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Psychology / Rejection #24

« on: May 19, 2023, 04:08:47 AM »

Rejection #24

This is the next one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "Coffeemate" (老师一个字一个字地批阅……我看哭了。).

I thought she's speaking English because of this entirely English nickname. So, I started this chat in English:

"2019-07-27
11:00:41 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
11:01:12 PM
How are you, coffeemate?
Coffeemate 11:03:02 PM
？？
11:03:14 PM
不懂英语吗？
Coffeemate 11:03:28 PM
不懂
11:03:32 PM
 (a pic)
11:03:41 PM
我是个外国朋友，欧洲的。
Coffeemate 11:03:50 PM
哦
11:08:48 PM
我在海口的。你也是吗？
Coffeemate 11:32:32 PM
没有
11:33:12 PM
回来的时候可以见面。
 2019-07-28
 2:00:37 PM
(a pic)
 2:00:43 PM
现在你在哪里？
 2019-08-08
 2:54:18 PM
(a call)
2:54:23 PM
(a pic)
 "
And that was all. No answers, no chatting... 100% ghosted.

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Psychology / Rejection #23

« on: May 19, 2023, 04:01:58 AM »

Rejection #23

This is another one of many ghosted type rejections (but not 100%, see below).

So, it's about a "Dylan" (越努力 越幸运). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2020-01-31
 7:10:23 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:48:33 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-10
12:11:35 AM
已经不上QQ吗？
 2021-08-13
12:05:28 AM
我加了你的微信。
"

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and didn't answer me in WeChat too, so I had to delete this QQ contact as well. But... here comes the interesting part! Hey, it wasn't 100% ghosting! She answered in WeChat but... never met each other again in the real life and... that was just another fruitless "relationship".

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Other topics / Re: HELLO!

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:56:21 AM »

Yes... maybe someday if we make it abroad.

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Other topics / Re: HELLO!

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:46:00 AM »

Thank you for letting me learn there is something new like Mastodon (but unfortunately, "连接超时

joinmastodon.org 的服务器响应时间过长。

    此站点暂时不可用或者太忙。请稍后再试。
    如果您无法载入任何页面，请检查您计算机的网络连接。
    如果您的计算机或网络受到防火墙或者代理服务器的保护，请确认 Firefox 已被授权访问网络。") Which means that it's blocked in China or maybe only I can't access it.

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:41:25 AM »

938473928749327Dylan
979as7d9a87da97Deqwed
889080900980900D21100ff
830298310887687d76876876

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Psychology / Rejection #22

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:26:48 AM »

Rejection #22

Well, let me take a break from these online ones and to tell you about an offline one. It was in one of the first sushi restaurants in China. There was a waitress which I liked. I was a regular visitor and she knew me. I liked her because she looked quiet, gentle and polite. Also she was my type -- slim, a bit darker than others and shorter, plus she had a pretty face (I'd say at least 7/10).

So one day I invited her to meet up. And she accepted my invitation. She asked me if she may come with a female friend. I dislike it but because this was a girl I really liked I didn't want to blow up my chance with her and I agreed. Maybe it was a mistake but I was afraid I'd blown my chance if I refuse (what if she said "Then I am not coming." or "Okay, next time..." and never comes back because she is thinking that I am a dangerous type.) And then we met, I paid everything in another restaurant, we had honest talk, she and her friend (some average Becky, maybe a classmate or some ex-colleague, almost the same age) also asked some questions. I was frank -- I'm having a good salary (that time it was 5 times better than their salaries), but I haven't own house (I'm renting)... Well, I thought everything is going smoothly but... never met her again. She didn't like my answers or maybe her friend told her "Nah, he's too poor for you, you need a better one." or "He's a foreigner, he's going to leave you soon, find a local guy!"... there are many possible scenarios what happened in fact and I'll never know. But it was a sad rejection.

That's it.

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Psychology / Rejection #21

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:15:31 AM »

Rejection #21

This is another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a " 寡欲des1re＃" (所谓的狐狸精，就是让男人像狗样的女人。). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:05:14 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:46:24 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:42:24 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-07-28
1:56:23 AM
在吗？
 2021-08-04
10:18:11 PM
已经一点都不用QQ吗？"

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this QQ contact as well.

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:07:57 AM »

1139290798guayu
1139290798desire
32093-10293ewqeoip3
wqelk3280980ddddsa098d

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Psychology / Re: "500 Rejections"

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:04:26 AM »

European Union's one.

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Other topics / Re: HELLO!

« on: May 19, 2023, 03:02:23 AM »

Yes, this forum is one of the unluckiest ever. Till now there are 45985 Posts in 6987 Topics and still most of the visitors are not posting anything... Whatever, I'll continue to contribute all I can here and someday it'll be better.

And you, you have to spend these years to study, to graduate, to find a better life for you some day... you know, it's almost always like this.

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Other topics / Re: HELLO!

« on: May 19, 2023, 02:26:34 AM »

Due to personal lack of interest in posting in threads and whatnot I will not be as active anymore on any of the sites I'm on.

Thank you for understanding

Sincerely yours
Kitsune

But why? We're going to miss you a lot!

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Psychology / Re: "500 Rejections"

« on: May 19, 2023, 02:22:26 AM »

It's just because I live in China for many years and 99.99% of the females I tried to connect with are from China (or Chinese living abroad). I am from Europe myself.

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Psychology / Rejection #20

« on: May 19, 2023, 01:35:05 AM »

Rejection #20

This is the fourth one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "杏子电脑" (No slogan). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:

"2020-01-31
7:09:18 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:52:57 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
5:01:59 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
"
The last message from me was a virtual "happy birthday card" (sent on 2020-04-13 at 8:41:20 AM
...) but nothing... and I deleted this QQ contact too.

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-------FREE ADS------- / Re: Lalicat Antidetect Browser Prevents Accounts From Association.

« on: May 19, 2023, 01:31:54 AM »

I bet: a bot.

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-------FREE ADS------- / Re: What ad can you see now?

« on: May 19, 2023, 01:31:28 AM »

It's a chess related ad because I'm playing chess regularly:

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