You are very right! I already deleted her once but now she re-added me. And I had to delete her again. Here come the detailed story:
Another one, more frustrating, was that she just re-add me for helping her for free with some English homework. But I have no time to speak about it now. Next time maybe.
If someone is using you then it's just a lost cause.
Leave her before it gets worse.
Someone is adding me late at night. Around 2:08 A.M. I had no idea who is he/she. And I do accept the invitation (or whatever they call it).
She: 你好 (Hello) and after I answered with another "hello" she made it clear with
2:09:19 AM 你怎么还没睡 (Why are you still not sleeping?)
2:10:27 AM 对了，你可以帮我翻译一个东西吗 (Right, can you help me with a thing to translate it?)So obvious that she's not caring if I have some problems and why I am staying late; she just re-added me to translate that something for her. But, because I am an experienced man and I know that there are people who do believe that you are their free translator and they're okay to give you long texts that consume 5 or more hours, I said:
(Who are you?
如果没有那么长的，可以现在翻译。 (If it's not very long, I can translate it now.) (added an "OK" emoticon)
Then she didn't wait long and sent it.
Good morning everyone. Nice to meet you. Let me introduce myself to you. My name is __________ . I am _____ years old. I come from ______ . I'm a freshman. I study in ________ school. I can _______ . I like _______ . I'm polite and brave. Thank you.
(Obviously their teacher doesn't care about the exclamation marks. There were also some space errors but this is the level of their school. Not one of the best obviously.) What was my surprise when I saw this simple text? I was like "Wow! So simple, even some from grade 1 or 2 will unerstand it all (or almost all) and they're not going to waste time to search for a translator!"
I asked her:
你不懂这些？好简单。(Which ones you don't understand. It's all very simple.)
Then she said that it's simple but to her it's a very complicated text that she doesn't understand because her English isn't good.
I decided to finish it as soon as possible because I didn't want to waste all my night in this way (I am doing much more meaningful things than this at night when I'm online, like learning new skills, knowledge and reading literature, politics, etc.):
你不懂那个单词？问。(Which words are the ones you don't understand? Ask me.)
怎么说呢 (I don't know how to explain it.)
Here I started to think that this girl is really slow! Started to explain her more how to find the words that she doesn't understand:
你肯定懂good morning和school吧。(You surely understand "good morning" and "school", I am right?)
She confirmed it. Then I again tried:
所以，你写下哪一个不懂，我告诉你。 (So, now right down which one you don't understand and I will tell you (the meaning).)
比如：name = 名字。(For example, the word "name".)
一个一个看。写下哪一些不懂。(Read (watch) them one by one. Right down which ones you don't understand.)
And then she wrote a whole sentence
which was " I study in ________ school." OMG! I translated for her this sentence:
"我在学习在（什么）学校。" ("I study in (what) school.")
After a while she started to express her sorrow or some another negative emotion with:
服了假期马上要结束了，我英语单词还没学会 (with a crying emoticon) (The vacation is coming to an end. I haven't learned English words yet)
I told her frankly:
如果你还没学了这么简单的，说实话，你不会考过你的英语的考试。你真的要努力学习。这些-- I study 什么的是1年级和2年级的水平。希望你会注意。 (with a thumb-up emoticon) (If you haven't learned such a simple thing, to tell the truth, you won't pass your English exam(-s). You really need to study harder. These -- "I study" and so on are for the level of grade 1 and grade 2. I hope you will pay attention.)
Then I spent some more time to explain her about the dificulty level of the words and what she should learn.
所以啊我现在还不敢睡觉 (So now I don't dare to go to sleep)
我可不想去老师办公室读英语 (I don't want to go to the teacher's office to read English)
我之前不怎么学英语 (I didn't learn English very much before)
Here was the moment when I reminded her how she lost her chance before
而且，我以前告诉了你--我会开始慢慢免费教你英语 ，可是你不要了 。一点都不要了见我（我知道我丑 ，可是免费课是个很好的事儿，好多人会高高兴兴如果有我这样的个哥哥教他们免费的 。我没想到了你不敢见我。 ）( Moreover, I told you before -- I will start to teach you English for free slowly (without pressure; gradually), but you didn't want to. I didn't want to meet me at all (I know I'm ugly, but free classes are a good thing. Many people will be happy if a big brother like me teaches them for free. I didn't expect you to not dare to see me.) (and added different emoticons to make it more friendly.)
Then she started to deflect it in this way:
我没说我不敢见你啊 (I didn't say I don't dare to meet you ah)
I: 是的。你没说了。你就不要了。 所以我们不见了。我请了你好多次，你一次都不要了。所以不要说。我懂。 (Yes. You didn't say it. You just didn't want to. So we didn't meet up. I invited you many times. You didn't accept it even once. So, no need to say it. I understand.)
She: 2:43:03 AM
是吗我不记得了 (Really? I don't remember)
那时候是真的不想学英语，但是现在不得不学 (At that time, I really didn't want to learn English, but now I have no choice but to learn it.)
To prove her that she really doesn't want to meet me I made a new invitation:
明天要见吗？ (Do you want to meet up tomorrow?)
She started with the excuses:
可是我还有作业没写咯，这几天都在玩 (But I still have to write my homeworks, these days I only played)
而且7号就要回学校了 (On top of that, 7th is the day when we have to go back to school)
This was enough for me to conclude it:
嗯。就是--看到了吗？我请你的时候，你的回答一直是“不行”。 丑的男人的命运就是这样的：无休止的拒绝的。当然这个不是你的错误，是我的。坦白说，我并不怪你。 (Yep. So you saw it? When I invite you, your answer every time is "I can't". The fate of ugly men is like this: endless refusal. Of course, it's not your fault, it's mine. Frankly speaking, I don't blame you.)
Here she started with the typical bluepilled statements (i. e. these platitudes that are not true in most of the cases):
管他长得好不好看做自己就是最好的 (No matter how good he looks, it's the best to be himself)
I tried to give her some redpilled knowledge (i. e. the truth based on frank inceldom studies):
不好看 = 孤独的， 无爱情的， 痛苦的。(Not good-looking=lonely, loveless, painful / hardship.)
没有人会说：“我要当个不好看的人。” (No one will say, "I want to be a bad looking (ugly) person.")
帅，好看，美丽 -- 都是需要的。丑的人们没有好的生活（如果也是穷的。）(Handsome, good-looking, beautiful -- all are needed. The ugly people have no good life (if they are also poor))
She: 3:00:04 AM
我还羡慕你咯成绩那么好哪像我成绩不好长得也不好看 (I envy you. Your grades are so good, which makes me look bad)
ROFL! Like it matters how good are your grades when nobody thinks she wants to meet you up!
Then I explained her a bit more; she didn't get it and after another topic (not related to the inceldom and loneliness) in which she demonstrated her full ignorance and naivety (like "If I saw it on TV, then it's 100% true.") I just said "Thank you and bye!"
As you maybe saw: she sees me only as a free study tool, doesn't even want to meet me once (even when there is such a good benefit like free useful and necessary foreign language) and as Lexi said "leave before it gets worse"! (The worse is that this type of people are getting the feeling that they're more and more entitled to your time, help, emotional efforts, etc., and at the end of the day you're more miserable and more unattractive -- because instead of using this time to do more sports, to learn more, to take showers and search for incomes, you're just stucked with their problems ruining your life).