Rejection #89
The one of a few that I couldn't call a 100% rejection because, in fact, I rejected her more or less in some moments. Well, at first we had to stop the communication because she wanted me to be in her place not she to be in my place (climate differences like I like sea and warm she likes mountains and cold)... later because I felt that her ex-boyfriends and lovers were too many (that period I was young and afraid or just felt sick if a woman had many previous "activities")... but she was with a great personality and a helpful, polite person, with good heart (looks, just a low-tier Becky, around 4/10 at her best photos) so I was in touch with her again, and again... The last time the contradicion was that I wanted to stay in China forever and till the very end I hoped China is the best... later realized that I wasn't right and I should leave it like many other Chinese citizens and foreigners did already. Here is the chat from the period when she already went to get married in the USA and became her living there (and I still was hoping and believing that China isn't a tyrant person kingdom but a great real socialistic republic.) The problem is that she never ghosted me and at the end seems she did but... maybe she just die from COVID or from some crime or something else over there? I hope she didn't but in case she did, I send her my last "Rest in peace" words because I do respect her as a person a lot (not because I want to sound like a black humorist or a bad guy):
She was nicknamed "寒" (""):
"2019-07-22
12:18:39 AM
You're living in the US now?
1:51:37 PM
还是只有随便写了？
2019-07-28
10:21:47 PM
我结婚了，现在居住美国
10:41:50 PM
Congratulations! At last you found a man after so many not good ones.
10:42:00 PM
你幸福了没有？
10:53:05 PM
美国的社会是不是不太安全的？
2019-07-30
12:21:40 AM
你原来非常喜欢了西方，西方人，等。可是我一直对你说了要小心，因为他们没有中国社会的那么安全。
寒 3:33:40 AM
谢谢！ 不是我喜欢，是没有办法才过来。因为他不喜欢在中国生活
寒 3:36:06 AM
他和他家人以及他的朋友们对我都很好，我在这里也很好
2:56:22 PM
就是，没有很多我这样喜爱中国的外国人。我已经15年了这边，一直这边。最后的11年多都在热带的天堂海南岛。
2:56:42 PM
好。你们在哪里？
2019-07-31
2:17:41 AM
而且，关于生孩子要特别小心。不要着急，因为未来的问题会越来越多。(!)
3:22:23 PM
(pic)
很有用的。不要当胖子。美国佬，大多数，胖子们。你的爱人胖吗？
2019-08-07
11:54:12 PM
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2019-08-08
2:39:40 PM
在美国天天开枪。恐怖的。小心一点。我原来知道了它是个乱的国家，所以从不说了我不会去在这样的地方了。我喜欢中国的安全和和谐。
2019-08-09
3:59:20 PM
2019-08-15
12:28:47 AM
我怎么觉的你不太幸福了？
2019-08-22
4:12:40 PM
别担心，你会找到更 (pic)
2019-09-11
4:16:30 PM
9/11. Remember...
2019-09-13
7:36:31 PM
中秋节快乐！
2019-10-01
3:22:37 PM
国庆节快乐！双击查看原图
2019-11-05
8:40:10 PM
美女，在吗？
8:40:13 PM
我已经好久在中国，所以我没有什么不懂的，可是要问你个问题：以前几个中国朋友们（男性和女性）对我说了“我喜欢你”（I like you），因为我们就是普通的好朋友们.今天我对一个海南的朋友说了“我喜欢你”，可是她认为了是我爱她的意思或我要爱她的意思。然后她说在中国不会对普通的朋友说“我喜欢你。”，可是我还不相信她，因为以前就是对我几个100%中国人说了这样。你也是中国人，你告诉我你觉的“我喜欢你”是太过份了或就是个正常的，普通的句子？
2019-11-11
2:41:51 PM
你怎么已经一点都不回复我啊？
2019-11-15
2:15:59 PM
是不是已经发现了在西方的生活没有你想的那么理想的？我告诉过你了，可是你不听了我的话。
2019-11-24
寒 7:23:56 AM
没有，我很少上QQ, 现在都是微信联系的
寒 7:25:15 AM
朋友之间是一般不会说“我喜欢你”， 一般只会赞扬朋友的好，或者你可以说“我挺喜欢你这个朋友”
寒 7:27:28 AM
我10月1日开始上班的，平时也不会看QQ。 所以我没有回答你并不是你说的那些，我只是没有打开QQ而已。
2019-11-25
2:53:51 AM
(Okay emoji)
2020-01-30
3:25:09 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！双击查看原图双击查看原图
2020-02-14
2:50:51 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！) 双击查看原图
2020-03-27
1:53:31 AM
COVID-19 hits the USA worse than China. Seems the US can't take good measures as China did... so, keep safe and strong over there!双击查看原图
2020-03-29
4:11:46 PM
我早点说了美国没有那么好。
2020-04-03
2:05:48 PM
看，中国那么快已经好了，美国越来越多问题了。美国就是有假的理想。并不是个理想的国家。
2020-04-04
4:47:28 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
2020-06-10
8:05:31 AM
(Happy birthday e-card.)
2020-06-12
12:47:49 AM
美国越来越差。我说了，那边不行。
2020-08-24
寒 9:43:24 AM
是不行，没办法。但是他和他家人朋友都对我很好
2020-08-28
5:33:12 PM
他们个人（具体人）会有好的。但是社会，政治，安全，都是差的。很容易乱，很容易开枪，等。可能现在你明白：好多中国人有理想的想象关于美国。美国的现实不是理想的。
2020-08-31
11:11:55 PM
你现在有资本吗？要不要做什么商业的？比如外国菜饭店，外语培训学校，商店。。。。。。？
2020-11-17
2:52:11 AM
看来又可怜，又穷吧？
2:54:32 AM
美国真的是个差的国家。。。。。。 疯狂的政治，COVID，等等。我10年多以前跟你说了不要那么喜欢西方的，你不相信了我；那，现在你才知道。这边，在中国，也不是完美的，可是比美国好一点。
2021-01-15
12:30:07 AM
(Screenshot of my chess victory)
(thumb up emoji)
2021-01-16
12:52:15 AM
(My gym pic.)
2021-07-18
1:08:42 AM
How is it going? Are you still alive?
2021-07-26
11:55:21 PM
Oh, pity girl. The West killed you, maybe?
( Rest in peace, sweet soul! (hug with mask emoji; anti-COVID emoji)
2021-08-11
2:16:00 PM
REST IN PEACE! 删掉了。"
Well, I was really wrong. Yes, the USA is not a safe place and they're full of problems but still a better choice than the present tyranic kingdom like Chinese state. I'm adding this not 100% rejction because it's good for your study and experience (how sometimes the most big hopes may turn to be wrong) and to keep the memory of this good Chinese person.
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