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Social network | SEO - Social network / Re: Trying to find a job or start a business in Cambodia

« on: June 04, 2022, 11:45:01 PM »

 Continuing with these:

 Some person with the name (nickname?) "Anthony's Wiener" wrote: "Have you looked into telemarketing? A number of investment firms have first class offices in the KOW and are actively seeking foreigners to join their ranks. My understanding is meals and lodging is provided in gated communities." I didn't get it because I couldn't find what is that KOW thing -- all I see is the Chinese "kowtow" (short form -- "kow") and the octanol/water partition coefficient (Kow). Then the well-known (already) here violet opposed it with "Please ignore this post." She said that it is to be avoided at all costs and that it is not even funny to suggest it to a person who may be completely unaware of what has been happening to people taking up jobs like this and then finding themselves in a hell they can barely free themselves from. Sounds like lifesaving post. Responsible indeed. Thanks, really! Because when you're in a new country you really have to be very careful.
 Then that Anthony guy answered: "A bit if a leap that the poster is unaware of what has been happening. Perhaps we should warn the poster that hanging out with Pieman is also a threat to his wellbeing, taking children home to play video games is unadvisable, that casinos are magnets to low life Chinese and Pov at the #MeToo bar doesn't really love long time and her drinks are overpriced and watered down. " Can't continue to think that all these kind of opinions are discouraging. Well, she asked him why would they (people like me) be aware? Then he answered that It has been reported there, TOF, Cambodian, Thai , Japanese, Chinese, Malaysian TV and newspaper; A number of casino trade newspaper have reported on it; Aljazeera did a worldwide story on it. And asked her why would she thinks the poster (me) to be so naive? And she answered (very right, by the way) that it's nothing to do with naivety. Not everybody devours every news article, even when it relates to a country they may move to in future. That's true. The information nowadays is too much! And, even a person who reads news everyday, mostly will see news about USA, Russia, European countries, China and sometimes -- African countries... very rare there is something about Cambodia. So, I do agree with her here.
 And at the end of that topic, a person nicknamed "logos" posted a fresh ad from a FB forum. It's helpful, because I have no idea what's on FB, because it's blocked in China and I don't spend money on VPNs. Really, not bad for a casino ad, as he/she said but violet rightly noticed that that says it’s for Cambodians with language skills. Also, I suppose it's a reasonable sense of humor -- "That’s really good - must include ugly city boredom money - Bavet is on a par with Poipet." I don't care if the city is ugly or not, as far as it's winterless, warm, without air pollution and, ideally, if it's near the sea/ocean or at least a very big lake.
 When I have more time and better Internet connection I'll post about the last topic which I started there and which looks very popular now. Already 5 pages! Wow! I still didn't read it to the end after my last post there.

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Social network | SEO - Social network / "Anyone works in a Cambodian casino? How is the casino job over there?"

« on: June 04, 2022, 05:13:25 AM »

 So, another idea that I've got is to make some research about the jobs in the Cambodian casinos. So, I started the topic "Anyone works in a Cambodian casino? How is the casino job over there?" (Fri May 20, 2022 2:42 am) and I posted
"Well, at first I planned to be a teacher in Cambodia after nearly 20 years of teaching foreign languages abroad but then I received some opinions that it''s not a very good choice.

So, because I can deal well with Chinese, Russian, English (and to communicate good enough in other 5-6 languages) I wondered isn't it better for me to start working in a casino. I suppose they need polyglots like me who are able to explain important things like "how to play this", "where is the toilet", "how much is the free whiskey" :grin: and so on (I spent enough time in casinos in East Europe and Macao, so I know what is the level of the communication and I feel pretty sure I can do it).
So, somebody knows how is the job there? Payment, stress, problems of any kind, opportunities?
If not, at least, those of you who ever visited these places, tell me, please, how do you think of the Cambodian casinos? Your impressions?
Thanks in advance! :cheers2:"

 1/ ផោមក្លិនស្អុយ at once noticed that I'm not very familiar with the Cambodian casinos. ("You ain’t from round here are you?"  ) and added that there are plenty of cheap, locals who have sufficient Chinese/English to tell patrons "where to go pee". Then he also asked (reasonably) why would they want to employ an expensive foreigner when a local can do the same job for 20% of the cost?
 (if the situation is really like this "We do prefer local labour force." then it's really a no chance situation similar to that in China now.)

 2/ Another person (nicknamed Spigzy) said that the payment is even lower -- "5%-10% I'd argue."

 3/ A person nicknamed "rektj00" asked "Shouldn't you be finishing that novel series that you started?" which I didn't get. Maybe he/she is asking somebody else (an offtopic) or maybe he/she knows me as a writer who is writing different things? Whatever.

 4/ The next answer, from a person with nickname "Sonic1" said that а large casino like Naga already has thousands of employees, many of which speak multiple languages relevant to this region (it means Thai, Malay, Vietnamese, Mandarin, etc.) So he/she thinks that they have no need of said "polyglot". (Maybe my number is not enough to call myself a polyglot? )
He/she made an interesting point, that what they always have need of is casino hosts; a casino host that has an extensive list of clients or "whales" who will follow said host to whichever casino property employs him and then "plunk down sizable wagers". It is, according to him/her, actually not a bad job as they accompany clients to VIP events, golf courses and dinners; they may also receive "a nice chunk of change" depending on how much each whale loses per visit.
 Cool, really. The pity is that I don't know so many "whales" who are going to gamble and if so, they'll go exactly to gamble in Cambodia.
 5/ A "guest" posted that the chances of a foreigner coming to Cambodia and finding a decent job that pays a decent salary - way above teachers’ subsistence rates - is negligible. He/she states that most foreigners in good jobs were sent there by their employer; a tiny handful build networks which help them get the tiny number of decent jobs; every other foreigner who is doing okay is either retired or has created a business. (And this supported my idea to try some business in Cambodia, like a restaurant, which received some criticism, but we'll talk about it later.) The person also added that he/she doesn’t want to be discouraging but "Cambodia as a place to build or sustain your career is not a good choice."
 If that's true, I feel very sad, because I really do like Asia and especially the winterless, warm south-east Asia. There are not many countries over there to choose.

 6/ Someone nicknamed " Tootsfriend" suggested this: "May I suggest you lower your sights on the job application. I need a painter who can climb a 20 foot ladder and I can pay $10 per day." and because I'm not sure if it's a true offer or just a joke (and I don't like to paint, because I do avoid chemical products like paints which may hurt my health), I just don't want to answer it there.

 7/ A person nicknamed "PSD_Kiwi" gave obviously more informed and concrete answer -- he/she said that knows a few foreigners ("Westerners") who are/have been employed in the casino industry in Cambodia and they all had years of experience working in casinos in other countries, and are/were making bank in Cambodia... He/she thinks that If I have no experience, then not a chance, maybe a 3-rd country nationals (like Filipinos) wage if you're lucky, with "shit working conditions"... if I could even secure a casino job, which is highly unlikely.
 Well...
 
 8/ A person nicknamed " Lucky Lucan" answered that working in a casino in a border town in Cambodia sounds like hell on earth to him "but what would I know?"
 Sigh... makes me feel really uneasy about this casino job in Cambodia idea.

 9/  ផោមក្លិនស្អុយ wisely added that he’d hope that anyone considering working in a particular sector in another country would do a little due diligence, rather than just jumping on board after reading a forum comment. (And this is what I think too. The forums should be just a part of our research.) Also he added that "But in this world now we seem to have to cater for the absolutely lowest common denominator. Do we really have to assume that everyone is as thick as shit?" which is a sort of confusing, isn't it?

 To be continued...

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Social network | SEO - Social network / Answers to violet from khmer440.com

« on: June 04, 2022, 01:01:36 AM »

 So, here, as I promised, will give my special (concrete) answers to violet from khmer440.com.
  1.

You got two positive responses and two negative. In your latest thread you said replies were mostly negative/pessimistic regarding teaching.

Well, let's see how many and how positive/optimistic (encouraging) are the comments above then. I don't mind to recount them because as a philosopher, I do value the truth.
 

• "Your teaching history might be your best bet, at a university." Positive.
• "I think you will be highly sought after.
  Pay rates are generally shit here..." Negative.
• "75% chance of being dead before 60.
  12% chance of being homeless for an undefined period of time in next 5 years.
  36% chance of shitting yourself in public and it being reported online.
  ..." Highly depressing and negative.
• "The rates schools are paying are less than they were 10 years ago. Teaching online is the way to go these days, 10 dollars an hour is the norm, no prep work nor homework, no having to navigate the traffic jams, nor having to deal with stupid Khmer management or power tripping westerners, no exams to mark without pay, ..." Negative about the teaching in Cambodia. Also didn't answer if a non-native English speaker can find that dremful teaching Japanese online job.

So, for me it's 1:3. Read them again carefully and think by yourself if they give any hope and/or help about starting to be a language teacher in Cambodia?
---
 Surprisingly, violet also added a new, direct question to me:

What would equal a good life, OP?

Well, there was, are and will be different definitions about it, but nowadays, most of the people will imagine something like:
- able to buy a house or at least an apartment.
- able to have enough money for clothes, food, drinks, electricity, water, internet, TV (maybe books, too).
- able to save at least some money every month or at least every year.
- able to find affordable health care.
- able to satisfy the childrens' needs (but it's out of my counting because I'm a child-free person).

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Social network | SEO - Social network / "What are my chances to live a good life in Cambodia with this background?"

« on: June 03, 2022, 05:56:09 PM »

At first I started my research with the topic "What are my chances to live a good life in Cambodia with this background?" (Thu May 19, 2022 4:44 pm): "What are my chances to live a good life in Cambodia with this background: master's degree (Philosophy), 5 foreign languages (Chinese, English, Russian, Korean, Tatar), east European passport holder, Caucasian (white, if it matters for someone. No racism!) with around 19 years teaching experience in China. No smoker, no heavy drinker. Healthy and sporty person with interests in science and culture. Not rich, so can't make investments.
Is it possible to find at least a decent job in Cambodia now? Just a job for the beginning is alright too. I just wonder may I start living there at all?
I hope I can receive some positive answers! Best wishes!"

 Then I've got some answers which I'll show you over here:

 1) Someone "guesty11" said that my teaching history might be my best bet, at a university. And asked me what did you teach in China? I answered him/her that "Mostly languages: English, sometimes Russian and simple Korean. But never in a university. Only in private schools, kindergartens and face-to-face tutoring (home teaching)."

 2) Another " Guest" said that he/she thinks that I will be "highly sought after". And added that the pay rates are "generally shit" there, so better in Vietnam. (Yes, but I'm avoiding Vietnam because of some problems over there.)

 3) Then came another answer from someone with nickname "ផោមក្លិនស្អុយ" which was not very clear is it a joke or is it some social criticism of the Cambodian reality. Here it is:

75% chance of being dead before 60. (I don't know why, once I stated that I do not smoke, do not drink hard alcohol and do sports.)
12% chance of being homeless for an undefined period of time in next 5 years. (Okay, let's say it's a good reminder because I'm poor.)
36% chance of shitting yourself in public and it being reported online. (Why?! Bad food? Viruses?! What is the meaning of this statement?)
82% chance of saving a dog/cat from certain death. (Didn't get it at all. I am even avoiding to have pets because I'm dealing well with the high hygiene levels at home.)
92% chance of pronouncing it cum-eye (Is that another useless joke or just a statement that Cambodian language is not easy to learn?)
 In a word, it was a confusing answer, which is not helping at all.
 
 4) Another "Guest" comment that there the rates schools are paying are less than they were ten years ago. He/she also said that teaching online is the way to go these days, because 10 dollars (an hour) is the norm; no prep work nor homework; no having to navigate the traffic jams; nor having to deal with "stupid Khmer management" or "power tripping westerners"; no exams to mark without pay. Just work the hours you want from home when you want. Plus, he/she added, that the Japanese adult students are a dream come true for a teacher.
 Well, I decided to believe it and asked "Thanks a lot for the informed opinion! Well said. But is it possible for a non-native English speaker to teache those Japanese adult students? A link to the source/website where one can teach like that, please?"
 And he/she didn't answer after that at all.
 
 5) A person nicknamed "spitthedog" said that washing dishes in Europe pays better than teaching in Cambodia, and that "it's without the annoying screaming kids who can't really be arsed to learn engrish." (The problem is that I don't like Europe so much and I don't think that an educated person like me has to go to be a washdisher once he can be at least a teacher.)
 Also "6 months washing dishes in Barangland, then 6 months on the piss on holiday in the KOW....

Vs teaching english full time.

If someone had a gun to my head..." -- Well, I don't like to travel so much and I prefer to live only in the warm South-East China or South-East Asia. It's what I will choose with or without  gun to my head. 

 No matter what, but the person obviously tries to help.

 At the same time, I'm not very sure how much tries to help someone nicknamed "violet". I'll post special answers to him/her in the next post over here.

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Social network | SEO - Social network / Trying to find a job or start a business in Cambodia

« on: June 03, 2022, 04:22:20 PM »

About trying to find a job or start a business in Cambodia

 Trying to find a job or make business in Cambodia... well, in the recent years it's more and more difficult for a foreigner to find work (with a legal, working visa) in China. It's nearly impossible to receive a Chinese citizenship too. The Chinese green card -- if no legal job, enough money in your bank account and own flat/house -- also no way to get it.
 At the beginning, when I was still a student in East Europe, I went even to the Chinese embassy, because I loved China very much, and I asked there for Chinese citizenship. They refused me and one person -- Chen Lan -- told me that at first I have to live 5 years in China before I get it. Well, I'm living in China already 18+ years and still can't even apply for a Chinese green card. I already tried twice in 2 different Chinese public security bureaus (one in Dalian and one in Haikou) to apply for a citizenship, but it wasn't successful. Later some people told me that first I have to receive a Chinese green card, but as long as I can't find a working visa, I'm not able to apply for it.
 So, I started to give up to become a Chinese citizen. I feel, at this moment, it's even not easy to live in China (where, if the country is not giving you enough opportunities to work, will be easy? Nowhere! You see, at least, in many other countries foreigners can work legally as waiters, cleaners or something like this. But in China a foreigner can't work these jobs. Most of the companies do not want or can't hire foreigners in China.)
 I decided to try to find a similar, Eastern and warm country (where also I can communicate with many Chinese, because since my childhood I am a fan of the Chinese culture) and so I decided it to be Cambodia.
 Till now, I got some helpful and positive answers from a Cambodia related forum (in English) but also some not very positive and even not good. I'll tell you about it later.
 (To be continued...)

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Other topics / Re: And again ultranationalism (极端民族主义), xenophobia (仇外) and so on

« on: June 03, 2022, 04:25:02 AM »

 Again something like an apology:
十鬼蛇王马 6/1/2022 5:18:31 AM
不好意思我的表达有误

十鬼蛇王马 6/1/2022 5:18:58 AM
我指的是那些大部分的西方人，你可以理解成西方的肮脏之人

My answer is objective:

"事实上，有数百个西方国家确实支持中国并帮助中国——匈牙利、塞尔维亚、巴西、南非、俄罗斯、白俄罗斯等。只有美国及其一些卫星国试图与中国发生问题。事实上，中国与日本、越南、不丹、菲律宾等东方国家的问题要多得多."

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Social network | SEO - Social network / Re: Not every incel is a bad person. Answers to the incels who are behaving badly

« on: June 03, 2022, 03:16:24 AM »

The only thing in common of the incels is that they're incels. And that's all. It's like the poor people or the rich people. You can't just say he or she is poor, hence he or she is good (or bad, or clever, or stupid, etc.) You can't say he/she is rich, hence he/she is X or Y... The incels are coming from different backgrounds, societies, nationalities, families... and of course, there are some mentally disordered and/or not enough developed like the ones mentioned above. There are also many fakecels (fake incels), trolls or even incelophobes who pretend to be incels just to make the incels to suffer more. So these 2 may be everything. Don't take them too seriously. Most probably, they're some badly mannered and low educated teens who still have no socialization and have no idea how to communicate normally.

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Social network | SEO - Social network / Zendaya

« on: June 02, 2022, 05:09:52 AM »

 I think that Zendaya (an actress) is one of the most pretty females nowadays. So in my eyes she is a GigaStacy (it means one of the most pretty females in the incels' jargon), but I wonder how do you think? If she wasn't famous and you just meet her on the street what you'll think about her?
 Some incels think that she is just a "Becky" (it means an ordinary girl in the incels' jargon).

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Other languages / "Паспорт за ваксинирани?"

« on: June 01, 2022, 04:17:35 AM »

Паспорт за ваксинирани?

Петко Т. Хинов

Засега не. Ключова дума — „все още“.

Но да се замислим: когато ни задължават да приемаме какъвто и да е продукт, всъщност ни задължават да послужим на производителя му, в материален план (защото потребителят е средство за реализация на печалбите на производителя и баснята за „клиента-цар“ е празнословие). А в духовен — да приемем идеологията, която стои зад даденото производство. Невъзможно е да си потребител, без да се обвържеш с концепцията на потреблението (в случая, ваксината). Умът и волята ни — независимо дали го осъзнаваме — са печат на всеки наш избор!

Началото на дискриминацията, уви, е положено. Винаги се започва с големи думи за всеобщо спасение и евтини обещания да ти върнат скъпото, което набързо — тези неща винаги се вършат набързо, в мъгла, под сурдинка — са ти отнели. Ако не беше станало, не бих повярвал — да се срути огромното здание на цял един свободен начин на живот до невъзможност да пътуваш, невъзможност да носиш лицето си открито, невъзможност да общуваш с многолико множество от хора без страх. Във „велика“ Британия вече „не се изключва въвеждането на ваксинационни паспорти“ (по изявлението на Борис Дж.). „Не се изключва“ е един много особен начин на изразяване, или по-скоро изрязване на същественото от мислите. Апофатична теология на мрака. Ваксинационният паспорт би се оказал един от най-лошите прецеденти за приключване с човешката свобода. Защото чрез задължителната инвазия в тялото пада и последната граница между личното пространство и „държавата“. С прости думи: легитимира се властта над тялото ти. Е, можеш да откажеш. Но ще ти откажат основни човешки права. Това именно е и дискриминация — условие да се ползваш от онова, което ти принадлежи по право. Последиците?

1) Поставят те пред избора: роб с права или свободен без права.

2) Унижава се умът чрез отказ от правото му на избор — отнемането на възможността да избереш, без да бъдеш дискриминиран заради избора си, означава и унижение — защото единият избор се награждава, а другият наказва.

3) Криминализира се здравето (нека припомним, че здравето не е полезно за производителите на лекарства). На тези, които мислят, че това е пресилено, предлагам да си сложат ваксина срещу всички заболявания. Ваксината е патерица. Задължителната патерица е криминализация на здравите крайници.

Но тези размисли са не за и против ваксините, те са за и заради дискриминацията, защото тя засяга и моята област — словото, думите, езика.

Докато дискриминацията не е въведена, думите все още имат свобода да назовават същностите. След „узаконяването“ ѝ и думите ще престанат да са думи. Ще бъдат маркери на избор, роби на идеология, вериги на зависимост.

Това, което се целѝ, не е законност. Не е сигурност (поне в размерите на „мерките“ не може да бъде сигурност, освен с допускането, че всички сме заразни, че всички сме опасни, че всички сме престъпници и сме виновни до доказване на противното, което доказване изобщо не е цел). Изисква се коленопреклонност. Маската е първият знак. Именно знак. Чисто функционално, нейната стерилност дори не играе роля при ритуалната ѝ употреба пред обществото. Скритата употреба не е от значение. Видимата — да. Затова тя е именно ритуална: ритуалът не е ритуал, ако е скрит в сърцето на човека. Там той е истина и същност.

Всъщност, огромното срутване бе причинено от всички, които поеха върху ума си „наратива“ и му повярваха. Мотивацията беше възможно най-унизителната: страхът за собствената кожа. Не, това не е укор към съвестната борба на медицината и благородните лекари срещу тази и която и да е друга болест. Това е в упор именно към „наратива“, към официално-монополната интерпретация, превърната в непрестанен обстрел на обсадени (locked down) човеци.

Гнилотата на света в случая бе във възможността реалността да изчезне и на нейно място да застане „интерпретираната реалност“. И мигом тя се раздвои на „официална, следователно истинна“, и „неофициална, следователно конспиративна, следователно фалшива“. Това е типична фразеология на „наратив“. За да бъде мощен, наративът трябва да притежава две качества: а) монопол и б) максимална простота. Сложното не върши работа в епохата на Туйто-р.

Срутването се състоя през интернет. То не би било възможно без интернет. Но интернет е нищо без нашия ум „вътре в интернет“. Дори да звучи невероятно, но интернет може да бъде преодолян също като тютюнопушенето. Интернет е необходимост само до един предел. Оттам нататък навлизаме в разкола на ума.

Животът в умствен разкол с реалността подари на ония, чието име и същност не бива да назоваваме, възможността за great reset. Но и сега тая власт е не в техните ръце, а в нашия щепсъл. Линията на търпимостта си има граница и тя се нарича offline. Тези които вървят по начертаната линия (toe the line), са on(the)line. Границите ще върнат нормалността — но не затворените „под карантина“ граници, а онези, които ние сами поставяме вътре в себе си.

Експериментът продължава. Докъде може да издържи човешкото търпение и безкрайна ли е глупостта, която работи срещу собствената свобода и разум? Ще видим.

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Other languages / Неща от Петко Хинов (и в негова памет)

« on: June 01, 2022, 04:13:09 AM »

 Преди месеци с тъга се простихме с Петко Хинов, който беше, цитирам "Литературен редактор, преводач, писател, поет, говорител, издател на аудиокниги, преподавател по езици (китайски, английски, румънски,църковнославянски, руски), певец.

Автор на статии, пътеписи, очерци и есета в областта на християнската философия и богословие, езикознанието и литературознанието, детска литература, поезия, богослужебна поезия и християнска литература и други.

Преводач от китайски , старокитайски, английски,  румънски, сръбски, руски, църковнославянски и български.

Художествен и богословски редактор на християнска литература.

Публикува преводи и авторски статии и книги в САЩ, Англия, Китай, Русия и Румъния."

 Предвид, че неведнъж вече се е случвало да се изгубват сайтове с ценно съдържание, които никога повече не виждат бял свят и предвид, че не знам след кончината му докога ще съществува сайта му, реших да споделям тук неща, които смятам за ценни, писани от него, за да останат по-дълго и да са по-разпространени онлайн, в негова памет.

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Other languages / За "празноскитници"-те

« on: June 01, 2022, 04:04:06 AM »

 

Празноскитници

 Днес ми попадна тази стара дума - "празноскитници". Ясно, че е в множествено число. В единствено ще е "празноскитник" ("празноскитничка", "празноскитниче"). Да добавя и останалите форми, като съм почнал - "празноскитнички", "празноскитничета".
 Примери с тази дума и сходната дума "празноскитане":

• "религиозни празноскитници" (по Достоевски)
• На 8 август 1946 г. е приет специален Закон за трудовото мобилизиране на безделниците и празноскитниците. Неговият член първи е: "Чл. 1. Всички работоспособни български поданици от двата пола, навършили 16-годишна възраст и не по-стари от 50, а за жените 45 години, които са се отдали на безделие, празноскитане или прекарват голяма част от времето си в питейни заведения, кафенета, барове, сладкарници и др. подобни, се мобилизират за задължителен обществен труд."

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Social network | SEO - Social network / Re: About the husbandcels

« on: June 01, 2022, 03:46:05 AM »

 Other words that mean the same as husbandcel:

• "marcel" (from "married incel")
• "deadbedroomer" (from "dead bed")

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Social network | SEO - Social network / Re: If the one and only female who ever likes you is 0/10, are you going to accept

« on: June 01, 2022, 03:34:42 AM »

 My honest answers:

"1. 0/10 because she's superobese (even can't stand up from the bed)" -- only if she's going to lose weight and has the real will to do it.

"2. 0/10 because she's disabled (can't walk for example)" -- if I am really in love with her. For example, she was my "oneitis" (the greatest pure, unforgettable person like Long Jun-Hong).

"3. 0/10 because she's in the jail (a serial killer or something else similarly terrible)" -- no! Too terrible.

"4. 0/10 because she's brain damaged (the lowest IQ you can imagine)" -- also no! Also too terrible to deal with it. The lowest IQ means even worse than some animals' IQ.

"5. 0/10 because she's having some deadly problem like HIV or something like it." -- hard to answer... depends on who is she. If she is my oneitis, nothing like this is going to stop me.

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Other topics / And again ultranationalism (极端民族主义), xenophobia (仇外) and so on

« on: May 31, 2022, 04:32:15 PM »

 Again from that one (Chen Jun-Xi, nicknamed "十鬼蛇王马"): "十鬼蛇王马
01:58
和平不是从天而降的，是流血牺牲换来的。
​没有硝烟的文化战争一直在攻击中国，西方一直想分裂污染中国，文化渗透生化攻击，肮脏的西方人从来不会停止恶行，为了保护祖国和花朵，必须将这些汉奸铲除杀掉。
来自 HUAWEI Mate 40 Pro "

My direct answer in his QQ space: " 并非每个西方国家都对中国怀有敌意。有许多对中国友好的西方国家。不是每个西方人都很脏。这种极端民族主义和仇外言论让外国人在中国的生活更糟，也让中国人在国外的生活更糟。我不知道你对西方人有什么问题，但试着理解，到处都有好人和坏人。我不想因为我来自西方，就让越来越多的中国人恨我。停止这种仇外言论。这对我们大家都不好。"

And adding to his QQ this: "看好我写了什么。如果再一次你说我们西方的人全部是”肮脏的西方人“， 我已经一点都不要教你了。在每一个国家有好的和不好的人。在中国也有好多垃圾人（你自己说有汉奸，我告诉你这边也有黑手党，妓女，骗钱的人，等。），所以不要因为几个坏的讨厌全部的民族。而且这个“铲除杀掉”已经非常像刑事犯罪。冷静点，不要毁了你的生活。"

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Social network | SEO - Social network / The Chad-overexaggeration

« on: May 31, 2022, 02:36:18 AM »

The Chad-overexaggeration

 

by Geser Kurultaev (a philosopher and an incelologist)

 When I was in the university learning philosophy I could choose many different topics for my Master's degree but I decided to focus on people (philosophical anthropology) and especially on the human's love. That's why I wrote a 107 pages graduation thesis "About the Different Aspects of Love". Since that time I felt it -- to be a loveless (an incel) is something that makes you to live a life in pain, a life without your full potential and a life which is often energy lacking. Later I decided to specialize even more about it and I focused on the pitiest group of human beings who have love problems -- the incels, i. e. the ones who are not just without love but even without sexual activity (keep in mind that having sexual activity is simpler and easier to achieve than to find a real love. The love is more complicated than its biological component called "sex" or "sexual intercourse" or "copulation"). That's why I decided to write even a book which may help incels (or at least around half of them) to escape the inceldom (i. e. to "ascend") and I think it helped already some of them (the title of the book is "How to Escape the Inceldom: A QUICK GUIDE TO Deincelization").
 In this article I'd like to write about a new topic which I discovered recently, it's about the "Chad" ("Chads") and, concretely, about the Chad-overexaggeration (which you can use as "Chadoverexaggeration" if it's more convenient for you).
 "Chad" in the incelosphere stands for the top most attractive males in the world (there are "Gigachads"/"Giga-Chads" too, but let's say that they're just an insignificant subset of the "Chad" category as far as their persentage is less than 1% all around the world). Many (if not most) of the incels assume that "only" the Chads are successful in love and/or in sexual activity and that all the females are choosing and having Chad boyfriends, Chad lovers and Chad husbands. This is what I called Chadoverexaggeration. It's something that distorts the reality, which is: there are not so many Chads in the world! The approximate amount of these males is around 15-20% (according to the 20:60:20 principle or the so-called Normal distribution).
 Well, imagine that even 25% of the males are Chads (including Giga-Chads, Chadlites, etc.) the rest of the males are mostly "Normans" (also known as "normies" in the inceloshpere) plus incels (involuntary celibates). Obviously the majority of the females are not going to choose an incel (except in some very rare cases known as "unicorns") and because the Chads are less than the females where is the majority of the women goes? The answer is: to the Normans. Why?
 1) Because of the mentioned already reason (there are much less Chads in the world than women)
 2) Some part of the women really do not like Chads (they make them feel insecure, for example or they just really prefer some low tier man like "Brad" (something around "Chadlite") or Norman).
 3) There is a significant part of females around the world who're going to focus on something beyond the looks (money, visas/citizenship, etc.), i. e. so-called "gold-diggers" who're 99.99% going to chose even an ugly man (with some incelish type of face and/or body) but not an average or poor Chad. In the incelosphere it's known as "betabuxx" (or "betabuxxing").
 4) Other cases which are not relevant to this article (for example forced marriages and so on).
 Every place is different but if you look around and notice carefully the couples around you, certainly you'll see that most of the them are "composed" of an average male (some of these Normans are even nearly incelish, i. e. low tier normies) and a different type of female. Even some of the Stacies ("Stacy" is a high tier female in the incelosphere's jargon) are mating with Normans and Brads but not with Chads.

The conclusions

In our world often the successful ones are not the best ones (or, at least, not only the best ones). There are plenty of successful average businessmen (for example, he/she has not economics knowledge or some another special knowledge and he's not from a rich family but somehow he runs a business). There are plenty of successful average fighters (for example, he/she has no impressive huge body and even no martial arts knowledge but still can win in most of the fights). And, at the end, there are plenty of successful in love (or at least in sexual activity) average males.
 So, this is it: you don't have to be the best one in order to succeed. All you need is an average level, efforts and good luck.