Well, she was a fitness maniac working in a bra shop and I started to communicate with her. But she wasn't interested in my intellectual traits. All she need was the physical traits, so soon she pointed to my (that time) chubby body and later I saw her dating a white man, later on a black man... One of them was sort of lanky, the other one was a bit muscular, i . e. she wasn't 100% into bodybuilder type and she obviously was a fan of the foreigners but she just couldn't accept a fat (or a chubby) male. I tried to explain to her that the body is, well, important but the intellect, the knowledge, the soul (art, poetry, etc.) matter too but she was too primitive for this, all she posted online was her body (like her legs or her gym training) and she got even sort of angry for telling her that only caring about the body doesn't make a person his/her best. At one moment she stopped to answer my messages (when I asked her to give me a chance after he, anyway, dated many other males, including foreigners) and these were my last (ghosted; one-sided) sentences (to her QQ account with a nickname Leona and a slogan "新动力"; "。。"):
(thumb up + Okay emoticons)
(phone call try)
我跟伙伴开始了个培训学校了。 (a photo) 天天发给广告。
现在天天努力上班，天天努力锻炼： (a photo)。"
Well, as you see my money-maxx and gym-maxx tries were fruitless. She just blocked me. I hoped when I become a well gymmaxxed and some sort of moneymaxxed she will give me at least a minor chance but it never happened. She was a very sexy, dark girl, totally my type and I still miss her body but there is just no way. Well at least she was one (of three) honest ones who pointed my problem with the weight and made me realize that I am too bluepilled (thinking that the education, personality and other spiritual, mental things may compensate the obese body) and then I started my way to the self-improvement.