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Other topics / Re: Yay

« on: June 08, 2023, 04:19:58 AM »

new followers everyday

first of all, congratulations. 

But also here comes a good question: why they follow you? Based on your looks like in some social media or your videos like on YouTube, your skills and hobbies, something?

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Psychology / Rejection #37

« on: June 04, 2023, 06:47:41 PM »

Rejection #37

Well, this is also just that one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections as you know).

So, it's about a "唯⒈的执著" ("你不知道，我开通流量，整天上线，只为等你，和你说上那么一句话。"). For a long time she didn't send any message. It was sort of pity because she seemed she's a sensitive, sensible person with poetic soul and good looking... I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:10:30 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24

 7:13:06 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:52:59 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:45:49 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-15
3:23:15 AM
已经不用QQ吗？
 3:23:51 AM
微信呢？
 2022-11-20
 12:16:15 AM
聊天吧。
 2022-11-21
3:33:12 AM
你很美，知道吗？
 5:21:47 PM
要我的照片吗？
 2023-01-19
 7:30:45 PM
 喜欢吗？
(a sexy photo)
 2023-01-27
 10:46:18 PM
这个呢：(a more sexy one) ？
 2023-02-15
 1:27:46 AM
   /Happy Valentine's pictures/
 2023-03-25
 4:20:25 PM
/rose emoji/
 2023-04-09
 11:04:26 PM
                                                 HELLO！                           
 2023-04-17
 5:15:41 AM
在吗？"

Well... As usual in such cases -- years of fruitless "communication". I was 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact as well.

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 04, 2023, 06:09:59 PM »

weiyidezhizhizuo1346295880
wuireoiudsaoioio1432764288
quoiuoidasduoio3811797987
oicvwudaiouoizuo1459329874

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其它信息 / Re: 随便

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:59:20 PM »

It's a well written one: "爱情再坚固，也无法承受忙碌的侵蚀，你忙得天荒地乱，你忙得忘记关心，你忙得身心疲惫，你忙得无所适从，但是，爱情不能等你有空才珍惜。" (Translation: "No matter how strong love is, it cannot withstand the erosion of busyness. You are so busy that you forget to care, you are so busy that you are physically and mentally exhausted, and you are so busy that you are at a loss. However, love cannot be cherished until you have time.")

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-------FREE ADS------- / Re: What ad can you see now?

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:59:17 AM »

Schools...

Apply for Australian schools
AEAS supports international students applying to Australian and
English-medium schools

I am not a student anymore.

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A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why do my eyes have obvious dark circles?

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:57:56 AM »

A friend of mine said the reason was that the light condition was not good.

It is... maybe so. Then? Did you have the same problem later?

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-------FREE ADS------- / Re: What ad can you see now?

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:56:33 AM »

A very pretty one (a perfect garden on a photo next to the ad):

Contact Us Today
Our Elegant Outdoor Furniture Creates a Leisure Balcony or
Courtyard in Your Home.

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Internet / 🐅

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:47:20 AM »

🐅

Some of us used it as a part of their nicknames in some certain periods. See it 🐅. Oh, not big enough, then bigger as I follow the tradition here  🐅. It's a cool tiger!

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其它信息 / I like it

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:35:07 AM »

I like it

Hi, there! Do you want to be my friend? (In Chinese: 你好啊！你想成为我的朋友吗？)

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:31:54 AM »

1335126145peipei
3290832109boiboi
312980900heihei
523487987noinoi

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Psychology / Rejection #36

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:17:27 AM »

Rejection #36

And this is also just another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections as you know).

So, it's about a "培培" ("今天你俩开心了"). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2020-01-31
 7:17:23 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:52:06 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
 5:06:03 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
 2022-07-15
 1:10:03 AM
你已经不用QQ吗？
 2023-01-20
 1:01:17 AM
 (sexy photo)
喜欢吗？
 2023-01-27
 5:39:24 PM
 (more sexy photo)
 5:39:32 PM
怎么样？
 2023-04-17
 4:00:29 AM
喜欢吗？
 2023-05-03
 4:51:00 AM
(rose emoji)
 "

Well... Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact as well.

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Psychology / Rejection #35

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:07:18 AM »

Rejection #35

This is just another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections as you know).

So, it's about a "蔷薇花" ("。。。"). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:15:10 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
10:36:19 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-31
 7:06:50 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:33:35 PM
 (picture)
 2021-01-16
8:42:36 AM
(Happy b-day e-card)
 2021-02-05
5:27:40 PM
你好！
5:27:48 PM
好久不聊天了。
5:28:05 PM
 (my gym photo) 我在做运动。
 2021-02-07
4:27:47 PM
现在你在海口吗？
 2021-04-06
8:55:26 PM
现在你在海口吗？
 2021-07-29
 3:15:15 AM
怎么不说话？！ 
 3:26:26 PM
在海口吗？
 2021-08-08
 11:42:27 PM
这个要知道的：
 (important news)
 2021-08-15
 3:30:58 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
 2021-10-01
  1:38:52 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
  1:38:55 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
  1:39:05 AM
(a call try)
 2021-12-20
1:09:03 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
 2022-01-13
 8:16:19 PM
生日快乐，亲爱的宝贝！
 2022-05-23
 6:38:08 PM
外国哥哥想你了。  <3
 2022-07-12
 5:30:26 PM
我的新的2张照片： 

(gym photos)
 2022-07-15
 12:04:32 AM
怎么啦？
 2022-10-09
 2:32:34 AM
 (rose emoji)
 2022-11-15
 12:58:32 AM
在吗？
 2023-01-29
 3:23:17 AM
 (Happy Chinese New Year e-greeting)
 2023-02-10
 9:20:19 PM
想你。
 9:20:41 PM
可以发给我一个信息吗？
 2023-02-15
 1:26:34 AM
  (Valentine's Day pics and greetings)
 2023-04-02
3:11:27 PM
怎么不说话？
 2023-04-05
 3:12:59 AM
要看看我的新的照片吗？
 2023-04-09
11:03:41 PM
                                                 HELLO！                           
 2023-04-17
 6:16:17 AM
宝贝，在吗？
 2023-05-04
 6:18:57 PM
那这个我的喜欢吗?
 (sexy photo)
 2023-05-05
2:25:54 AM
喜欢吗？
 2023-05-10
小兔 9:16:52 PM
今晚要不要做个热情的聊天？(hug) 
今晚要不要做个热情的聊天？ (hug) "

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact too.

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 04, 2023, 05:00:45 AM »

1324677921qiangweihua
9842309842quairhiaoipa
9832209809skjalskdjlalllls
3498023948daskjalskdjasw

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Psychology / Rejection #34

« on: June 04, 2023, 04:34:41 AM »

Rejection #34

When it came to the sports, getting gymmaxxed and so on, I remember another sporty girl which was a pro. I didn't get what sport is she practicing but her body was the best female body I ever saw! Like a perfect statue of a goddess. Not joking. And I started a conversation about the calories, energy, products and stuff (I met her in a local Corner's Deli shop in Haikou city). She answered many questions and I learned from her for the first time about the BMI (body mass index), the percentage of fat. She told me she has more fat in her body than she needs and needs to lose weight. I told her that her body is amazing and no need to lose any weight! She answered me that for a normal woman she is okay but for a pro sportswoman she isn't, she needs to work out more; her trainer told her so. Wow...
 She was with a very pretty face too. This combination -- the perfect female body ever + a pretty face made me to wish to be her friend (at least) and I gave her my contacts but she never added me. Maybe I didn't impress her enough with my body that time because I was at the middle of my gym-maxx progress. Sad. I wish she could be at least a net-friend, you know...

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Psychology / Rejection #33

« on: June 04, 2023, 02:11:06 AM »

Rejection #33

Well, she was a fitness maniac working in a bra shop and I started to communicate with her. But she wasn't interested in my intellectual traits. All she need was the physical traits, so soon she pointed to my (that time) chubby body and later I saw her dating a white man, later on a black man... One of them was sort of lanky, the other one was a bit muscular, i . e. she wasn't 100% into bodybuilder type and she obviously was a fan of the foreigners but she just couldn't accept a fat (or a chubby) male. I tried to explain to her that the body is, well, important but the intellect, the knowledge, the soul (art, poetry, etc.) matter too but she was too primitive for this, all she posted online was her body (like her legs or her gym training) and she got even sort of angry for telling her that only caring about the body doesn't make a person his/her best. At one moment she stopped to answer my messages (when I asked her to give me a chance after he, anyway, dated many other males, including foreigners) and these were my last (ghosted; one-sided) sentences (to her QQ account with a nickname Leona and a slogan "新动力"; "。。"):

"2019-02-25
10:35:18 PM
(Birthday e-card)
 2019-02-26
8:39:28 PM
  (thumb up + Okay emoticons)
 2019-04-09
12:27:41 PM
(phone call try)
12:28:21 PM
我跟伙伴开始了个培训学校了。 (a photo) 天天发给广告。
12:28:31 PM
已经找到了2个学生们。
 2019-04-14
11:20:39 PM
现在天天努力上班，天天努力锻炼： (a photo)。"

Well, as you see my money-maxx and gym-maxx tries were fruitless. She just blocked me. I hoped when I become a well gymmaxxed and some sort of moneymaxxed she will give me at least a minor chance but it never happened. She was a very sexy, dark girl, totally my type and I still miss her body but there is just no way. Well at least she was one (of three) honest ones who pointed my problem with the weight and made me realize that I am too bluepilled (thinking that the education, personality and other spiritual, mental things may compensate the obese body) and then I started my way to the self-improvement.