "swim ring" or something when she is trying to swim. I am a person who trains his fingers, including his pinkies, because I like Tiger style kungfu (虎拳 ) and still her heavy body and long holding and pulling of my pinkies gave me pain which continued for weeks.
 The situation was similar to the previous one ("Rejection #10"). In this case I am not sure if the auntie was also after visas (citizenships) but when she learned that I am not from the US she said one disappointed "Ohhhh..." and after that I saw how all her smiles, interest, friendliness and other positive traits disappeared. Well, I didn't feel very sad or something like that but it was really another ridiculous experience.

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Psychology / Rejection #10

« on: August 31, 2022, 01:59:21 AM »

Rejection #10

  One of my first rejections abroad. There was that girl (a young colleague) who was very nice and sweet to me. I was impressed how polite, warm and tender can be a female person. Well, she become a cold and avoiding me person just after that moment when she realized that I'm not from Britain but from a smaller, poorer and not that popular country. I don't know why she was thinking that I am a British. Maybe just because I am white and I speak English. Whatever. Once she got the information from me that I'm not from Britain she showed a very disappointed face, became speechless and it was clear that all her warmness, tenderness and politeness were just a product of her hope to impress well a British guy not me personally. I suppose she was a kind of a visa girl (for her the British or some similar visa and/or citizenship is more important than the holder of this citizenship).
 I couldn't call it 100% rejection because I even didn't ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend. I waited for an opportunity and I wanted it to be more warm approach (to know her better and she to know me better). Well, at the end of the day, I really started to know her better and I'm glad I didn't get involved with someone who only chases the the visas (citizenships).

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: What was your biggest mistake when you tried to ascend with a girl you like?

« on: August 30, 2022, 03:40:25 AM »

By the way this is something "blackpilled". His (MSL's) "oneitis" (after 10+ years of fruitless love) became his net-friend and even sent him some virtual love signs but at the end of the day married to a taller and richer son of a politician. Even the science Chads are losers sometimes...

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / I didn't know that there are so many incels

« on: August 30, 2022, 03:25:49 AM »

Honestly, I thought that it's only me and some more guys. I thought it's easy for everyone to have a girlfriend. When I started to read incels' boards, subreddits, forums, groups and so on, I was like "Wow, there are so many incels!"

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / What is "Chadfishing"

« on: August 29, 2022, 04:19:10 AM »

Chadfishing

In the biggest mistake when you tried to ascend I spoke about the Chadfishing. This remind me to make this thread here because it's an important about and for the incelology.

If you already know "Chad" (not the country but Chad as a symbol of one of the most handsome males) and " catfishing" you will easily understand that "Chadfishing" is portmanteau (of "Chad" and "catfishing").

It has famously been used in Tinder and other online experiments to prove that personality does not matter once you're a Chad. (Some experiments supported it others not so much and some failed.)

"To chadfish" is a verb. This verb can also be used in noun form ("a chadfish").

 

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: About my free incel e-book "500 Rejections"

« on: August 29, 2022, 04:06:33 AM »

Due to my unique experience and strong will to try again and again, once more and once more.