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Psychology / Rejection #55

« on: June 13, 2023, 05:43:57 AM »

Rejection #55

This one was a typical "hitting the wall" 5/10 female. She has a small clothes shop. At the beginning showed some interest but later, when she found out that I'm not money haver she just ghosted me for a long time. I tried to connect with her but the ghosting was solid. And one day I decided to tell her that I am already rich. (Won the lottery or something, I don't remember. Just a social experiment to see if she is going to un-ghost me. And she did!) Later (just a short time after the un-ghosing) she said to invite her and her close female friends to have some fun in an expensive KTV (karaoke bar) in the center of the city. I decided not to and the re-ghosting came soon. And then I had some last tries but she never answered. Probably because she decided that I am not stupid enough orand not generous enough for her.

She was nicknamed "阳光百合" ("上善若水，厚德载物！！！")
"2020-01-31
7:20:00 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 7:20:13 PM
(phone call attempt)
 7:20:16 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:34:37 PM
 (a pic)
 2020-08-26
 8:34:26 AM
 (Happy b-day e-card.)
 2021-08-05
11:26:05 PM
美女，外国哥哥想你了。 "
Ghosted, un-ghosted and then re-ghosted again. She just wanted some generous and stupid enough (to follow all what she say) according to what she showed me.

167

Psychology / Rejection #54

« on: June 13, 2023, 05:09:14 AM »

Rejection #54

This one is noticeable for saying only one sentence after being ghosted. And then, re-ghosted again (after saw my face). Take a look:

"2019-06-07
4:24:50 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
 8:02:42 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:51:03 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:46:46 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-01
 3:10:04 AM
(a Happy birthday e-card)
 2020-05-24
 3:27:28 PM
(a call attempt)
 3:27:40 PM
你怎么不说话？！
1847072100 3:28:00 PM
哪位
 3:28:41 PM
那个外国的朋友。看我已经发给了你那么多信息：
(screenshots of the messages)
 3:29:12 PM
让我们聊天吧。已经好久认识的。我要发展我们的联系。
1847072100 3:29:30 PM
(missed call)
 3:30:01 PM
 这个我不知道。
 3:30:07 PM
我在海口。你呢？
 3:30:59 PM
你会英语吗？
 3:31:21 PM
I'd like to say that we may meet in Haikou, in case you're here as well.
 3:31:28 PM
Where are you now?
 3:32:18 PM
在吗？
 3:33:02 PM
是不是你不相信我是外国的？
 3:33:11 PM
来，看看我就知道。
 3:33:52 PM
(video call; cam-to-cam)
 3:34:05 PM
看过了吗？
 3:34:38 PM
怎么了？
 3:34:44 PM
还不要说话？
 3:35:19 PM
好的吧。看起来跟你聊天是只有浪费时间的。删掉。"
 Well, I'm just not handsome enough for her, obviously... Incelish life.

168

Psychology / Rejection #53

« on: June 13, 2023, 01:59:12 AM »

Rejection #53

There was one that added me after I gave her my business card. Then she made it clear that she has a boy-friend soon. Okay. So maybe she added me to study a foreign language (I'm teaching part-time classes) but no, after I asked her if it's not about being her boy-friend is it about being her teacher she just ghosted me. Bad luck? Again? As I said, good luck is something that doesn't exist in my life. Her nickname is "莹丸子":

"9:23:23 PM
植物研究社
 9:24:23 PM
你好！ 我是个外国哥哥。住在海口，教外语的。专业是“哲学”的。我是欧洲人。
酱哒莹丸子 9:32:47 PM
嗯嗯
 9:33:39 PM
认识你很高兴！你是个可爱的美女！ 
酱哒莹丸子 9:36:14 PM
谢谢
 9:36:40 PM
 不客气！
 9:37:14 PM
我天天上网，因为除了外语和哲学，我也在做网站。希望我们可以经常聊天。
酱哒莹丸子 9:39:21 PM
我有男朋友了
 9:40:07 PM
好的。恭喜你！我没有女朋友了。
酱哒莹丸子 9:42:37 PM
祝你好运
 9:44:21 PM
谢谢 ，可是在我的生活没有这个机会的。 好运对我是不存在的东西。
 10:05:55 PM
你要学习英语吗？
 2019-08-15
 12:30:40 AM
 (pic)
 12:32:17 AM
你加了我的QQ，所以我要知道是不是你要学习英语？
 2019-08-16
 1:39:07 PM
你好吗？"
 Maybe she was this type of person who also don't know why is doing something. Like in this case: why, in fact, she added me, if she doesn't want a teacher? Just to tell me that she has got a boyfriend?!...

169

Psychology / Rejection #52

« on: June 13, 2023, 01:45:57 AM »

Rejection #52

Oh, my God. Another short one. A 9/10 Stacy-tier woman who I met for the first time. I wanted to have a good conversation with her because she is new in our community and I said "Good evening!" to her but she was so busy with her cellphone that even didn't check who I am, what kind of looks do I got, etc. 0 attention...

170

Psychology / Rejection #51

« on: June 12, 2023, 05:10:27 AM »

Rejection #51

As I said there was also another case from a massage center (a smaller one). There were just two people -- an aunt and her younger assistant. The assistant was single and the aunt started to help us to know each other more. After the massage we went home together and we had a long conversation about our values, interests and, of course, about my incomes. And the girl made a conclusion that I'm not good for being a boyfriend but I'm very good for being a husband. I can't tell why she got it in this way; maybe because I'm not very wild, not very open and so on (what she imagines about "a real boyfriend" wasn't what I demonstrated as serious and rational point of view). For example, I said I like to save money. It was to her like "Oh, a boyfriend shouldn't save his money, he must treat his girlfriend like a princess but a husband should save money for the family."

Whatever. She wasn't very bright anyway and she was a bit tomboy style (just around 25%) and her looks were around 5/10 so I didn't miss her that much but I remember that I was rejected because I'm not a good boyfriend material for her and she is not searching for a husband yet.

171

Psychology / Rejection #50

« on: June 12, 2023, 04:51:08 AM »

Rejection #50

This one is also a ghosted type one. And it was done by one of the very attractive Stacy-tier female nicknamed "wu(flower)wen". Honestly speaking I forgot where I met her for the first time but I think this is the one from a massage center because she said she's free only on Mondays. So, I bet 90% this is the one of two (there is another story which I'll share later). She said we may date when there is free time but later didn't connect with me, after long time just didn't answer where is she currently and... ghosted, as usual:

"2018-09-13
放开我北鼻 19:52:50
我是放开我北鼻 🍉
 19:53:12
你好！
 19:55:13
我是个外国朋友。
放开我北鼻 19:55:59
二＇，
 19:56:38
吃饭了吗？
 20:29:07
认识你很高兴！你是个可爱的，美丽的女孩子！ 
放开我北鼻 20:45:35
嗯
 20:45:35
您好，我现在有事不在，一会再和您联系。
放开我北鼻 20:45:41
在上班
 20:48:37
是吗？不好意思。你忙吧。下次我们聊天吧。 
放开我北鼻 20:49:00
好奇
放开我北鼻 20:49:14
为啥要认识我
 20:49:54
说直接：因为我觉的你是个美丽的和可爱的女孩子。喜欢你。 
 20:50:06
你是做什么工作的？
放开我北鼻 20:51:00
在二楼上班
 20:52:00
那边有超市吧？
放开我北鼻 20:53:09
对   
放开我北鼻 20:53:31
肯德基楼上。
 20:53:45
 好。你忙吧。
2018-09-22
 12:44:18 PM
你好！
 12:44:31 PM
是你的孩子吗？
 12:44:55 PM
 (a photo of a kid)
放开我北鼻 12:45:06 PM
我妹
放开我北鼻 12:45:09 PM
哈哈哈
 12:45:11 PM
你们好可爱！
放开我北鼻 12:45:17 PM
谢谢
 12:45:31 PM
客气了。
放开我北鼻 12:45:40 PM
 (handshake)
 12:46:23 PM
 (handshake)
 12:46:25 PM
你每个周末休息吗？还是不一定？
放开我北鼻 12:46:35 PM
星期一
 12:47:15 PM
哦。所以你们只有每周一天有空.
 12:48:46 PM
你的工作比较忙。
 2018-09-26
 1:32:52 PM
你好！ 在上班吗？
放开我北鼻 1:33:35 PM
在肯德基。
 1:34:09 PM
休息？ 好。
放开我北鼻 1:34:24 PM
吃饭
 1:34:30 PM
你住哪里？我在红城湖路这边。
 1:34:46 PM
好的。 
放开我北鼻 1:34:50 PM
嗯
 2:15:04 PM
你也住这边附近吗？我在红城湖路这边。
放开我北鼻 2:18:02 PM
嗯
 2:18:56 PM
你有男朋友吗？
放开我北鼻 2:19:09 PM
干嘛？
 2:19:40 PM
要请你一起去看电影或者一起去沙滩。
2:21:46 PM
所以先问你，你没有男朋友，因为如果你有的话，他不会让你跟我一起去玩。这样。实话。
放开我北鼻 2:22:04 PM
。。。。
 2:22:31 PM
4个可爱的点？ 不懂你的意思。
 2:22:59 PM
是不是我的中文不清楚的？还是你就不要跟我出去玩的意思？
 2:26:29 PM
  (a question mark emoji and a pic)
放开我北鼻 2:26:36 PM
没事
放开我北鼻 2:26:44 PM
有空再约
 2:26:58 PM
好的。
 2018-10-27
 3:43:25 AM
今晚是我的生日！在看看好久没有聊天了。你好吗？
放开我北鼻 9:58:51 AM
好
 2:59:18 PM
  (okay emoji) (smile emoji)
我还在海口。你呢？
放开我北鼻 9:12:19 PM
不在海口在哪？
 2018-10-28
 7:40:41 PM
你在哪里？"
 And then... ghosted as usual. Sad, sad, sad... Well, maybe it was for good because people who work in these centers sometimes are not only providing massages but also other services (those ones that escortcels use, you know...)

172

Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 12, 2023, 04:39:06 AM »

1821537771wuwen
18215373433wions
2983209948dsaoie
12998098ksoduoow

173

Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 12, 2023, 04:31:57 AM »

zuoshou18011208
youdsa923498020
zuirpd320980981
j29800000000002

174

其它信息 / Re: 随便

« on: June 12, 2023, 04:29:44 AM »

无量心 生福报 无极限   

175

A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / A funny cope (hope)

« on: June 12, 2023, 04:25:50 AM »

There are many copes when you're an incel and sometimes there are also hopes. Well, let me tell you about a funny one.

There was an interesting Chinese man (from Beijing) who travelled to the another city where I lived and we met each other in a chat group. Later he said he's having a good idea about me how to find a gf. And the funny part was that I believed and hoped that it will be something great.

Later he said this:

think about what you can attract girls? 1. handsome or muscles  2. your money 3.  your ability or charm

 

Here is the whole chat, if you're interested in:

"11:36:51 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 11:38:01 PM
I just got back to my hotel
 11:38:39 PM
I ate sea food with a girl just now
 11:41:09 PM
I was going to invite you,but I can't contact you
 11:59:01 PM
Yes, I was busy teaching all day.
 11:59:21 PM
So, it's good to know you had a meeting with a girl.
 2019-08-13
 12:02:13 AM
It's time to sleep, see you tomorrow
 12:03:51 AM
我是夜猫。晚安。 
 1:15:18 PM
你说了你有什么idea关于找到女人？
 4:41:18 PM
think about what you can attract girls? 1. handsome or muscles  2. your money 3.  your ability or charm
 9:29:11 PM
It's a common knowledge. I know it. 
 10:15:22 PM
Btw, you're a gay (homosexual) man or not?
 2019-08-14
 7:53:50 PM
 (question mark emoji)
 10:10:29 PM
你是同性恋吧？
 2019-08-15
 6:38:04 PM
of course not
 6:39:54 PM
you can hire a girl as a assisstant when you teach
 6:42:48 PM
Now I have left Haiko, I am in Beijing now.
 2019-08-17
 1:07:03 AM
I just wondered, because you wanted to watch my photo very much. I'm glad that you're normal. 
 1:07:22 AM
I hope you're okay in Beijing. You're a businessman?
 2019-09-13
 8:11:16 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
 7:14:01 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:51:16 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-01
 3:27:37 PM
中国采取了非常强有力的措施，我相信不会持续太长时间，平时出去做好防护就好
 3:32:30 PM
我也这样想的。
 2020-02-14
 2:35:49 PM
 (a picture)
 2021-08-15
 3:44:41 AM
好久不见了。我还在海口。你还好吗？"

Maybe he just wanted to find a good-looking wingman and he really wasn't a gay. But I had to ask because I'm a straight person and I don't want misunderstandings. Well, it's another topic. The one was about the funny cope. Now you know: muscles, handsomeness, money, ability and charm. Just do it, brocels!

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 12, 2023, 03:36:11 AM »

chenkailaoshi178746969
chendiusaoid2983120
cjishsak231987
xiwqeu320394

177

Other topics / 陈凯老师

« on: June 12, 2023, 03:33:08 AM »

With 陈凯老师. One who was claiming that he lost weight only via tai-chi (太极):

2020-01-31
 7:09:58 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:33:51 PM
 (a pic)
 2021-08-10
12:10:57 AM
已经不上QQ吗？

All I know he is from 河南.

178

Psychology / Rejection #49

« on: June 12, 2023, 02:52:13 AM »

Rejection #49

And the next one of this long rejections' list is the ghosted type... Long time no any communication, fruitless tries from my side... It was with one nicknamed "浅笑心柔" (""):

"2020-01-31
 7:17:38 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:52:13 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
 5:01:08 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
 2022-07-15
 12:58:45 AM
宝贝，你已经不用QQ吗？
 2023-01-11
 12:10:53 AM
还在广西吗？
 2023-01-21
 4:53:10 PM
 (nice photo)
 4:53:16 PM
越来越好看。
 4:53:24 PM
 (sexy photo)
 4:57:30 PM
喜欢吗？
 5:01:56 PM
要多一点吗？
 5:04:04 PM
 (more sexy photo)
 2023-01-27
 7:30:10 PM
怎么样？
 2023-01-29
 5:27:35 PM
不喜欢吗？"

And then I decided that I am more than ghosted and deleted this contact. So fruitless...

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 12, 2023, 02:46:15 AM »

1765481848qianxiaoxinrou
2371297987qusoiudsjdlkjlo
1298321098dsakjdalrpppp
2748329879dncxnbvfeeuio

180

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