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Other topics / Re: Yay

« on: June 14, 2023, 06:02:59 AM »

The best! Yay!

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Other topics / Let's be friends... oh, wait...

« on: June 14, 2023, 05:34:31 AM »

A bit strange male. At first he wanted we to be friends to share info, to help each other... then "Oh, I am not there still, can't find job." So, this friendship wasn't one of the successful ones.

The nickname of the male -- "山西小王"

2019-08-18
自由如风和你交朋友 12:25:34 AM
我是自由如风和你交朋友
Foreigner @ 12:25:59 AM
 
Foreigner @ 10:07:33 PM
要做什么朋友？
自由如风和你交朋友 10:40:05 PM
一起玩
自由如风和你交朋友 10:40:09 PM
在海口
自由如风和你交朋友 10:40:40 PM
分享信息
自由如风和你交朋友 10:40:44 PM
互相帮助
 2019-11-10
Foreigner @ 2:55:10 PM
Happy Birthday to you (e-congratulations)
自由如风和你交朋友 10:56:18 PM
谢谢
 2020-02-14
Foreigner @ 2:40:30 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
自由如风和你交朋友 10:42:17 PM
yes
 2020-02-25
Foreigner @ 5:34:43 PM
你现在还在海口吗？
 2020-02-28
自由如风和你交朋友 10:55:16 AM
Foreigner @ 不在
自由如风和你交朋友 10:55:39 AM
Foreigner @ 我去海口不知道做什么工作

Now finding jobs around is harder for Chinese and especially for foreigners. But I suppose it's okay because people may have better chances abroad.

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Other topics / Doubts, of course

« on: June 14, 2023, 05:20:03 AM »

Well, it's a chat with some suspicious person. She added me and didn't say the truth who gave her my number. When she saw I know how to see the source, she said I have doubts about her so, "bye-bye"... well, okay. Anyway, I don't like dishonesty from the very beginning.

Her slogans: "此Q以删除，", "从新来过" and current nickname "荣儿".

 7:52:29 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
Foreigner @ 7:55:17 PM
 
Foreigner @ 7:56:04 PM
你好！
Foreigner @ 7:56:24 PM
我是个外国（欧洲的）朋友。
Foreigner @ 7:57:06 PM
教外语的，写书，做网站。
Foreigner @ 7:57:43 PM
你呢？
洪荒之女~ 7:58:06 PM
你好，你怎么不问问我啊？怎么有你的QQ号呢？
Foreigner @ 7:59:50 PM
因为我先要自己介绍，后来，我希望，你也可以介绍自己的。 我们都是文明的人们，是不是？
Foreigner @ 8:01:00 PM
我在上网，写几个故事。你可以慢慢说。今晚我打算很久上网的，所以你有什么说什么。我在看。 
洪荒之女~ 8:03:38 PM
我是海南本地人，女35岁，单身，请问你是男是女？我是无聊随便加的
Foreigner @ 8:04:09 PM
男的。
Foreigner @ 8:04:28 PM
好的。那，谁给了你我的QQ呢？
洪荒之女~ 8:06:02 PM
没有人给我随便加的
Foreigner @ 8:07:44 PM
不是吧。看这个QQ信息的：  。它说你是“来自QQ号查我”。所以这个意思是你原来有过了我的QQ号码。
Foreigner @ 8:08:24 PM
我给你另外的例子：比如这个是从群来自的： 
洪荒之女~ 8:08:32 PM
要啊，我随便搜索的，随便写的
洪荒之女~ 8:08:50 PM
好吧，既然你那么多疑问，打扰了，拜拜

1024

-------FREE ADS------- / Re: What ad can you see now?

« on: June 14, 2023, 04:25:48 AM »

This one:

汽车城的英国学校

.

1025

A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why it seems to me many short men are also 'short' in emotional intelligence?

« on: June 14, 2023, 04:24:50 AM »

 Well, I meant the typical 20-22 working days in a month (when you rest for 2 days in a week). 22 hours/day is kind of slavery.
 Oh, sure, if they do care only about the height, it's sort of unacceptable but what I meant is the complex of their expectations, understandings, views. Let's say "they" (or "he"/"she") thinks that you should have own house, good job or own business and being in good shape (if not very fit, at least not an obese guy). And then, it's good to pay some attention to these good expectations and to try your best (better than being the opposite -- a homeless, unemployed and with ruined body, right?)
 When their/his/her expectations are also good for you, you should give it your best try. But not if they're some evil people, for example, who'll make you to try bad things like becoming a gangster, joining aggressive armies, being a scammer and so on.

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:59:31 PM »

2016669711ershiyouta
2016669432erjidskjdal
3298098dska
23kassllddjka
21kssjakjllkkj
2olsdppsfkc
1kshkkjislcv

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Other topics / You can't be sure

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:58:20 PM »

He was someone who was sent to check me out by a common friend? Or he was just someone who wanted to support his clicking games? Or he was really a genuine person who wanted to make friends with me just because I am a foreigner in China? You can't be sure...

2020-11-30
外国朋友 7:04:41 PM
Hi!
Hi!
外国朋友 7:04:48 PM
Who are you?
爷单身自豪 7:05:02 PM
hi
爷单身自豪 7:06:09 PM
I'm Yin Hongqiang
外国朋友 7:06:23 PM
 
外国朋友 7:06:38 PM
我们认识吗？
爷单身自豪 7:06:50 PM
不认识啊
爷单身自豪 7:06:59 PM
你是外国人吗
爷单身自豪 7:07:21 PM
我想交个外国人做朋友
外国朋友 7:07:24 PM
是。
爷单身自豪 7:07:40 PM
真的吗
外国朋友 7:07:45 PM
好的，可是怎么找到了我的QQ号码？
外国朋友 7:07:54 PM
是真的。
爷单身自豪 7:08:13 PM
搜索的呀
爷单身自豪 7:08:45 PM
我就搜“外国朋友”就出来啦
爷单身自豪 7:09:20 PM
How old are you
外国朋友 7:10:15 PM
不是吧。我看到了你已经有了我的QQ号码。
外国朋友 7:10:49 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:10:50 PM
so?
外国朋友 7:11:22 PM
So, let's be honest and tell me how did you have got my QQ number.
爷单身自豪 7:11:48 PM
Ok
外国朋友 7:11:54 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:12:15 PM
I will tell you
外国朋友 7:12:28 PM
好啊 
外国朋友 7:12:52 PM
我喜欢坦白的人。谢谢你会告诉我。
爷单身自豪 7:13:42 PM
嗯嗯
2020-11-30
爷单身自豪 7:13:55 PM
首先
爷单身自豪 7:14:15 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:14:23 PM
点一下加号
爷单身自豪 7:14:27 PM
然后
爷单身自豪 7:14:45 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:14:54 PM
点一下这个
爷单身自豪 7:14:58 PM
然后
爷单身自豪 7:15:44 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:15:54 PM
其次
爷单身自豪 7:16:05 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:16:14 PM
再
爷单身自豪 7:16:21 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:16:24 PM
最后
爷单身自豪 7:16:29 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:16:34 PM
这就加上你了
爷单身自豪 7:16:48 PM
看懂了吗
外国朋友 7:16:57 PM
嗯。
外国朋友 7:17:31 PM
所以这是你和你的女友？
爷单身自豪 7:18:01 PM
I'm an honest boy
爷单身自豪 7:18:32 PM
这不是的啦
爷单身自豪 7:18:42 PM
这是情侣头像呀
外国朋友 7:18:57 PM
OK.
外国朋友 7:19:01 PM
Let it be.
爷单身自豪 7:19:05 PM
嗯
爷单身自豪 7:19:12 PM
haha
爷单身自豪 7:20:07 PM
I'm a 16-year-old boy
外国朋友 7:23:32 PM
OK. And what do you need? I'm a male too.
爷单身自豪 7:25:17 PM
male 是啥意思
外国朋友 7:25:58 PM
“男的”。我是说我们都是男的。
爷单身自豪 7:26:06 PM
奥
爷单身自豪 7:26:09 PM
 
爷单身自豪 7:26:23 PM
so
爷单身自豪 7:26:52 PM
where are you from
外国朋友 7:27:17 PM
Europe; EU.
2016669711 7:29:50 PM
欧洲
2016669711 7:31:15 PM
I'm from China
2016669711 7:32:01 PM
我的英文名叫 Johnny  jackson
2016669711 7:32:30 PM
What about you
外国朋友 11:44:43 PM
嗯。
外国朋友 11:44:50 PM
I'm G.
 2020-12-01
爷单身自豪 9:31:49 AM
干嘛呢
爷单身自豪 9:31:54 AM
给你看个东西
爷单身自豪 9:32:31 AM
 
爷单身自豪 9:33:30 AM
Do you know what I'm doing
外国朋友 1:41:38 PM
I don't know.
 2020-12-02
爷单身自豪 9:36:59 AM
爷单身自豪 9:37:01 AM
点赞加关注，铁子，谢了
外国朋友 6:37:40 PM
 ？ 要干什么？
外国朋友 6:37:53 PM
 
外国朋友 6:38:17 PM
看起来我不会帮忙你这个。
爷单身自豪 6:48:16 PM
没事的啦
外国朋友 6:49:16 PM
OK.
爷单身自豪 6:50:12 PM
emm
 2020-12-04
外国朋友 5:02:12 PM
所以，到底，我们的共同的网友是谁？
爷单身自豪 11:49:38 PM
？？？
 2020-12-05
外国朋友 12:08:54 PM
  就是其它人给了你我的QQ好吗，不是自己找到了。
外国朋友 12:09:12 PM
比如这位是 
外国朋友 12:09:22 PM
你是
外国朋友 12:10:01 PM
还有给你个例子： 
外国朋友 12:10:34 PM
所以呢，你可以坦白说的--哪一位介绍了我？

Then he stopped the chats and in one moment I decided that it's not useful to keep this suspicious contact and delete him too. As you saw, I was sort of polite and I wanted to know what exactly is going on. I didn't just reject him or delete him after a few replies...

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Other topics / Some inviter

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:50:33 PM »

Some kind of inviter (somebody who invites you to join their groups):

"2:32:26 PM
我也是海口地区的 聊聊
朋友🐅 2:32:48 PM
OK.
1只斥鶴 2:33:34 PM
1只斥鶴 2:33:38 PM
群9756144
1只斥鶴 2:33:49 PM
朋友🐅 2:33:54 PM
What do you mean by that?
1只斥鶴 2:34:00 PM
群9756144
朋友🐅 2:34:13 PM
I don't know what you mean.
朋友🐅 2:34:20 PM
你为什么加了我？
朋友🐅 2:35:36 PM
删掉?
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
朋友🐅 2:36:17 PM
 "

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:47:52 PM »

28505295492850529549
2850529549euowqieuqo
2850529549ewqoieuqooi
2850529549dsjh2
2850529549skas

1030

-------FREE ADS------- / Re: What ad can you see now?

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:13:16 PM »

It was an ad about Turkey (Türkiye) in Chinese.

1031

Other languages / Re: Търговия с австралийски долари

« on: June 13, 2023, 07:06:37 PM »

 Ей! След над година чакане! След над 1 година и няколко месеца чакане, най-сетне изтъргувахме на сметка и австралийските долари! Най-после! Малката придобивка се равнява на само 2,60 юана (което по курса на деня е 0,66 лева, т. е. само 66 стотинки), но поне е на печалба!
 100% завършен цикъл на търговията с няколко валути! Всичките на печалба (по-голяма или по-малка, но стопроцентова печалба, никакви загуби)!
 Та, засега вече стопираме търговията с валути, защото има да се търгува апартамент, както и разни по-дребни неща - шкаф, стол, различни железа... по-натам, с цел доразвитие на този уникален трейдърски блог , ще пиша и конкретно за въпросните специфични трейдвания (търговийки). Съдържание да има! (Знаете, може би, че то е царя (или "то е краля", според превода).) 

1032

A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) / Re: Why it seems to me many short men are also 'short' in emotional intelligence?

« on: June 13, 2023, 06:45:29 PM »

you gotta get a therapy to get medications for your awful mental state.

Only if you're psychotic. Don't ruin your health with medicines (many of them full of side effects) just because you have some hypodepression (低抑郁, 抑郁症, 轻性抑郁症). There are many other therapeutic ways, including sports therapy, work therapy (工作疗法) and so on, which may prevent you ruining your young body with medicines.

It contains multiple sessions and there are feedbacks per session for a therapist to analyze to recover your mental state.

 The psychotherapies are a way better way (when the psychotherapist isn't some medicine oriented who is just planning how to sell you medicines) but you have to be lucky to find a really good one. Otherwise your situation may get worse or, in a better case, to lose any hope about the psychotherapy.


 

Don't you find it ridiculous to do something just because of a man/woman's word?

 Depends on who is that man/woman. If it's just another Chad or just another Becky, okay, you may ignore them but what if this is your idol, your one-it-is, your best teacher (tutor) who you do respect a lot? Or what if, in the reality this is the case, this is the majority of the females you like? Look, you may live for yourself if you're not living in a society or you're able to be self-sufficient, let's say -- a volcel. Cool. But if you can't and you don't want to? Then, well, you have to adapt yourself more or less to the desires, expectations of the majority of those who you like. They prefer richer, fitter (body wise), educated (for example)... then you should, at least, give it a try! Especially if the thing (for example, the money, the muscles, the knowledge) is good for you! Do you understand? If they like something that is good for you too (for example to be richer and to be stronger), then you 100% have the sense to do your best. But if they're some crazy or degraded people who want you to be something bad (like a gangster), you don't need blindly to obey (to follow) their tastes!

As for how to live yourself, well IMO if you are doing what you like to do, you can say you are living for yourself. Some shortcels seem to me they are so obsessed over their heights that they've forgotten they should live for themselves.

Easy to say if you have granted income (like rich parents). What if you're one of those who even since the childhood have to go to work in some factory or on the field? How you're doing what you like to do if you're working at least 8 hours some heavy and/or stressful job and when you're back home you have to deal with washing clothes, some cooking, taking a shower... and then you feel so tired that you even can't do your hobby (like running or even just playing a PC game)?

Most of the people are so dependable of their jobs and duties that they just can't do what they like to do. Usually the thing you like to do, isn't profitable. For example, you like reading books and nobody pays you for this, moreover you have to pay for the books.

 I hope you know what's to be poor and to be a working poor? Like you work 22 days or more in a months and your salary is enough just to pay your utilities bills, some food, some clothes and... maybe to go to a bar once or to visit a cinema...

I can name of a handful of things that are worse than being short. So you are 'luckier' than those who are suffering from worse things. Can't being luckier make you feel good?

 Good point but it is good to be continued with "And once you're luckier, start to compensate your shortness with other good traits like build a better body, a better health, try a new major, new income, upgrade, maxx everything you can."

Learn that, if not only are you short but also you are negative, women will not only reject you as their boyfriends but also they will reject you as 'friends', and even no men will accept you as a friend because your inferior complexity can only make them feel pale. So you can see being negative will not only be detrimental on your mental state but also make you isolated.

 That's right. 2 bad traits > 1 bad trait.

Learn that there are many things that do not require height. Learning Math, playing League of Legend, being on reddit, etc.

  What a good conclusion with such lame examples. Okay, learning math (sort of edu-maxx) may be accepted as a good one, but instead giving them good idea how to compensate their shortness (build muscles, search for higher earnings, look for a place with shorter females -- gymmaxx, moneymaxx, geomaxx), you're teaching them how to enjoy being gamers or wasting time on a website which doesn't pay them anything? What's the result after many years of watching a screen sitting down (playing game or reading something on a website)? I'll tell you what: you'll be still short + you'll have problems with your health (eyes, waist, abnormal weight maybe... all these "benefits" of the sedentary lifestyle (久坐的生活方式).)
 
 Please, for your own sake, if you're a shortcel, realize that you're already in enough bad situation to afford the luxury of being a gamer, wasting time on websites that do not pay you anything or everything else related to the sedentary lifestyle! You need to focus on your better health and better body first and then compensate more with status, money, etc.! Do it until it's not too late.

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 13, 2023, 06:54:15 AM »

1970213713leileideaiqin
18328731298juyjuyseaiol
2380980sajkeopops
3229jkslaunckdooss
22kslailbxsiioicpska

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Other topics / One from Guangxi who used Traditional Chinese

« on: June 13, 2023, 06:52:38 AM »

A strange chat with one from Guangxi who used Traditional Chinese characters which I can't read (mostly).

2021-06-28
 11:31:37 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
累累的爱情 11:32:44 PM
你好
外国哥哥 11:33:00 PM
 
外国哥哥 11:33:07 PM
你是？
外国哥哥 11:33:59 PM
你是哪位？
外国哥哥 11:37:51 PM
 ？ 不认识吧？
外国哥哥 11:56:57 PM
怎么又加了我有不说？ 
外国哥哥 11:57:43 PM
不要害羞，慢慢说你是哪位，见了没有？想什么?等等。
 2021-06-29
外国哥哥 12:06:48 AM
好的。现在有点晚，所以我们不要着急。明天再看看这个问题。当然，如果明天你还不要说你是哪位，我们不会聊天。
累累的爱情 6:37:26 AM
在吗
外国哥哥 12:08:57 PM
早上的时候，这么早 ，我肯定不在。
外国哥哥 12:09:06 PM
现在你可以说一下。
外国哥哥 12:09:20 PM
 
外国哥哥 12:28:43 PM
你是？你是哪位？
外国哥哥 12:30:14 PM
如果今天到00：00点钟不回复我你是谁，我肯定删掉。因为我不要在我的QQ里“不知道你是谁”的网友。
累累的爱情 12:53:37 PM
顏麗
外国哥哥 12:54:54 PM
 她
？
累累的爱情 12:55:16 PM
什麼
外国哥哥 12:55:28 PM
你是谁？？？！！！
外国哥哥 12:55:38 PM
 是她吗？
累累的爱情 12:57:36 PM
不是
外国哥哥 12:57:50 PM
算了吧。你直接说哪里找到了我的QQ，还有你想要什么？我没有时间浪费。
累累的爱情 12:59:04 PM
是聯係人
外国哥哥 1:00:06 PM
我不懂你的古老的汉字。你用现代的，中国的汉字。后来慢慢说你是哪位，你要什么，为什么加了我。
累累的爱情 1:01:12 PM
聊天
累累的爱情 1:01:34 PM
我叫颜丽
外国哥哥 1:01:36 PM
以前见了吗？
外国哥哥 1:01:50 PM
你是哪里的？
外国哥哥 1:01:59 PM
怎么找到了我？
累累的爱情 1:01:59 PM
广西
累累的爱情 1:02:06 PM
你呢
累累的爱情 1:02:22 PM
没见过
外国哥哥 1:02:24 PM
我不在广西，我住在海口。
外国哥哥 1:02:37 PM
那，这样加我有什么用？
累累的爱情 1:04:12 PM
我知道
外国哥哥 1:04:33 PM
但是我不知道。
累累的爱情 1:04:46 PM
我在广西
外国哥哥 1:04:53 PM
你是小孩吧？几岁了？
累累的爱情 1:05:09 PM
不是
外国哥哥 1:05:24 PM
 
外国哥哥 1:05:46 PM
拜拜
累累的爱情 1:06:04 PM
拜拜

It was really not clear why this person added me...

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Other topics / Re: Letters & Numbers; Numbers & Letters

« on: June 13, 2023, 06:33:49 AM »

1924406419jiujiuguanggao
1843798742huyhuykuangg
237219879iuyiuysaakasj
2381098zplmdgiws
1209jgxeuoasaa